We don't get HBO, so I never saw the first season of the series, Looking, until AT&T gave us a Free Preview, and I recorded all of the episodes. it was a bit grimy, for my tastes, which is different than gritty, which I would have liked, but we aren't here to discuss that.
It's a simple question:
Clockwise from the top left: Jonathan Groff, Murray Bartlett, Frankie J. Alvarez, Raul Castillo or Daniel Franzese.
Which ... one.