Friday, February 03, 2012

Good News Friday: After 31 Years, Danny And John Are Getting Married

Manhattan Assemblyman Danny O’Donnell has worked for years as one of New York’s most vocal advocates for marriage equality and, finally, just last week, he got his own marriage license so he, and his partner of thirty-one years, John Banta, are finally free to get married.
For years, O’Donnell was at the center of marriage fight. He was the first openly gay man in the New York State Assembly, and introduced five bills to legalize gay marriage over the years.
Never say die. That's the lesson we learned from Danny O'Donnell.
And because he worked so hard,m and so long, for the rights of gay citizens of New York to marry, he and Banta will be throwing quite the elaborate wedding.
The guest list reads like a who’s who of New York politics and invitations have gone out to more than 400 guests.
Danny O'Donnell: “I invited almost all of the members of the Assembly and almost all the members of the Senate who voted yes to come to my wedding, which, when you add their spouses, that’s a lot of people. So they were invited, and most of them are coming.”
His won't be the first high-profile gay wedding--Mayor Michael Bloomberg married two of his top aides at Gracie Mansion--and it will not be the last--City Council Speaker Christine Quinn plans to marry this spring.
And his won;'t be the only high-profile same-sex marriage in his own family: his sister, Rosie O’Donnell, is also engaged.
But no one worked as hard and as long for the right to marry.
Congratulations gentlemen. And Best wishes.

Just For Giggles: Mittsy Puts The Moron In Mormon

Mittsy Romney:  "I like being able to fire people who provide services to me....If someone doesn't give me the good service I need, I want to say I am going to get somebody else to provide that service to me."

Mittsy Romney: "I should tell my story. I'm also unemployed."

Mittsy Romney: "Corporations are people, my friend."

Mittsy Romney: "I'm running for office, for Pete's sake. We can't have illegals."

Mitt Romney: "I saw my father march with Martin Luther King." This turned out to be a complete lie.

Mittsy Romney: "I believe in an America where millions of Americans believe in an America that's the America millions of Americans believe in. That's the America I love."
Mittsy Romney: "Don't try and stop the foreclosure process. Let it run its course and hit the bottom."

And, more recently:

Mittsy Romney: "I'm in this race because I care about Americans. I'm not concerned about the very poor. We have a safety net there. If it needs repair, I'll fix it. I'm not concerned about the very rich, they're doing just fine. I'm concerned about the very heart of the America, the 90 percent, 95 percent of Americans who right now are struggling."

When pressed, which means someone told him he was putting his thousand dollar shoes into his mouth again, Mittsy added: "Well you had to finish the sentence...I said 'I'm not concerned about the very poor that have a safety net but if it has holes in it, I will repair them.' The challenge right now--we will hear from the Democrat party the plight of the poor. And there's no question it's not good being poor and we have a safety net to help those that are very poor. But my campaign is focused on middle-income Americans."

I don't care about the poor.
It's not good being poor.

Seriously, and he wants to run the country?

PR: All-Stars: Muse To.....MY EYES!!!!

Gathering in Central Park, the designtestants were told that they must scour the area looking for a muse, and the buy the clothes off the muses back, and turn those leftovers into some sort of fashion forward gift to the world. It was gonna get ugly, and I'm not just talking Mila's personality or Jerell's look.
Let's rip.....


KARA
She seemed the most stunned at having to ask people for their clothes, which she pronounced clo-thes, in her clipped Aussie way, but it was just that accent that helped get one guy to strip off his fuchsia Polo. Though I don't think anything would have happened to him, because Fuchsia Polo is a standard Homo Uniform. Ask anyone.
Burdened down with her clo-thes pickings, Kara heads off to Mood, where she overspends, and begins asking the other designers to toss some change her way. Mila...she's a bitch...stands off to one side...refusing to help. This is a recurring theme.
Kara's look on the runway was dubbed "understated chic" by Kara. Bob in Smallvile simply dubbed it "boring." 
A plain pair of pants topped with some kind of T-shirt-y, terry-cloth-y vest, and what looked like a swimsuit top. If that's fashion forward, I'll head back to the park, strip to my skivvies and call it a day.
The judges called it Safe.


