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Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Another One: Zachery Gray .... And Another One ....
Zachery Gray was 18-years-old when he tried to kill
himself as a result of being bullied; well, as a result of being called
"fag" and "Gay Zach" and "queer" on a daily
basis, even though he was straight and had a girlfriend.
After enduring yet another day of constant bullying,
Zach, who’d been suspended for pulling a prank on a teacher, headed home. That
afternoon, he tried to hang himself with a dog chain in a shed behind his home,
but neighbors, his mother and paramedics were able to save him.
Zach was set to graduate from Zephyrhills High School
this year but now suffers from brain damage and requires 24-hour care at a
local medical center. He can no longer walk or talk.
And now his family is speaking out, saying the school did
not do enough to stop the incessant bullying of Zach. Under Florida law, school officials must report bullying incidents and
"develop plans for ending harassing behavior," but now, citing privacy concerns, the school is refusing
to comment. In fact, Zach’s father says school officials won’t even return
their phone calls.
A young boy tried to kill
himself and the officials cannot pick up a phone. But, oh, it gets worse.
It seems that Zachery Gray
complained of the teasing and the taunts; students had been making fun—and we really
shouldn’t call it ‘making fun’ anymore--of his weight and sexuality, by calling him "heavy" and "Zach
Gay" during a field trip. And Zach did what he was supposed to do; he
complained to the teacher on that field trip, Brenda Carlson,
Carlson told investigators
that she asked Zach: "If someone calls you a tree, are you a tree? And if
someone calls you gay, does that make you gay?"
And that’s all she did. She didn’t report the incident and
didn’t even bother to speak to the students who were taunting Zach. In fact, after
Gray’s suicide attempt, she told investigators "she did not have any
concerns that Zach was being bullied."
Even.Though.He.Told.Her.
Brenda Carlson no longer works for the district. Which is
a little convenient.
"Her job was to come to me, tell me, go to the
principal, go to authorities," said Lynn Gray. "She did
nothing."
And now a boy cannot walk or talk.
And then.....
In Detroit, a 14-year-old girl peered through the keyhole of
a locked door and found her brother hanging from a bunk bed with a belt around
his neck.
She screamed for her mother and called 911. Her mother
and a neighbor broke through the door of the boy's room, took him down and
called 911, but it was too late.
He was seven.
His mother said her son, whose name is not being
released, had been depressed about being bullied by other kids at school
and in his neighborhood, and about his parents' recent separation.
Detroit Police Chief Ralph Godbee Jr. said he was told
the boy had expressed a desire to harm himself, and the mother told him that
her son was being counseled by the family's pastor to help him cope.
The boy's family does not want to comment.
A seven-year-old is dead.
The two cases are as different as they are the same.
One young man told officials he was being bullied and
they did nothing to stop it.
One young boy talked to his pastor and tried to work
though his parent’s separation and the fact that he was bullied.
But the bullies were never confronted and so the bullying
never stopped.
Until Zach Gray tried to kill himself and a young boy in
Detroit tied a belt around his neck.
When are people, and by people, I mean the parents of the
bullied, the parents of the bullies, teachers, school officials, politicians,
going to realize that this is a problem and do something about it.
How many more kids have to die, or permanently scar
themselves for life, before someone says ‘Enough.’
Zach’s school district needs to accept responsibility.
Brenda Carlson needs to stop teaching and accept her role in this. I wonder, if
she’d said anything to anyone might the bullying have stopped, and might Zach
be graduating in June instead of lying in a hospital bed?
I wonder….
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Monday, May 28, 2012
A Memorable Memorial Day: After DADT
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| from left: gay midshipmen Caitlin Bryant, Kay Moore, Nick Bonsall, and Andrew Atwill |
Last year, Andrew Atwil's roommate at the Naval
Academy joked that Atwill was gay, and Atwill told him to cut it out; because
he is gay. And because, last year, Atwill could have jeopardized his military
career if anyone know.
This year, though, it's a
different story at Annapolis. Now, with DADT repealed Atwill says the
academy has changed, and that now, talking about his sexual orientation is no
longer a reason to be drummed out of the military. In fact, most in the academy
now come to the defense of its gay and lesbian cadets.
Andrew Atwill:
"Pretty much everybody in my company knows now, [and] they actually
stand up for me."
As it should be.
Eight months after the repeal,
midshipmen both gay and straight describe a quiet but significant
transformation at the Naval Academy. Gay midshipmen are seeking recognition for
a student club, and, just last month, for the first time, faculty members and
staff openly attended an off-campus dinner that had been organized secretly
every year by and for gay midshipmen.
And this year, Andrew Atwill
and his boyfriend, classmate Nick Bonsall, are going to Saturday’s Ring Dance,
a formal ball held each spring for third-year midshipmen.
