The lesson to be learned is that if you're Catholic, you must
be 100% Catholic or face all sorts of troubles; that's the Catholic brand of
Christian Charity, I guess.
Lennon Cihak is seventeen; he's
not gay, but he is a Catholic. And, during this last election cycle, when
Minnesota was trying to add discrimination to its state Constitution, Lennon
took to his Facebook page in support of marriage equality. He posted a picture
of himself with a political sign he altered to oppose the marriage
amendment on Minnesota's ballot.
And he got a bunch of 'Likes'.
What he also got, according to
his mother, Shana Cihak, was a smack in the face from Assumption Church in
Barnesville when he wasn't allowed to be confirmed. Naturally, as they are apt to
do, those wacky Catholic leaders are in denial mode.
Assumption
Reverend Gary LaMoine says Cihak was not denied confirmation because of
his Facebook pro-marriage equality stance it was because, well, you know, it
was, an "internal and pastoral" matter. Then LaMoine whined that
"some people chose to run out into the public and put it out in the
media."
But Shana Cihak says she was called into
a private conversation with the priest after the Facebook photo was posted and
was told her son wouldn't be allowed to complete confirmation.
Hmm, internal and pastoral
affair means that if you defy the Catholic Church by having your own mind, your
own opinion, because you've changed with the times, you are punished because
that's what God wants.
Lennon, who attends church
every week, and volunteered around the community in preparation for his
confirmation, says other students in his confirmation class 'Liked' the
photo on Facebook, but they were still allowed to be confirmed, and his mother
is angry that he is being singled out by the Church.
Lennon's father, Doug
Cihak, said the family is not allowed to participate in Communion at
Assumption, but he insists he bears no grudge against LaMoine, whom he feels is
just a "messenger" of the church.
And, to his credit, Lennon said
the experience hasn't altered his faith:
"I don't want the church to be put down. I don't want the Catholic religion to be put down. It's just the way the priest has things running. He's so strict. He won't loosen up about things."
Substitute Pope for priest and
you can see that this one church, this one priest, isn’t the problem, it's the
entire Catholic faith, which seeks to spread the word of God.
And that word, I’m guessing is
Punishment.
In a way I'm kind of thankful that Facebook didn't exist when I was a kid.
ReplyDeleteBut in my case, I point blank told the priest in the final interview that not only did I not believe in any of it, I didn't want to be confirmed.
They confirmed me anyhow - well, it took a largish cash donation to my person relief fund, but really?
yep, this is only 1 of 902837465 reasons why I left those asshats in 1977.
ReplyDeletemen only, no women/gays allowed, hatred of other belief systems, etc.
and to top it off, they rape children! and get away with it!
and they wonder why they are losing members!
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