Last week I posted about Kaitlyn Hunt, the Florida high
school senior who was arrested and then expelled from school for being in a
lesbian relationship with a high school freshman. Kaitlyn Hunt was charged with two felony counts of lewd and lascivious
battery on a child and could face up to fifteen years in jail and be labeled a
sexual predator for life. [see post HERE]
Now, I got a couple of
comments that this wasn’t about Kaitlyn being gay, even though the other girl’s
parents were completely against the relationship. And, of course, they waited
until about a minute after Kaitlyn turned eighteen to file charges against her.
I cannot help but think that if Kaitlyn Hunt had been an eighteen-year-old boy,
and star basketball player, those parents would have reacted differently.
But I digress. This isn’t
about the parents of the other girl, or straight relationships versus gay
relationships, it's about ruining a young girl’s life because she fell in love
with one of her teammates on the basketball team.
Kaitlyn Hunt was offered a
plea deal in the case, in which she would face two years of house arrest and a
year of probation, and her ‘crime’ would stay on her permanent adult record.
Kaitlyn Hunt said, ‘No.’
Julia Graves, the attorney for the Hunt family:
"Our client is a courageous teenager who is choosing
not to accept the current plea offer by the state of Florida. It’s a situation
of two teenagers who happen to be of the same sex involved in a relationship.
If this case involved a boy and a girl, we don't believe there'd be the media
attention to this case. Our client's a model citizen. She's been placed in an
environment of school with her classmates where they go to school together,
they have lunch together, and play on the same team (and are) allowed to have
communication and contact without barriers. Then when something develops
between the two of them as a result of this environment which is created by the
state, it leads to criminal prosecution."
Charles Sullivan, who's representing the as-yet-unnamed family
of the other teen, says his clients won’t comment yet, and he said he believed
the plea deal was a reasonable one and was surprised Hunt didn't take it.
Reasonable for a high school, student who fell in love with
another student to accept being labeled a predator for life?
As I said, had this been a straight relationship, I doubt it
would be national news. I doubt the other girl’s parents would have filed
charges. I doubt the boy would face being labeled a pedophile.
You can say this case has nothing to do with the other girl’s
parents’ homophobia, but it reeks of discrimination and bigotry and hate, to
me. Now, to be clear, if Kaitlyn Hunt wasn’t a high school student when she
began her relationship with the girl, then, yes, she should be punished. But
the fact is that, like any number of us, gay and straight, these two girls became
friends, fell in love, and started a relationship while they were both high
school students and one should not be punished for that.
I hope Kaitlyn sticks to her guns and fights this all the
way to the end. She was a high school girl who fell in love with another student
and anyone who thinks that makes her a predator or a pedophile just isn’t thinking
clearly.
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