MILA
She instantly starts whining about "casual park attire" but I think she was mostly concerned because it would be hard to find blacks, whites, and grays. Plus, there was that whole talking to people thing.
Mila goes nuts over the designers helping other designers in any way. She  muttered things like "It's a competition" and "I wouldn't help." I don't think she gets the concept of help, and Karma. I seriously can picture her stepping over a dying nun on the sidewalk in order to be first in line at Starbucks for her half-caf-half-decaf-double-Frappucino-with-soy-and-whipped-cream.. 
But let's talk about her look, not her lack of personality, compassion, or heart.
Her looks, I mean? Take a look-see at every single other post I've written this season because, once again, it was black and gray, with grey and white stripes. It's like the twin sister of every other thing she makes, and yet she called this week's look "hip and beautiful." 
This one-note blunder is really starting to make my ears bleed. And yet she's safe.


KENLEY
She was worried that New Yorkers might drop an F-bomb or two at her if she asked for their clothes, because that's what New Yorker's do; except, in Kenley's case, she throws cats...you know....like she did at her boyfriend a couple of years back...threw a cat at him....in a fight. Doesn't anyone read the gossip pages but me??
Anyway, Kenley was mostly quiet this episode--except for one moment that I will discuss at the end of this post lest I start laughing again and become incapable of finishing. But she was quite the opinionated one, offering advice to all the designers on shoes and belts, and helping Kara finish her pants.
That last bit sent Michael scurrying into the sewing room to report of Mila that Kenley practically made Kara's pants for her. I swear, watching those two kvetch over a Singer made me think of Almira Gulch and the Little Dog, too. Or maybe he looked more Flying Monkey? Yeah, Flying Monkey.
Kenley's look was Basic Kenley. Girly, and flirty and flouncy and poofy and....Wait a minute? Oscar de la Renta, oh no, she di'in't! It was a new Kenley. Sleek and chic.  Black and white--though not boring Mila B&W--with pops of color. Kenley said it was "perfect for work...or at a bar...or at dinner." My one complaint, it might have been perfect for making dinner because those pink pieces looked a little pot-holder to me.
Still, it was very nice, yet very Safe.


JERELL

I used to like Jerell in his season, but during All-stars he is all hot mess and no substance. All snark and no back up; all ego and totally wrong.
His muse was a giant tie-dyed skirt. Pretty fabric, it can go a lot of directions. And it did. It went tasteless. He made some sort of Oriental Rug looking shoulder piece, with a matching Oriental Rug waistband. He paired that with a striped bra, a mile-and-a-half of bare skin, and then the tie-dyed skirt. Jerell said he saw a lot of exposed skin in the park--again, men doffing shorts is not fashion--but declared that his look would not be slutty.
WRONG!!
I thought Anthony summed it up best when he said, "It looks like someone is Coming To America." But Austin saw Anthony's snark, and raised him an, "It's one of the most tasteless designs I've ever seen."
Jerell said he would go Top Three. No, scratch that, he was gonna win.
Cue ominous tribal drumming.
Kara said his look was "a lot of conversation" though all I heard it say was "WTF?" Jerell, however, heard the words, "Sexy, young Jerell" in his head. Which makes me think Jerell is legally deaf; and perhaps blind, too. I mean, parts were cool. The shoulder piece of carpet matched the waist piece of carpet. But the bra looked like it was a last minute decision so the model wouldn't go boobies on the runway.
Isaac rightly said it looked like a costume from The Lion King, albeit one of the scrapped costumes. He liked the mix of patterns but that three miles of bare stomach was just too much. Guest judge Sean Avery--hockey player and devout fashionista...which we decipher because he wears nerd glasses with pink frames and speaks in monotone--said it looked like a cross between Lady Gaga and Gwen Stefani at Burning Man on acid. And that wasn't a compliment. Georgina liked the shoulder detail, but the rest of the look was confusing, though she liked Jerell's thought process. Note to Georgina: it's Project Runway, not Project Thought Process.
Jerell gets saved by a carpet swatch.



