Cody Conner, a Virginia
Beach father of three, taking on the bigotry of Virginia’s governor and the
schools boards in the state:
“You are never going to find a right way to do
the wrong thing and Governor Youngkin’s policies are wrong. Never in history
have the good guys been the segregationist group pushing to legislate identity.
Never in history have the good guys been closely connected with and supported
by hate groups like the Proud Boys. And the good guys don’t put Hitler quotes
for inspiration on the front of their newsletters.
News flash: they’re the bad guys. They’re the
bad guys supporting bad policy. And if you support the same bad policy, guess
what? You’re one of the bad guys too. When you look around and see only
the wrong people supporting what you’re doing, you’re doing the wrong thing. Now
you’ve heard some speakers come up here and say how they love these kids but
won’t accept them. I’m here to tell you that if your love makes somebody
not want to be alive, it’s not love. That’s not love.
Some of you are going to get up here and say
‘it’s the law.’ Well, I remind you that slavery and segregation used to be the
law here in Virginia.”
Conner was referring to the Youngkin’s “model policies” for
public schools that require students to use the bathroom and sports team that
matches their assigned sex; requires written instruction from parents
for a student to use names or gender pronouns that differ from the official
record, meaning that teacher can deadname students—refer to them by their prior
name—if paperwork isn’t filled out by the parents; requires the school to
inform parents if a student is questioning their identity.
Conner started speaking out at school board meetings after moving his family to Virginia Beach right before Youngkin’s policies passed. The Conner’s moved
from rural Virginia to Virginia Beach so their 13-year-old trans daughter, who came out a year ago, would be in a school system that would be supportive, but
that all changed because of Youngkin.
And Cody Conner ain’t playing.
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