Karl Schmid, an entertainment reporter for ABC affiliate in LA, coming out as HIV-positive:
“Hi. I’m a 37 year old HIV+ man who has been poz for almost ten years. I work in television. And on the side of the camera where, for better or worse it’s considered “taboo” for people ‘like me’ to be ‘like me’. For 10 years I’ve struggled with ‘do I or don’t I’? For ten years the stigma and industry professionals have said, ‘don’t! It’ll ruin you’. But here’s the thing. I’m me. I’m just like you. I have a big heart and I want to be loved and accepted. I may be on TV from time to time, but at the end of the day I’m just an average guy who wants what we all want. To be accepted and loved by our friends and family and to be encouraged by our peers. So here’s what I say, stand tall, and stand proud. You can’t make everybody happy, but you can make you happy. And so long as you tell the truth, you will never have to remember anything. Labels are things that come and go but your dignity and who you are is what defines you. I know who I am, I know what I stand for and while in the past I may not have always had clarity, I do now. Love me or hate me, that’s up to you. But, for anyone who has ever doubted themselves because of those scary three letters and one symbol, let me tell you this, you are somebody who matters. Your feelings, your thoughts, your emotions count. And don’t let anybody tell you otherwise. I’m Karl Schmid, and I’m an HIV-positive man!”
Good for Schmid.
Thirty-five-plus years into the virus and there’s still this stigma and shame from some people. Being positive is a condition, a manageable condition, and shouldn’t be treated, by anyone, as a death sentence or something to fear.
Silence + Death.
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As for the nudity, I'm all for using the imagination. You never know if an idol (or head husband) is hiding a short coming.
Luca Guadagnino is so full of shit. He had no trouble whatsoever displaying sexual nudity when it came to the young woman that Elio was banging. That's because women's bodies are objectified and commodified without two thoughts going into it by men. But to show male sexual nudity -- all of a sudden, the characters' dignity and privacy rights are at the forefront. It is sexism, pure and simple. My Rare One and I loved this movie, but that double standard did not escape us. My Rare One was particularly incensed by that hokey and cliched panning shot out the window to the tree during the men's sex scene.
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Thanks for allowing the spewage.
Bob I saw Armie first. Just saying.
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maybe Sanitorum and Conway can get their vibes together, she'll get them to choke on the french fries and he'll do the Heimlich... and Cpr if necessary.
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