MICHAEL
The bug eyes he used last week are gone, and sad eyes are back. Michael wanders the park like a homeless guy looking for a sandwich, or a bottle of Mad Dog. No one will give him anything, until some poor girl, forced to wear a crocheted poncho, seizes the opportunity and gives him her clothes.
He said he was inspired, and that the light came to him, and chickens hatched and Jesus came back. I'm guessing if Jesus really did come back, he would have come model-stomping across the Central Park Reservoir and smacked Michael in the head, while saying, "A poncho? Really, Michael? What would Diana von Furstenberg do?"
And sadly, back in the workroom, his muse has gone, leaving Michael to take the poncho...dear Jesus....and make cap sleeves out it that automatically scream DOILY, and then AUF'D.
So he scracthed the doilies, and dumped the ponchos, and turned shorts into a shirt and a shirt into a...diaper. I mean, WTH was that? Swimsuit? Granny pants? Diaper?
Kara called it "daring," though I think she meant it like, "How dare you?"
WTF was it? According to Michael, "It's refreshing." Like something you might put on after a bath, or to wear to bed? Mila petted her little lap dog and said, "She's very elegant." Mila's an idiotic bitch.
Georgina dubbed it way too short, while Angela asked the obvious question, WTF is it? Isaac was a'scurred of the saggy top, and stammered, "Really?" And yet Sean Avery's only complaint was that it was too bare and needed a coat or something. Like a skirt, maybe? Like the rest of an outfit, perhaps?
Michael, sorry to say, should have gone for this tragic mess.


ANTHONY
This challenge was made for him. He said he'd been getting "daggers" from people because of his ginormous personalty, but he knew that running through the park asking people to strip for money--which I think is a crime even in New York--was right up his alley. His first muse was a woman wearing what Monodo called a "trippy polyester" dress. He took that, and some t-shirts, and then he met Diego, or as Anthony called him, "Hot white guy." And Anthony charmed the pants right off him. People laughed and giggled and pointed as Diego doffed his shorts and then touched himself gratuitously. I didn't understand that. I mean, that kinda stuff happens in the park all the time, when men get down to their skivvies and adjust their junk. I mean, I haven't done that....I HAVEN'T!
:::foot stomp head snap:::::
Back to business. Anthony opts to forgo the gowns for which he is known, and make a cape jacket, some hot pants, and a blouse. Fine, until that morphs into pants, a cardigan and a blouse, which morphs into a jacket, which becomes a onesie jumper. The trippy fabric he bought from his muse is left to become a purse and people worry that Anthony isn't following the rules.
"I know how to meet the requirements of the challenge."
Cue ominous disco drumming.
Where is his inspiration on the catwalk? No trippy pattern anywhere except on that purse. It was boring. it looked like something Joan Crawford would have slipped on after she got out of the pool, just having beaten Cristina in swimming laps. I mean, a turban? A f%&$@ing turban?
Angela was concerned that just the bag and the top and the turban were his co-opted fabrics, which meant he didn't follow the requirements of the challenge, Anthony! But she still thought the model looked beautiful. Sean Avery said he's do a "double back" if she passed him on the street. I think he was high when he said that. Or maybe stupid. Isaac also called it lovely, but lazy, and agreed with Georgina that Anthony failed to follow the rules.
It was Goodbye Anthony, who was last seen in the park trying to get Diego back into his pants.


RAMI
As always, he plays nice with others. In fact, he's so polite and so nice, I worry about him in the park asking strangers to remove their clothes. I wished I had been there to show him how it's done. Not that I've.......I HAVEN'T!!
In the end, he gets a kind of retro looking man's shirt, and a man's jacket, and will swap those out into women's wear.
I think he was on a roll, until he walked up to the Neiman Marcus accessory wall and picked a hat to put on his model. I kept thinking, "A hat? No, Rami, don't do it."
But he did. And he declared his look to be "beautiful, feminine, and elegant." And it was. It didn't pack the Wow, because the colors were subdued, but his craftsmanship was perfect. The trim on the shorts matched the trim on the ruffled top. The vest did nothing for me and the hat seemed out of place.
But it's perfectly made, and beautiful and feminine and elegant.
My only real complaint? What happened to the tank top Rami?
Georgina loved the trim and the attention to detail, and the exquisite tailoring. That's one thing about Rami, his clothes always look finished. Isaac loved the look, but missed the drama, while Angela liked the idea of the new take on a  woman's suit. Sean Avery  didn't like the hat. As soon as he saw the hat, it was over for him. I bet he owns that hat.
Rami gets a Third Place finish this week.


