Tuesday, February 14, 2023

So ...

It's been a day or two around here. We had an expected, yet unexpected houseguest; an old friend was driving from New York City to Tallahassee and asked to spend the night, so we were hit with that.

He's an interesting sort, and I will leave that there.

And to top that off, Tuxedo has chosen this week as his time to leave. Since the weekend he's been lethargic and not eating, though he is drinking water, which is good. But, as he has done for the last eighteen years that we've had him, he's doing this on his terms. The vet has assured us that since he's drinking water he's not in pain as his organs aren't shutting down, so just make him comfortable until he's ready to go.

I told my boss I was taking the week off; he's great that way, because he has pets and he knows ... so I am here at home with Carlos and were holding Tuxedo and kissing Tuxedo and talking to him, and when he's ready, he'll go.

Until then I may stay off this thing  ... Talk soon.

31 comments:

  1. It is always a difficult time seeing a beloved pet and member of one's family on the decline. Peace, love, and the grace of St. Valentine be with you and Carlos.

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  2. So sorry to hear about your heartbreaking moment on Valentine's Day. My very liberal thoughts and prayers are with your at this difficult time.

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  3. xoxoxo
    (all your text is blacked out on my page)
    take care,

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    1. I can see the text now.
      Lots of loves and hugs to Tuxedo.
      He's a very special and much beloved
      cat.
      xoxo

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    1. Hoping that Tuxedo has an easy exit after a long happy life with you and Carlos

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  5. Oh, Tuxedo. I hope his passing is quick and easy. We will all miss him and his presence on your blog so much. Hugs

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  6. I'm sorry, Bob. We'll miss seeing him here.

    Love,
    Janie

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  7. Jennifer Barlow11:50 AM

    I'm so sorry Bob. Hugs to you all as you wait with your boy.

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  8. Oh no!
    Sending hugs to Tuxedo and you guys!

    XOXO

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  9. Enjoy those moments with Tuxedo. He's had a great and much loved life.

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  10. Oh no not tuxedo!!! I sensed something not good, because you never not up and leave the blog like that, but I know sometimes we get busy. At least you're lucky enough to see him off to the Rainbow Bridge when he's ready. I'm sure MaxGoldberg will be there to greet him. Take your time and come back when you're ready , we ain't going nowhere.

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  11. Oh, I'm sorry to hear it. Tuxedo is a very fortunate cat.

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  12. Ah honey, I'm so sorry! Hugs to you and Carlos!

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  13. I can't find the words .. sending hugs (()) ..

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  14. I wish I were there to give you all a hug. I'm more sorry than I can say.

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  15. aussieguy6:09 PM

    I am so saddened to hear this for you and Carlos. Our little babies depend on us to care for them, no matter how independent they may seem to be. He's a part (big part) of your heart and always will be. I share your pain as we are losing 2 now and one has been my little baby since she entered our house. Take care of yourself, Carlos & Tuxedo -- we're always here for you.

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  16. All the hugs to everyone.

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  17. Oh, no! El Gato Guapo! I'm so sorry Bobulah and Carlos. I had to sit down a cry for a while. Take care. Hugs.

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  18. Anonymous9:53 PM

    I am so sorry to hear this. Please take care of each other as you walk the final walk with Tuxedo.

    Will Jay

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  19. Anonymous11:07 PM

    So sorry to hear. I recently came across your blog, but have already fallen in loved with Tuxedo. My best wishes to all of you, and hang in there! You have support from so many people. Feel the love, please.

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  20. How do you know for sure it is his time to go? My cat Lola has days where she does nothing but sleep and drink water, sometimes two or three days in a row, but then she eats and is back to whatever her normal is, which still includes hours and hours of sleeping.

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  21. Skepticat12:37 AM

    Please give Tuxedo a kiss and a snuggle for me; I send you and Carlos virtual and heartfelt versions of the same.

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  22. Oh, Bob, I’m sending you the hugest hugs.

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  23. All I can do is sit here and cry. Love to you and Carlos and Tuxedo.

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  24. Poor old Tuxedo! Give him a gentle neck scratch from me. As for your house guest - "an interesting sort" makes me wonder what you are not saying. You are the model of discretion.

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  25. Take care of yourself and your family.

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  26. Pat Lark11:10 AM

    Cuddle him and love him. Give him the scratches right where he likes them. Warm hugs to you and Carlos.

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  27. So sorry to hear that Tuxedo won't be with you much longer - our fur babies leave their paw prints on our hearts.

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  28. there is no sorrow like this. I remember my cats in the same way. Hugs from me too.

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