"It's been really great, actually," says Nick
Bonsall. "Everyone
has been really accepting of us."
As it should be.
The experience at Annapolis this year mirrors
those across the country at the other service academies, but some future
officers worry about what might happen upon graduation. While their generation
might be accepting, the majority of military personnel is still made up of
people of all ages and backgrounds, and some senior officers say privately that
they won't come out for fear of jeopardizing their careers.
Even Andrew Atwill, while aware of this new level of
understanding and tolerance, wonders what life will be like after leaving Annapolis
and joining the fleet: "For me, personally, it's still a concern. When I become an officer, I'm kind of worried about whether
or not my sailors will take it the wrong way if I give them a pat on the back
or, you know, happen to be in the bathroom at the same time as them. I'm
afraid that if they know that I'm gay, that if I was even to look at them
wrong, they may end up somehow turning that against me."
But not everyone sees any problems arising. Caitlyn
Bryant, a second-year midshipman, says, "In the fleet, it will be
good, you don't have to worry about what they might think your orientation is.
You can just focus on being a leader….People have accepted it."
As it should be.
And Defense Secretary Leon Panetta, however, doesn’t
foresee a problem. He says the repeal of DADT is going very well: "It's
not impacting on morale. It's not impacting on unit cohesion. It's not
impacting on readiness."
As it should be.
And change is coming to all branches. Gay cadets at
the U.S. Military Academy and the Coast Guard Academy are forming
clubs, while gay alumni at the Air Force Academy hosted their first football
tailgate last fall, and Air Force Academy and West Point gay alumni held
their annual dinners on campus for the first time.
Kara Yingling, a fourth-year midshipman , who is not gay,
says the majority of the student body "didn't make a big deal" of the
policy change: "We have seen more openly gay people, and I think that's
good for them, because they no longer have to live their lives in fear that
something's going to happen just because of their sexuality."
This Memorial Day will be, if possible, more
memorable, because of this new openness and honesty and acceptance.
As it should be.
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Sunday, May 27, 2012
Sunday Funnies .... And A Milestone
Well, here it is, unbelievable as it sounds, but this Sunday funnies also marks my 4000th post.
Dear baby Jeebus. Four.....waitforit.....thousand posts. I'm a chatty little bastard, eh?
But, I'll take a moment to say thanks for the follows, the comments, and the blogs y'all have created, that inspire me, make me, laugh, make me think, make me wonder.......
Now, onto to the next 4000.....
Dear baby Jeebus. Four.....waitforit.....thousand posts. I'm a chatty little bastard, eh?
But, I'll take a moment to say thanks for the follows, the comments, and the blogs y'all have created, that inspire me, make me, laugh, make me think, make me wonder.......
Now, onto to the next 4000.....
Saturday, May 26, 2012
Lindsay Lohan IS Elizabeth Taylor!
So, you know Lohan is set to appear in the destined-to-be-craptastic Lifetime movie Liz & Dick, right?
Well, this is an actual picture of Liz, followed by a picture of Lohan trying on a costume for the role, and I must say, the resemblance is astounding! I mean, I didn't think it was possible but Lohan looks like a perfect fit for the part of.......................................................................
....wait for it.........................................................
....Liz Taylor's Betty Ford Center crackheaded roommate!
Type.Casting!
Well, this is an actual picture of Liz, followed by a picture of Lohan trying on a costume for the role, and I must say, the resemblance is astounding! I mean, I didn't think it was possible but Lohan looks like a perfect fit for the part of.......................................................................
....Liz Taylor's Betty Ford Center crackheaded roommate!
Type.Casting!
I Ain't One To Gossip, But ....
Ah, TravoltaGate, Day
134. I kid, it just seems like it's been months and months. But there is
some new stuff out there, like....
Masseur
#1 and Masseur #2--both dropped by their original attorney--have run panting to
Gloria Allred, media-whore-attorney, so you just know it's gonna be a
circus.
And
then we have the story of two more men who were groped by Johnny T--one man
from Seattle and one man from Miami--along with another masseur--what is it
with Travolta and masseurs?--who claims he had a night of passion with Johnny
back in 1997 after Travolta had flashed him during a massage.
Miami
Masseur, AKA Jeff-Not-His-Real-Name, is breaking his Groping Silence to tell
his story of One Night with Johnny: "[Travolta] was putting his hands
where he wanted me to work and kind of grinding on the table."
Then
he reached over and put Jeff’s hand on his, um, well, the papers are
calling it Travolta's 'Bathing Suit' area, and Jeff pulled away, but then
continued the massage, until Johnny again tried to guide Jeff's magic fingers
back to the crotch-a-tory region. Then, Johnny started putting his butt up
in the air.