AUSTIN
He seems to be channeling one of the more fey characters from 1969's "Hello Dolly" by rocking the straw hat. He also seemed to spend most of his time not looking for muses, but cruising the park.
Finally, out of all the people in the park he might find muse-worthy, Austin settled on a Goth girl, with sharpened talons of black and gold, and finger gloves, and leather and shredded clothing. I'm smelling misfire, Austin. But he says he can turn her into Punk Chic or Goth Glam, or something. I was still thinking about Diego and his full briefs.
PS Austin snarked that while Anthony got Diego's shorts, he got Diego's phone number. But, I suspect that, later that night, while laying in bed at the Flatotel, he dialed that number, and discovered it was a Chinese restaurant.
Back to his clo-thes, er, clothes. His look was leather and epaulets, and, according to Mila, that one-note wonder, "overworked and cheap." This from a woman whose design knows one-direction, moody, depressed, suicidal.
But Austin nailed it. I was worried about him because he likes the pretty and he was doing the Goth, but he nailed it. He called his model the "coolest, baddest bitch on the block," and I agree.
Georgina loved the proportion, but thought the collar was a bit off. It was sweet, but tough. Sean Avery thought there was too much detail on the left shoulder and I thought Sean Avery was a douche-y nitpicker. Isaac, however, also mentions the shoulder detail and the ripped stockings and thought it might be too much, but it was actually fabulous. Angela thought his muse would be very happy to see it. 
Austin gets the Show. Or, since this isn't a horse race, Second Place.


MONDO
After being robbed at least once, probably twice, of a win, this was Mondo's to lose. Even he said that he used to buy old clothes and restructure them into something else. All he needed was the right outfit, and there was Grace. In a psychedelic print that looked totally Mondo.
The challenge so suited him, that it even forced a genuine smile on Mila's face, albeit for a nanosecond, and she actually complimented his skill and mixing textiles and patterns. And, in fact, Mondo used twenty-two pieces to make a single jacket, so Mila had a right to be impressed. It left me thinking we were seeing a softer Mila, but I think it was an exhausted Mila who forgot she's still kind of a bitch.
On the runway, his look was purrrrrr-fection. All Mondo; totally Mondo. He said it had "great energy" and it did. It was kind of retro, but totally current, and fashion forward. My only complaint? I got a bit of Jodie Foster, teenage hooker in Taxi Driver....without the floppy whore hat.
Angela said she would die for that look, and I think there might be a battle over who gets to wear it. Georgina loved all the detailed work, especially in the back. Sean Avery mumbled something like, "I can blah blah blah lotta girls blah blah blah wearing that." Isaac loved that it was bare, but covered up--note to Jerell, that's how it's done.
And that's how one wins a challenge.
It was a long time coming, Mondo, but well-deserved!


Okay, so there you have it.
Mondo finally, rightfully, won. 
But, I would have liked to have seen how all the muses--especially Diego, whom I still think is in the park in his drawers--felt about the work the designers had done with their clothes.
Again, however, the wrong one went home. I know Anthony didn't follow the parameters of the challenge, but Jerell's look was ho-rrific, and Michael's look was just plain awful.
And, how can we lose Anthony, when he got off the line of the night, and, quite possibly, the line of the season, and all seasons:
"Kenley is loud. And when a Black person says that you are loud, you are too loud."
I'll be using that line for at least a week, maybe longer.
What did you think?

I Didn't Say It........

Cynthia Nixon, clearing things up:
"My recent comments in The New York Times were about me and my personal story of being gay. I believe we all have different ways we came to the gay community and we can't and shouldn't be pigeon-holed into one cultural narrative which can be uninclusive and disempowering. However, to the extent that anyone wishes to interpret my words in a strictly legal context I would like to clarify: While I don't often use the word, the technically precise term for my orientation is bisexual. I believe bisexuality is not a choice, it is a fact. What I have 'chosen' is to be in a gay relationship."


Like homosexuality, bisexuality is not a choice.
The choice lies within bisexuality when you choose which gender to whom you are attracted. And you have the choice, as a bisexual, to switch that up.
Bisexuality isn't a choice, but what you do with it is.


Sarah, home-schooled fourteen-year-old, on Maryland and marriage equality:
"Today is my 14th birthday and it would be the best birthday present ever if you would vote NO on gay marriage. I really feel bad for the kids who have two parents of the same gender. Even though some kids think it's fine, they have no idea what kind of wonderful experiences they miss out on. I don't want more kids to get confused about what's right and okay. I really don't want to grow up in a world where marriage isn't such a special thing anymore...It's rather scary to think that when I grow up the legislature or the court can change the definition of any word they want. If they could change the definition of marriage then they could change the definition of any word. People have the choice to be gay, but I don't want to be affected by their choice. People say that they were born that way, but I've met really nice adults who did change."


