Another One: Teddy Molina

I remember being bullied in junior high and high school. It was, at times, unbearable; actually, it was always unbearable, but, somehow I made it through. Most of the time, it was one guy who'd call me names, or pretend to shove me.

Teddy Molina had it far worse.

He was relentlessly teased, taunted and bullied by students known as the "Wolf Pack" for being mixed race that he ended up leaving his school.

Then he took his life last week with a hunting rifle.

And it didn't stop after his suicide. An anti-bullying rally at his school, Flour Bluff High school, ended in violence; an online threat about students carrying guns led to a police presence on campus. And yet it's only now that parents are finally stepping up and demanding that something be done about bullying.

Teddy Molina's troubles began when he attended Flour Bluff Intermediate School in Corpus Christi; he was part Korean and part Hispanic, and that, of course, was reason enough to target him.

Molina joined the football team; he was taunted by players and coaches looked the other way. Bullies repeatedly told Teddy they would kill him. His sister even had to rescue Teddy when a group of students cornered him at a taco stand and  threatened to jump him.

Because, you know, he's Korean and Hispanic.

And Teddy kept silent about the bullying, hoping to spare his family the stories of his torment because of his ethnicity. Still, his mother heard what was happening and filed complaints with the school.

And nothing was done. In fact, Lynn Kaylor, spokesperson for the one teach at Flour Bluff School District, when asked, after Teddy Molina's suicide, if the district had a problem with bullying, answered, “No, ma’am, we don’t.”

And yet, Rita McKenzie removed her two children from the district’s junior high school in February due to bullying, saying,  "They know about this problem. They ignore it and do nothing to try to fix it. I don't feel like my kids are safe here. I just don't.”

Superintendent Dr. Julie Carbajal disputed that characterization, saying the district starts anti-bully efforts early: “We have strong policies and procedures for bullying and we have followed [those]." And she adds that in ten years as superintendent, she had not seen any similar incidents to that of Teddy Molina's bullying, and said his loss was devastating: “We want to be able to mourn Teddy ourselves and we want to do something for him in his memory. We’d love to have a memoriam. But we've just not been able to bridge that kind of discussion with the family at this point, and we’re respecting their privacy until they’re ready to talk to us.”

I have a suggestion, Dr. Carbajal. Instead of having a memoriam for Teddy Molina, have an investigation into the "Wolf Pack" that bullied him and remove them from the school. Have an investigation into the coaches who turned a blind eye to the bullying and remove them from the schools.

Save your memorials and do something to stop this from ever happening to another student.

That might be, might be, a fitting tribute to Teddy's memory.

For the whole story of Teddy's bullying, his suicide, and the aftermath, go HERE.