Mayor Mary McAngus is the 78-year-old recently elected mayor
of Pomeroy, Ohio. Well, to be fair, I should say she was the recently elected mayor, because Mary McAngus resigned last weekend
after the town uproar caused over her choice of words when talking about a
village police officer.
Queer.
McAngus used the word queer and
other offensive slurs when talking about Officer Kyle Calendine—who was hired
as a part-time officer last fall—and complained to anyone and everyone who
would listen about his partner visiting him at the police station, even though
other police spouses, of the heterosexual variety, often stop by. Police Chief Mark Proffitt instantly stood up for Calendine, calling the mayor’s behavior
offensive, and, well, kind of illegal, perhaps opening up the town to a
lawsuit.
McAngus, who has been in office just weeks, suddenly isn’t talking,
as happens to most bigots when they’re exposed, but Kyle Calendine called the
mayor’s language and attitude disappointing: “It’s disappointing because, you
know, she’s the mayor. It makes it hard coming to work knowing that someone’s
running you into the ground like that.”
Proffitt submitted a six-page sworn statement, warning the
council that the mayor’s behavior could get the village of 2,000 residents
sued. He says McAngus called him into her office two weeks after Calendine was
hired, said she’d heard “that Kyle was a queer” and asked what the chief was
going to do about it. Nothing, he replied, because that would be discrimination.
“She stated
‘I don’t like a Queer working for the Village, I might be old-fashioned, but I
don’t like it.’ ” Proffitt wrote in the statement.
Old-fashioned?
Must be how they say bigoted in Pomeroy. Old-fashioned also meant that she wasn’t
going to stop. She continued making crude comments about Calendine and his
partner to police department employees. She asked another newly hired officer
if he knew that Calendine was gay and whether that bothered him; when the
officer said no, she asked him if he, too, was gay, and smiled and stared at
him until the uncomfortable officer said he had to get back to work. So, Little Old Bigot Mary McAngus is also a bully, it seems.
Not old-fashioned, just filled with hatred.
Pomeroy Village Administrator Paul Hellman said that, while
meeting with McAngus, “Mary began telling me that we had a gay guy working in
the police department and she had to run off Kyle’s boyfriend.”
The interesting thing is, that Mary McAngus was involved in
hiring Kyle Calendine, but turned on him afterwards, possibly because she then
learned he was gay. Seems he was the perfect man for the job until she found
out he had a boyfriend.
Mary McAngus resigned on February 10.
Kyle Calendine called it a huge weight off his shoulders: “It
was a big sigh of relief to know that the actions were no longer going to be
happening here at the office. That I could now work without the added stress,
and it felt great.”
Funny, isn’t it, though, the little town of
Pomeroy, Ohio, fights discrimination as soon as it begins. Folks there stood up
for the victim, and against the bigoted bully, and saw the mayor out of her
job.
America, why not take the small town example and
use it nationwide? Why not have everyone stand up for those people, for whatever
reason, who are being discriminated against and demand that it be stopped;
demand that the bigots and bullies be removed from their jobs.
If Pomeroy can do it ….
Did you watch RuPaul last night? One of the contestants talked about his grandmother bought him his first wig. Glad to hear about this town.
ReplyDeleteGreat post! I think it's important that stories like this swirl about the internet so positive ideas are exchanged. "Old fashioned" indeed!
ReplyDeleteI've often told people who ask me what they can do to help "the gay cause" to just stand. Take a stand and stand up to be counted for what they believe.
ReplyDeletebeeyotch! attitudes like hers need to die sooner rather than later.
ReplyDeleteI am proud of this little town that I have actually been too and through. BTW, Meigs County is also the honorary capital of pot production for Ohio. I think Mayor McHomophobe needs to toke up and chill.
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