Isn't it cute how little Sarah's teachers, er, parents, er, teachers, give her this special homework assignment--and the proceed to give her an 'A' grade for it?
I mean, what's the point of having children and homeschooling them if you can't use them as pawns in your own personal bigotry?
And they think same-sex parents are a bad thing.


Joey Barton, professional footballer, on homophobia in sports:
"It's a subject quite close to my heart because my dad's youngest brother, the youngest of my uncles, is gay. And I didn't know for a long, long time. He thought because of the society that we were brought up in, which was quite working class, that it would be frowned upon or that we would disown him. So for a lot of years he was in turmoil and was resenting himself for the fact he had these feelings. I was like, 'I love you for you — not for the fact that you are straight or bisexual or all different manner of things. I love you because you're you.'"


I've said it before, and will keep saying it: to change people's minds on the LGBT community, everyone needs to come out.
If some of us live our lives in secrecy and shadow, it makes us look like we live in shame.
And there is no shame in being gay.
Only fabulousness.


Newt Gingrich, still riding the one-man-three-women marriage train:
"It's pretty simple: marriage is between a man and a woman. This is a historic doctrine driven deep into the Bible, both in the Old Testament and in the New Testament, and it's a perfect example of what I mean by the rise of paganism. The effort to create alternatives to marriage between a man and a woman are perfectly natural pagan behaviors, but they are a fundamental violation of our civilization."


Notice how Newt has quietly slipped away from calling it one man and one woman marriage. I mean, why draw any more attention to the fact that you are a serial adulterer who would fuck anything and everything just because?
And, if elected--and I giggle at that because it's a joke--he would serial fuck this country, too.


Elizabeth Warren, running against Republican Scott Brown for the U.S. Senate in Massachusetts, on lobbyists:
"The people who are sucking up the real resources in this country are the people who can hire the lobbyists, and unfortunately America's middle class doesn't have lobbyists fighting for them."


Maybe this is how we change the government.
Get a PAC going for We The People.
Get some lobbyists for WE The People.
I mean, isn't that how it's done in DC?


Brad Pitt, who has repeated numerous times since 2006 that he and Angelina Jolie would not marry until gay people can, now says he might tie the knot after all:
"We'd actually like to, and it seems to mean more and more to our kids. We made this declaration some time ago that we weren't going to do it till everyone can. But I don't think we'll be able to hold out. It means so much to my kids, and they ask a lot. And it means something to me, too, to make that kind of commitment."


I appreciate Pitt and Jolie's commitment to marriage equality, but their own relationship needs to take priority.
Call me old-fashioned, but if your kids are asking you to marry mom, maybe you should.
And you could still fight for equality.
And still be way hot. Just sayin'


Cory Booker, Newark mayor, on Governor Chris "Krispy Kreme" Christie's plan for a marriage referendum:



Maybe the eloquence of this mayor is what made that ginormous tub of butter-cream in the governor's mansion apologize for being an asshat.
Maybe Booker should be governor, and Christie could be, oh, i dunno, food taster?


Allen West, Florida congressman, telling Obama and progressive leaders to "get the hell out" of America:
"This is a battlefield, that we must stand upon. We need to let President Obama, Harry Reid, Nancy Pelosi, and my dear friend the chairman of the Democrat National Committee, we need to let them know that Florida ain't on the table. Take your message of equality of achievement, take your message of economic dependency, take your message of enslaving the entrepreneurial will and spirit of the American people somewhere else. You can take it to Europe, you can take it to the bottom of the sea, you can take it to the North Pole, but get the hell out of the United States of America...Yeah, I said 'hell'"


Um, Allen, you delusional misinformed wingnut?
Obama won Florida in '08.
And here, in America, you delusional numbnut, people are allowed to disagree and not to worry about being removed form the country.
So, take your decades old, America: Love it or leave it, rhetoric and STFU.


Stacey Campfield, Tennessee political asshat, proving his utter stupidity:
"Most people realize that AIDS came from the homosexual community. It was one guy screwing a monkey, if I recall correctly, and then having sex with men. It was an airline pilot, if I recall."


How does a man who is so innately, and publicly, stupid, get elected to public office?
Oh, it's Tennessee.