Jeff:
"I was just trying to do whatever I could to distract him but he started
getting aggressive and grabbed my hand again.” After the massage,
Travolta began jerking off and told Jeff he could do it, too, saying, "No
one’s going to know.”
ALLEGEDLY.
Now,
Seattle Man has a different tail, er, tale to tell. He's not a masseur, just a
regular hotel employee in Seattle, where an event for Travolta was held by
Qantas; Travolta is their "amb-ass-ador" or some
such.
Anyhow,
Seattle Man Not Masseur, was cleaning up after the gig, and says Travolta
accosted him: “He came up right behind me and grabbed my ass… I turned
around and saw that his....bathing suit area....was out of his
pants.”
ALLEGEDLY.
And
Marty Singer, Travolta's lawyer, keeps trying to spin the story, er, stories.
He claimed a week or so ago that Masseur #1 and Masseur #2 had dropped their
suits without settling, or being paid by Travolta. Not so much, really; they
dropped their attorney, and then both men hired Allred.
So,
there's that.....
And
Allred has now officially “reached out” to Marty Singer,
meaning settlement negotiations have now begun, basically. That
brings the total to seven different men who say they are
victims of TravoltaGrope, and TravolatBathingSuitAreaGate.
So,
y'all know about the Will Smith is gay stories, right? I mean, they've been out
there since he was the Fresh Queen, er, Prince.
And
they won't go away any time soon as long as Will reacts to man-on-man action
the way he did in Moscow.
Will
was at the Moscow premiere of Men In Black III--seriously, Three?--working
the red carpet like a whore on Hollywood Blvd when a Ukrainian reporter
shakes Will’s hand, then kisses one of Will’s cheeks, then twists around and
kisses the other cheek, and then moves in for a mouth-to-mouth kiss.
Little
Willy freaked.
He
shoved the guy away, and starts to walk to the next reporter, but then stops,
turns, reaches back, and smacks the reporter in the face.
At
the next reporter, he nervously giggles, and says, “He’s
lucky I didn’t sucker punch him.”
Then
he muttered something about how he shouldn't have said that, and then continued
down the carpet, smiling, signing autographs, posing for pictures and so on.
No
big deal? Well, maybe not except the video has gone viral, you know, because of
all the Will is gay stuff.
But
I think he way overreacted. I mean, pulling back and saying "Not
cool." is one thing, but to turn away, then turn back, and smack the guy,
smacks of something a little more like shame.
And,
before you say it was a guy trying to kiss him, remember, Will's a
"married" man. If that guy tried to kiss his wife and she slapped
him, would that be the same? If it was a female reporter who tried to kiss Will
and he slapped her would you think the same?
It
smacks of homophobia, and maybe even self-loathing closeted homophobia.
Just
a thought.
I don't watch The X
Factor, but, well, if it becomes the trainwreck Howard stern seems to think it
might, it might just be DVR-worthy.
Apparently the people closest
to Britney Spears worry The X-Factor opportunity will be just another rise
before a fall--and this time it'll be live in
front of millions of viewers.
A source--and it might be
Xtina--says, “Doing X Factor may lead her back into meltdown territory.
She gets extremely nervous and anxious. She’s hard on herself and not very
confident. For her, it’s all input as stress. This is a lot of change
at once for Britney. She’s coming undone.”
And it hasn't even aired
yet.
But friends and handlers,
okay, maybe they're all handlers, are worried about Britney's loopy behavior,
and the fact that she seems to go from laughing to crying in the space of a
minute. But, those same handlers seem to be pretty pleased by the $15 million
paycheck Brit-Brit is bringing home.
But even home is not all
sanity. At a friend’s crawfish-boil party, Britney showed up sporting
cutoffs, a cropped top and no shoes, and then and proceeded to ignore the other
guests while muttering obscenities to herself! Hanging out alone by the food, a
source says, “she would sort of say to no one, ‘F–k it, I’m eating whatever I
want. I don’t care.’ Everyone was wondering what was up.”
What's up is that Britney
doesn't do well around people. Neighbors who live near her $25,000-a-month,
five-bedroom mansion in the private Sherwood Country Club says she is very
private and rarely, if ever leaves the home. makeup and hair people come to
her; restaurants deliver; trainers come by. Britney almost never goes out, and
now she's set to be on TV in front of millions.
It don't look good, y'all.
Katie
Holmes--TommyGrrrl Cruise's robot-wife--isn't looking too good these days.
Recent
photos show the formerly perky sometime-actress, sometime-fashion designer,
looking a little, as we say down here in horse country, rode hard and put away
wet.
I
mean, look at the eyes. It’s as if the light bill hadn't been paid and
Scientology flipped the switch. And the gray hair.
Careful
Katie, you're looking more like Tommy’s Mama than his Missus these days.
