Jonathan Bailey, who stars in Netflix’s Bridgerton,
on being gay in the entertainment industry:
“The most conservative conversations I’ve had about me being
honest about my sexuality in this day and age have come from gay men in the
industry, ‘Oh, no, you can’t come out. You shouldn’t really do that If you do
that, you’re going to have to…’ They’re either people who work in publicity, or
there’s also been casting directors who have put the call into my agent to say,
‘Just so that you know, the way that this is going to be sold is that it’s a
gay story written by gay writers for gay actors. So, by just taking the role…' This
was at a stage where perhaps I was coming to terms with my own sexuality, I
hadn’t necessarily hidden it, but I’ve never been not honest about it. It’s just
there had never been a need to talk about it. There’s a sense of shame, I
think, that’s palpable throughout gay men within the industry. But then there’s
also this heteronormative, heterosexual understanding of sexuality. So, in my
generation, the out gay actors are now being poached, and you get a script sent
through and they’ll say, ‘Must be comfortable with talking about sexuality.’ So
that is in one way a brilliant thing, because it’s saying we’re not encouraging
anyone not to talk about sexuality, but it’s also showing that sexuality is
becoming a commodity. That actually there needs to be this sense that studios
are hiring gay actors to play either gay actors or straight.”
It’s 2021 and still we have people being told to hide
themselves and stay in the closet.
Get over it. Gay people exist. We work in every field, even
TV and movies; you can’t not see us, so stop trying to make us
disappear.
Sidenote: is he totally adorable or what?
Side-sidenote: I have recently had an opening for a new
Husband-In-My-Head and this British bite might just be the perfect thing.
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