Roberto Miranda, "pastor", on New England, marriage equality and 9/11:
"Satan has warred mightily against this region, and has effectively neutralized it through the influence of principalities of rationalism, humanism, intellectual pride and spiritual arrogance. Massachusetts, as well as all of New England, has become a cemetery of churches, a breeding ground for heretical doctrine, and intellectual furnace energizing attitudes of godlessness, rational arrogance and secularism. It is no coincidence, of course, that something as dramatically distant from the Christian worldview as gay marriage would be originated in this region. Is it exaggerated to see prophetic significance in the fact that on September 11, 2001 Boston served as the point of departure for the deadly forces that spread so much destruction and havoc in this nation and all over the world? What took place at the material level is now being carried out at the moral and spiritual level, as the virus of homosexuality and gay marriage begins to spread dramatically all over this nation and perhaps the world."


This pastor supports Mitt Romney.
Mitt Romney praises this pastor for his support.
A man who blames 9/11 on homosexuality. And New England.


Matt Heinz, openly gay Arizona state representative, on running in the special election to replace Rep. Gabrielle Giffords:
"Moving forward I believe the best thing that we can do is to honor her strength, and conviction, and her leadership, by getting somebody, quickly, because we don't have much time, into that seat who is going to carry forward in the tradition of moderate, bipartisan, common sense governance that she did so well for Southern Arizona."


I think Gabby would like this idea.
Run, Matt, run.

Thursday, February 02, 2012

Random Musings

Top Chef Pee Wee.
"I have to say this is the best pancake I've ever tasted."
I didn't like the winner. Lindsey.  I don't like the winner.
I was sad to see the Grayson go, and even sadder to watch chubby mean girl Sarah and her phony acting skills put to the test as she said good-bye to Grayson.
Bitch.
Both of 'em.

The only saving grace is that, fingers crossed, Bev comes back next week and kicks both of their asses. Literally.


It's a bloodbath at The X Factor.
Or so I've heard because I don't watch it. 

I mean, isn't it just an American Idol knock-off, which, in itself, was a knock-off of Pop Idol
I mean, X Factor, Idol, The Voice, America's Got Talent. Really, who cares?
Simon Cowell, apparently.
As producer of The X Factor he fired pretty boy, but empty-headed, host Steve Jones, and dumped argumentative Nicole Scherzinger. He's even :::gasp::: fired best buddy, Paul Abdul.
Simon apparently has said he wants to take the show in a different direction.
Like toward being a hit?



So. last Friday was my birthday, but because of things like work :::bleeech::: and stuff, we decided to celebrate on Saturday. Naturally, I assumed this would mean dinner out with friend, though Carlos wasn't saying. 
He spent the day puttering around the house, doing little projects, so I decided to tackle one of my own. I ripped chair rail out of the hallway in preparation to paint and turn it into a gallery of sorts for pictures taken on our vacations and so on. 
I busily pried and screwed and hammered that chair rail down, and as I was about halfway though, Carlos looked at me, shocked, and asked what I was doing.
The hallway was a wreck. But, I said, I'll patch the holes, sand and prime, and then paint.
Carlos, "I invited the guys here for dinner tonight for your birthday."
Oops.



File this under creepy.
It seems that Mitt Romney converted his father-in-law to Mormonism; after the man had died.
Edward Davies, Ann Romney's father, was an atheist who insisted that his family be raised without participating in an organized religion, so it must have come as a shock when his daughter took up with Mittsy, and soon converted to Mormonism herself.  

And the conversions continued. Mittsy and his father, George, convinced Ann's younger brother to become a Mormon, then went after her older brother, who also converted. Ann's mother converted to Mormonism following the death of her husband in 1992.
And, because Mormons believe that families will be reunited in eternity after death, Ann and Mittsy posthumously....POSTHUMOUSLY....converted her atheist father to Mormonism, having him baptized as a Mormon at a "special family meeting" more than a year after his death.
I guess to the Romney's, Edward Davies' personal beliefs don't matter as much as theirs.



Sad news. the Outwrite Bookstore & Coffeehouse in Atlanta is now closed. And there is no new location picked out.
This truly saddens me because it was one place we visited whenever we went to Atlanta, and there really is no such thing as an LGBT bookstore near Smallville, or maybe even in the entire state.
Sad news.




