Andrzej Stękała, Polish ski jumper, coming out through
a moving tribute to his partner of eight years, Damian, who passed away in
November.:
"I wondered for a long time if I would ever find the
strength to write these words. For years, I lived in the shadow of fear, in
hiding, afraid that who I really am could destroy me. Today, however, I don't
want to run away anymore. I want you to really know me. I'm gay. For years, I
hid it from the world—from you, from the media, and sometimes even from myself.
[But Damian] changed my life. He was my mainstay, support, my biggest
supporter. Together we shared life, passions, joys and difficult moments. He was
everything to me—my home, my heart. We made love in silence, hiding our love
from the world to protect what was most important to us. I can't describe the
pain that overwhelmed me [when Damian died.] The world we were building
together fell to pieces. Every day without him is a struggle, but at the same
time a reminder of how infinitely I loved and how much I was loved. I don't
want to hide who I am anymore. I am myself—a man who loved and still loves. And
I know that he would like me to continue to live in harmony with myself. Until
the end of my days, I will carry his name in my heart."
So sad he couldn’t be himself, and show himself to the
world, while his love was still alive.
But perhaps he will have a second chance.
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Excellent post of Truth Telling.
ReplyDeleteIt is a terrifying time for feds and contractors.
ReplyDeleteThese people are inspiring.
ReplyDeleteJim, Jamie, Caroline, Tim. All calling out the fuckery that is this administration. And Bowen and Andrzej, being out and proud. We need more people like them.
Especially now.
XOXO
Sixpence
Will the these truths set us free?
ReplyDeleteVolumes of truth, and still so many in America don't get it. Words are fine, but maybe it's about time we start putting our boots up their Conservative assholes.
ReplyDeleteThe Pterodactyl in Chief is refusing to pay over £100,000 in court costs in a case, he initiated, this side of the pond. That's how much he cares about the rule of law if it is not in his favour.
ReplyDeleteWho could forget Steppenwolf's Caroline (are you ready for the outlaw world?)?
Thanks, Bob.
ReplyDeleteBowen Yang is the bomb! He's capable of portraying any character they throw at him. That's talent. As for the rest? We need more people in powerful positions to speak the truth, to hold the line, to uphold some sense of normalcy. And I include Andrejz and Yang there; they both have more influence than they think.
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