Brandon Boulware, a Kansas City attorney and father
of four, speaking out at the Missouri statehouse hearing on Resolution 53, a proposal to effectively ban
transgender athletes in high school from participating in girls’ sports:
"One thing I often hear when transgender issues are
being discussed is, 'I don't get it. I don't understand.’ And I would expect
some of you to have said that and to feel the same way. I didn't get it,
either. For years, I didn't get it. I forced my daughter to wear boy clothes,
get short haircuts and play on boy sports teams. Why did I do this? To protect
my child. ... and, truth be told, I did it to protect myself as well. I wanted
to avoid those inevitable questions as to why my child did not look and act
like a boy. [But] my child was miserable. No confidence, no friends, no
laughter. I can honestly say this—I had a child who did not smile. [But one
day, everything changed.] I got home from work, and my daughter and her brother
were in the front lawn. She had sneaked on one of her older sister's play
dresses, and they wanted to go across the street to play with the neighbors'
kids. She asked me if she went inside and put on boy clothes, could she then go
across the street and play. And it was then that it hit me. My daughter was
equating being good with being someone else. I was teaching her to deny who she
is. As a parent, the one thing we cannot do—the one thing—is silence our
child's spirit. And so on that day, my wife and I stopped silencing our child's
spirit. It was immediate, a total transformation . . . I now have a confident,
smiling happy daughter. She plays on a girls' volleyball team. She has
friendships. She's a kid. As a parent, the
one thing we cannot do—the one thing—is silence our child's spirit. I
need you to understand that this language, if it becomes law, will have real
effects on real people," Boulware said. "It will affect my daughter.
It will mean she cannot play on the girls' volleyball team or dance squad or
tennis team. I ask you, please don't take that away from my daughter or the
countless others like her who are out there. Let them have their childhoods.
Let them be who they are."
This is how you parent.
Bravo, sir, bravo!
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Ron Johnson is playing to his constituents -- no surprise there. I think Birx really was trapped between a rock and a hard place, and I think she did a fairly good job at telegraphing her discomfort at the time. We all knew that she thought what Trump was saying was bollocks. Kudos to Boulware but I can imagine the right-wing responses to those remarks.
ReplyDeleteThe orange ogre was never president... yes, a new conspiracy theory. Eat it. EAT IT. That said. The orange ogre will never do anything where he doesn't get pleasure or money. He amply demonstrated he cares zero F's about anybody other than himself.. he would throw anybody under a literal bus. I just can't wait to see the little whiney pants prinze behind bars.
ReplyDeleteRon Johnson is an embarrassment. WI better wise up. Of course, the ARE racist as F, so he is actually a good representation for those who do not live in Milwaukee or Madison. Seriously? Rural people in this country are no better than the south.
F the Pope. (Are you sensing a theme?) OMG. When that old queen came out and had the balls to say that? Someone needs to take a wrecking ball to the Vatican. It's way past time. What a stupid institution. One step forward and seven steps back.
Okay. Birx is a woman of a certain generation. I understand her answer... and so do you. I know you do because you are empathetic and highly intelligent. I get that you're mad at her... but you know they all had to walk a tight rope around that fat azz in order to just keep the ball in play. That they were effective at all is amazing. I mean, that azzhat had people taking medications that made no sense and were dangerous and injecting bleach! So... give her a break.
Brandon Boulware... I want you to be my Dad. That was really beautiful. And fell on deaf ears, of course. But what a lovely story.
Thanks for all the lovely stories. Kizzes, Bob. You rock.
that first guy - WOW! RIGHT ON! but the GQP and the religious freaks don't care.
ReplyDeletedr. scarf & johnson need to STFU NOW!
thing #45 did his own PSA, but then said he "respected those who didn't want to get vaxxed". WRONG MESSAGE, ASSWIPE!
Brandon Boulware gave inspiring testimony that everyone should listen to and learn from!
ReplyDeleteFuck Frankie and fuck the Catholic church. Yeah, I'm nice like that. Oh, and fuck every racist Repug, too, while we're at it. They preach to the choir because all they care about is 'optics'.
ReplyDeleteDeborah should shut it. She lost all credibility when she stood by IMPOTUS2 and said nothing. Not even after he left. Spineless.
And I watched Mr. Boulware's speech. Touching, heartfelt, true. Lucky parent of a lucky daughter.
And I love Jen. I want her aplomb and quick reactions. After all the bimbos that Cheeto trotted out, it's great to have an intelligent, articulate person doing the press for the White House.
XOXO
Jen Psaki rocks!!
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Does anyone really think that Trumpelstiltskin will do anything that doesn't make him coins....lots of them? And yes he probably needs an engraved invitation addressed to the current president of the US Donald Jesus (y'all knew it began with a J) Trumpelstiltskin
ReplyDeleteBrandon Boulware, Elton John, Jen Psaki. These are names worth repeating. The others can go... Well, you know what they can go do.
ReplyDeleteHats off to Mr. Boulware. Your daughter is lucky to have a dad like you!
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ReplyDeleteIt’s so sickening in 2021 to see anyone, much less a politician using racism as away to keep his base, but then after the last four years …sigh.
Luckily, I can go back to Brandon Boulware and see people changing and accepting our differences.
@uptonking
To hear what Johnson said, and then to hear him say he isn’t sorry, that’s what he means, is disgusting, and I would hope Wisconsin doesn’t wanna be see as a bunch of racist cheeseheads and will vote to remove him from office at first chance.
I have long been proponent of Fuck the Pope and the Catholic Church. A more greedy corporation does not exist. A more corrupt regime does not exist. Amore hypocritical group of lying rapists does not exist.
Birx? Nope, she gets no pass. I wonder how many people died because she sat on her hands and just gave us constipated face. I want people to have the balls to stand up to the tyrants and the bullies and the liars. Would that have cost her her position? Yes, but it would have been a cost worth paying.
I wonder if Boulware’s story might change just one mind, because then maybe THAT mind could change another and so on.
Have a lovely weekend. Xoxo
@AM
I hope people who are less filled with hare, and perhaps not in power, hear Brandon Boulware, and work toward getting more equal minded folks in office.
I’m with you about the Racist and the Goose-stepper.
@Debra
I sat here and cried listening to him speak.
@Siz
Me, you, re the Catholic Church and Pope Frankie. Yes, kindly fuck all the way off.
And we should all have the heart and the ability to change like Brandon Boulware and possess the common sense of a Jen Psaki.
@TDM
She takes no prisoners!
@Helen
Luckily, I think his time has passed, I think more people are understanding he is all ego and vendetta and that gets nothing done for the good of the country.
@Mitchell
PREACH!
@Treaders
That is how you parent. You learn, you grow, you do what’s best for your children.
Loser #45 will always want an invite.
ReplyDeleteWhy is anybody surprised Ron Johnson shit away half of his brain?
Birx bites.
Brandon Boulware is a good father. We need more like him.
I 100% support anyone's choice including transgenders. But I think it is unfair that they are competing against born females in sport
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@J
ReplyDeleteBeing trans is not a choice, and trans women are women and trans men are men.