After declaring that the masses should vote on equality, New Jersey Governor Chris "Krispy Kreme" Christie also faced criticism over remarks  in which he suggested African-Americans pursuing their civil rights would have wanted a voter referendum, too.
He has since been schooled. And by that, I mean someone told him he's a dumb fuck. And he apologized: “Anybody who was offended by what I said...I apologize for that. I didn’t mean to offend anybody, and if I did I’m sorry....I also recognize that my job...is to clearly communicate to people what I’m thinking, every time I open my mouth. And I try to be very good about being very direct about what I say so that there’s no ambiguity but obviously when I was talking last week at the town hall meeting about the civil rights movement in the South, I wasn’t clear enough...And what I did was, by saying those things, I left them open to misinterpretation and...I apologize for that."
Let's dissect. 
He's sorry we're offended, not that he's an idiot.
It's not his fault because he left his words open for misinterpretation, not that he's an idiot.
He wasn't clear, because he's an idiot.
Good? Now we know all we need: Chris Christie is a big fat idiot.


Mittsy?
Stop singing. 

It's enough already.
I'm actually sick of America the Beautiful because of you.

Just For Giggles: Me

One Million Moms, or Hate Group? Um, Yeah, Hate Group

I love these groups with their sweet as apple pie, homey sounding names, like One Million Moms, who are really nothing more than a bunch of anti-gay hags sitting around cauldrons throwing in the heart of a newt--and not a Gingrich, i must say--to bash anyone and everyone who believes in equality.
These Mothers, or these motherfuckers, are going after JCPenney for hiring "openly homosexual" Ellen DeGeneres as their new spokesperson.
Seriously. So, here's what you need to do: 

  • Call JCPenney's customer service at (972) 431-8200.
  • Call JCPenney's corporate headquarters at (972) 431-1000.
  • Click here to sign a GLAAD petition to thank JCPenney for making the right choice.
  • Share on Twitter: RT @glaad: Will you #StandUpForEllen? Support @TheEllenShow and give a big Thanks to @jcpenney for making the right choice
Tell the One Million Moms to eff off.

Washington Is One Step Closer

Last night the Washington state Senate voted 28 to 21 to legalize marriage between same-sex partners.

"We ask for your support tonight because marriage is the way society says you are family."
Senator Ed Murray, chief sponsor of the legislation and a gay man in a two-decade partnership.

The House of Representatives is expected to approve the legislation within a week and Governor Chris Gregoire will sign the bill. Gregoire is the perfect example of someone who has struggled with this issue, and then realized it's just about eqaulity for all the people in her state.

"As the son of a gay man....I am proud to stand on the right side of history and to vote for marriage equality and I am proud to stand for my father."

Sen. Kevin Ranker.

Washington is close to becoming the seventh state to legalize marriage between same-sex couples, after New York, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Vermont, New Hampshire, Iowa and the District of Columbia.  A statewide vote on the issue is likely in Maine this fall and, in Maryland, another Catholic governor. Martin O'Malley, is urging his legislature to act.


"I believe an adult should be able to marry the person they love: It's that simple for me."
Republican Senator Steve Litzow--one of the four Republicans to support marriage equality.  

Opponents of equality have until June to collect the 120,577 valid voters signatures needed to force a referendum on same-sex marriage next November. But the Washington Poll found last fall that 55% of Washingtonians would vote to sustain same-sex marriage if passed by the Legislature.
Run with it, Washington.
Run.

