Colton Underwood, former NFL player who has appeared
on several Bachelor series, coming out as gay to Robin Roberts on GMA:
"I learned in the Bible that gay is a sin. [And] I’ve
hated myself for a long time … There was a moment in L.A. that I woke up and I
didn't think I was gonna wake up. I didn't have the intentions of waking up. I
would have rather died than say, 'I'm gay,' and I think that was sort of my
wakeup call. Take back control. … I've ran from myself for a long time. I've
hated myself for a long time, and I'm gay. And I came to terms with that
earlier this year and I've been processing it. I think the next step in all of
this is letting people know. I'm still nervous but, yeah, it's been a journey
for sure. I'm emotional in such a good, happy, positive way. I'm the happiest
and healthiest I've ever been in my life and that means the world to me. I got
to a place in my personal life that was dark and bad and I can list a bunch of
different things, but they'd all be excuses. I think overall the reason why now
is because I got to a place where I didn't think I was ever going to share
this. I remember praying to God the morning I found out I was the Bachelor and
thanking him for making me straight. I remember that vividly, saying, 'Finally,
you're letting me be straight. Finally, you’re giving me a wife, a fiancée,
that I’m gonna have the kids, gonna have the house.' ‘But’ I do think I could
have handled it better. I just wish I wouldn't have dragged people into my own
mess of figuring out who I was. I genuinely mean that. But I also at the same
time, I can sit here and say, 'I'm sorry' to all those women. I can also sit
here and say, 'Thank you,' because without them and without The
Bachelor franchise, I don't know that this would have ever came out.
But if I had to go back and give anybody advice, I mean, you're gonna get through
it is what I would tell myself. Keep fighting for you. Keep choosing you every
morning. And when the time's ready or when the time's right and you're ready,
do it on your own time. I'm still the same Colton everybody met on TV. I'm
still the same Colton to my friends and my family, I just happen to be able to
share with people now all of me. And I am proud of that, you know? I am proud
to be gay.”
Church and sports. Two groups that do not welcome LGBTQ+
people; two groups that ridicule and demean LGBTQ+ people.
How many times do we have to hear that a gay man or woman,
not to mention trans person, has contemplated suicide because of the Bible or a
teammate?
It’s enough. This man went on TV to “win” a wife to prove to
himself that he wasn’t gay and could be “all right,” when he should have known
he was all right to begin with.
Welcome out, Colton.
PS Now I hear Colton is turning his coming out into a
reality show for Netflix. I guess staying in the closet with no job prospects or
coming out and getting back on TV for the coins may have helped in his decision
to come out. Or that’s just the cynic in me.
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I agree that US police (and other police forces throughout the world) need to be sensitised to the issues of race, gender and other differences and taught how to treat those they are stopping (for whatever reason). But what has appalled me for years is the militarisation of the US police. What police force needs tanks? They are not going to be facing the Russian army, just US citizens and people longing to be US citizens. So why military grade weapons? Like all public officials (and I include politicians in that) the police are servants of the people not their masters.
ReplyDeleteHey, if Colton Underwood can do a reality series that may reach a few more bigots who don't understand LGBTQ+ reality, then I don't begrudge him financial recompense for doing so.
ReplyDeleteI love Jen Psaki. Love her.
ReplyDeleteBarack, always on point. ALWAYS.
Nicole Wallace confirms what we all know. Don't believe me? Look at Kim Reynolds.
I'm torn about Colton. He's literally a xtianist wearing a rainbow flag. He stalked that girl. I don't know if I'm gonna watch his show. It has Gus Kenworthy, so that alone would make me watch...
XOXO
(Barack Obama)
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I just can't with Colton. Did you see the one about the two women in Tennessee who tried to pay for gift cards with a counterfeit $1 MILLION BILL at the Dollar General? Neither woman was handcuffed, thrown on the grown, cops on their back, legs, knee in the neck. Instead, the bill was confiscated, put into evidence and the two were issued VERBAL trespass warnings in relation to the store. George Floyd was murdered over a counterfeit $20.
ReplyDeleteJen Psaki, what a breath of fresh air (and intelligence and professionalism) after the last four years.
ReplyDeleteBut, is anyone else exhausted?
If you haven't heard this, I guess it might stop your presses: Gus Kenworthy is Colton's guide to gaydom.
ReplyDeleteKim Reynolds was never a Christian.
Colton - yay, another over-privileged white guy 'bravely' comes out of the closet. Sorry. Not carrying a banner for him. The fact that he then takes it to Netflix and make money off it? More exploitation. Happy is living his authentic life... but??? Is he?
ReplyDeleteIowa sucks. You are welcome in Iowa if you are white and straight. That state is a toilet clogged with racists, homophobes and xtians pretending their sh*t don't stink. It do. It do do.
I LOVE JEN. She nailed Fox and the Catholic news guys this week. Best appointment Biden made. I want her to run a news network. She is amazing. Quick. Deadly. Always on target. Adore.
Nicole Wallace - smart. And right on. Voter suppression laws are the product of losing and gaining the upper hand. F 'em. VOTE. NO MATTER WHAT. Get them out. The Repugs have to be destroyed. Period.
Obama has an opportunity to go in and use his power and wealth to help fix things. He needs to end his vacation and get in the trenches and get to work. He has powerful gifts and 8 years of this presidency are not enough. He needs to be the face of reform - he can do the job. Jimmy Carter never stopped serving communities. Obama needs to do more than just sit on his laurels. Love him... but he has work to do.
Thanks for the feed. Sorry so late.
CRUSH THE GQP! FUCK DA POLICE! FUCK WHITE PRIVILEGE!
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