AJ Betts killed himself; he was just sixteen.
His mother, Sheryl Moore, is hoping his story will put an
end to the bullying that she said ended his life.
"It must have been really horrible, if my son got to the point where he would hurt my husband, my daughters and I to take his own life."
Moore said she will never know exactly how horrible the
bullying was.
"We had no indication that anything was wrong. He is the happiest kid I've ever met. Everybody who meets him says that."
Like most bullied teens, AJ put on a brave face, a tough
exterior, and learned to smile to hide the pain. But now his family is learning
that AJ, after being outed at Southeast Polk High School last year, was a
target because he was gay. His friends said AJ was constantly ridiculed not
only for being gay, but also because he was half African-American and born with
a cleft lip.
"He's different. He doesn’t add up to what they're used to."—Noah Lahmann, AJ’s best friend
Different. Made for being taunted and teased to the point of
taking his own life just to make it stop.
The only word from authorities at Southeast Polk High is
that they can’t say if AJ ever reported being bullied.
Maybe he didn’t report his bullies because he thought officials wouldn't do anything about it. See, AJ Betts wasn’t the first; he was the fifth student from Southeast Polk High
school to commit suicide in the past five years.
So maybe, when the numbers
start piling up and more teenagers take their own lives, maybe then the good
people at Southeast Polk High will try harder to find out why. Until then, I guess high school students are disposable.
very sad.
ReplyDeleteIs it just me but shouldn't all these suicides be investigated?
ReplyDeleteThe fifth in five years ... there's not just a problem in that school but in that community. Bullies aren't "born that way" ... something must be done.
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ReplyDeleteAJ's organs were donated and he saved 5 lives. I wonder how many homophobic people or religious zealots will question if their loves ones who received a transplant, received homosexual organs or blood that saved their loved ones life?
ReplyDeleteSchools do not care about the students, period. They just see them as walking cash boxes. As long as they get to rule their kingdom and the dollars from the state and feds roll in, they could honestly care less what occurs within those walls.
ReplyDeleteActually he saved 6 lives., but it broke hundreds and hundreds of hearts, mine included.
ReplyDeleteI miss Aj so much, all I hear everyday at school is crude comments, nothings the same without him but I hope and pray he's not in pain anymore.
ReplyDeleteI was friends with Aj...I look up articles about him to see the kind things people say...thank you for your post. And actually Aj did report the bullying...no one ever did anything about it. Not surprising at SEP schools though. That's how it always is there and something needs to change.
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