Wednesday, February 01, 2012

Architecture Wednesday: Up, Up and Away

What would you build if you had a 55-acre property in the hills above? A place where you have wide-open views of the nearby mountains, a beautiful valley, and the Pacific Ocean with islands in the distance? What would you build?
Originally the site was home to 21 unique structures, made from found objects, created and designed by Tony Duquette. But, in 1995, a fire destroyed all but a few steel “Pagoda”-like structures. The site was then purchased by a woman who co-owns a Mercedes car dealership,who enlisted the firm of David Hertz Architects, Inc., to create a house of curvilinear, or more feminine, shapes. She envisioned a floating curved roof and it soon became apparent that only an airplane wing would do. So, an aged 747 was purchased, dismantled, trucked to the site, and used to create this home in the hills.
The wing structures are positioned to float on top of simple concrete and rammed-earth walls that are cut into the hillsides. The floating roofs are attached to strategic mounting points on the wing where the engines were previously mounted. 
The scale of a 747 aircraft is enormous: over 230 feet long, 195 feet wide and 63 feet tall with 17,000 cubic feet of cargo area alone. That single plane represented a tremendous amount of material for the economical price of less than $50,000 dollars.
After visiting the 747s, and other decommissioned planes, and verifying with the building department that there is nothing that specifically prohibits the use of an airplane wing as a roof, the project began. there was one last, unexpected hurdle: the roof of the house had to be registered with the FAA so pilots flying overhead do not mistake it as a downed aircraft.
The Main Residence uses the two main wings as well as the stabilizers from the tail section as a roof; the art studio is made from a 50-foot long section of the upper fuselage as a roof, while the remaining front portion of the fuselage and upper first class cabin deck create the roof of the Guest House. The lower half of the fuselage--the cargo hold--is now the roof of the Animal Barn. 
A Meditation Pavilion is made from the entire front of the airplane; the cockpit windows form a skylight. Other parts of the plane are used throughout the property, and include a fire pit and water element made from the engine cowling.
The 747 once represented the single largest industrial achievement in modern history and yet they are routinely abandoned in the deserts, revealing the built-in obsolescence of our technology and society. The recycling of the 4.5 million parts of this “big aluminum can” is an extreme example of sustainable reuse and appropriation. 
Sidenote: American consumers and industry throw away enough aluminum in a year to rebuild our entire airplane commercial fleet every three months.  And just think of how many houses that would make.

Drake Jensen Comes Out

In the wake of LGBT teen Jamie Hubley's suicide, Canadian country singer Drake Jensen has come out as a gay man.
“As a child I always knew there was something different about me above and beyond the gay thing. Even during the worst of the bullying I always felt I would make it through. My small town was like a pack of wolves; they sniffed out the damaged ones and turned on them. I was that wolf that was different from everybody else but I always knew God had something special in mind for me...I have been so lucky to be given so much, I have no choice but to give back. I give back through my music and through my story. I’m a homosexual musician telling my story through songs and spreading the message of love. In a perfect world, what could be wrong with that?”
Drake Jensen dedicated his video “On My Way to Finding You” to Jamie Hubley and it is the first gay country music videos ever produced and features an appearance by Drake jensen's husband.
Welcome out Drake. And, of course, accept a copy of The Gay Agenda, and the Coming Out Toaster Oven from Homo HQ.
And, most of all, thanks for remembering Jamie.

Just A Thought: You and The World

Stephan Elliott Comes Out Down Under

Priscilla Queen Of The Desert director, Stephan Elliott, was scheduled to be a presenter at AACTA Awards in Sydney last night, but took a moment to come out as a gay man.
"I've been offshore for many, many years for another reason. Basically it was because I was scared of who I was. I basically was scared that I was gay. Even after Priscilla I stayed offshore basically because I was frightened of my family. And tonight I'm coming out."
The news was greeted by loud, supportive applause.
A teary Elliott then thanked the audience and urged other high-profile members of the entertainment industry to get behind the push for equal marriage rights in Australia.
Welcome out, Stephan.
Naturally, you'll be receiving your first copy of The Gay Agenda, direct from HOMO HQ, but, in lieu of the traditional 'Comoing Out Toaster Oven,' considering the fact that you're an Aussie, we'll also be sending you a 'Coming Out Barbie' and some shrimp.
Welcome out, Stephen, welcome out.

Newt Might Divorce The GOP And Marry A Third Party

When you really look at it, the GOP is in a shambles. I mean, the voters can't seem to decide if they want Mittsy "Regular Joe" Romney, who is just like me, but makes $33,000 a day, or if they want moral conservative, and serial adulterer, Newt Gingrich.
But I digress. The most interesting thing that came out of the Florida Primary yesterday might have been missed, it was so easily glossed over. See, Newt Gingrich hinted that he might leave the GOP; just like he left two of his three wives. Apparently, even Newt Gingrich thinks the GOP is sick, because, you know, that's what he does, leave when you're sick and carry on with a new party.

According to the HuffPo, if you listened carefully to Newt's concession speech, you heard him mention the possibility of a third party run at the White House. Gingrich declared that he would no longer run a "Republican campaign but a people's campaign."
People's campaign? Newt apparently has an ego bigger than his basketball-shaped head if he thinks he's the "people's" candidate.
Gingrich also said, as the orchestra in his head began to play the first chord of 'Don't Cry For Me, Argentina,' "If I become your president, I pledge to you my life, my fortune and my sacred honor."
But he'll dump you if you get sick, or he doesn't get his way.


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