But,
maybe there's more to the story. Sources--and by sources, I mean, Suri--are
saying Katie is feeling the strain of her arrangement, er, marriage and is
“devastated” that she’s not “living the charmed life
Tom Cruise vowed to give her.”
Plus,
she's no Nicole Kidman.
And
she's not even Mimi Rogers.
Apparently,
this tiny insider says Katie is also upset that her arrangement, er, marriage,
to Tommy hasn't resulted in a boost to her career, and she's really upset that
Tommy won’t even do a film with her--even though he did a few with the last
Missus Cruise, Nicky Kidman.
Ouch.
She
also is upset that Tom leaves her alone to go off and make his movies, and get
that plastic surgery, and visit his home planet, but that makes me wonder:
wouldn't a woman be happier with Tommy Gone than Tommy Home.
He
seems like he'd be exhaustively self-involved and dull, but she literally
signed up for this, and the lawyers have the papers to prove it.
Allegedly.
I
can't help but laughing at this one. I mean, she used to be BIG....well, she's
still BIG, and getting bigger, but she's not as popular, and maybe not as rich,
as the old days.
Who's
that you say? Oprah!
Oprah’s
troubled OWN network is floundering in the red, to the tune of being some $330
million dollars in debt. Oh the humanity! Think of all the cookies and cakes
she could have had for 300-mil.
In
fact, a Businessweek media analyst says OWN may go down as the “most
successful failure in television today.”
Ow!
And Oprah has sunk lower than, well, Oprah in a swimming pool, going so far as
to beg people, LITERALLY, to watch her channel, and now she’s
pleading with her A-list friends to help her out.
That
should be fun, eh? According to the National Enquirer, Oprah has been begging
Scientologists John Travolta, Will Smith, Kirstie Alley and Tom Cruise to star
in reality shows.
John
Travolta in FingerGate!
Tom
Cruise in How's
My Beard!
Kirstie
Alley in I'm
Still Fat, But It Pays The Bills!
Will
Smith in Don't
Kiss Me On Camera, Here's My Room Key!
Apparently,
Oprah has finally realized that C-listers like Rosie O’Donnell won't save
her OWN sinking ship, so she's trying to call in favors from the Scientology
clan and promises never, ever to ask them about their "religion."
So
far, all Oprah’s 'friends' have said, “We’ll think about it!”
Better
hurry, I hear every thought costs Oprah another million bucks!
Let's drop in on Lohan, and Liz.
Lifetime’s Liz
& Dick begins
production in a few weeks, and there's still no dick, er, Dick. And Lifetime
has been combing their stable of Lifetime men, like Eddie Cibrian, to play
the part.
Eddie.Cibrian.
Let's let that one rest for a minute because, well, I'm puking a little in my
mouth.
They
also seem to want Wilmer Valderrama who never met a syllable he couldn't mush
mouth, and they even thinking.....wait for it......Charlie Sheen.
OMG.
Train, followed quickly by, wreck.
Luckily,
or not, Lindsay has gone into full diva mode and wants to handpick her dick,
er, Dick, herself. So, choices for Richard Burton have been narrowed down
to Gossip Girl star Matthew Settle, Sean Maguire, and CSI 's Craig Robert
Young, but after watching the audition tapes last weekend, “Lindsay
declared that none of the actors were the right fit and that she wanted to go
to London to look for a possible Burton actor there.”
I
think Lindsay heard you can buy prescription meds easier in the UK.
A
source--and you know it's Dina, sipping chardonnay right out of the
box--says, “Lindsay is being an absolute nightmare about who
should play Burton. She believes Matthew Settle is too old to
play the role, and she wants a major A-list star to be her co-star.
However, her salary for the role took up a major portion of the budget, and the
Burton gig will likely only pay $200k, max. The producers don’t need to get
Lindsay’s approval of who will play Richard Burton, but they want to keep her
happy.”
Lindsay
wants an A-list star?
That's
the most high-larious thing I've heard today. I mean, her last acting gig was
three lines on Glee, followed by a two-day bathroom break, and she's gonna
demand a star!?!?
Look,
this thing is gonna be a mess no matter who they get, so I suggest they get a
famous TV star, who could draw big numbers to the net.
I'm
thinking Homer Simpson?
Chris
Brown was at the Billboard Music Awards last weekend, lip-synching and dancing
and grabbing his Little Chris Brown. But this isn’t about that, this is about
Chris the night before....
Chris Brown’s
infamous temper flared up again when he angrily confronted a stranger over a
group of girls in a top Vegas club. According to witnesses, Brown spent more
than two hours Saturday night at Haze at Aria charming a group of young women
and buying multiple bottles of Champagne.
But
one witness--and I’m thinking Rihanna--said, “Brown got visibly upset when the
girls moved on to the next table. Brown approached the guys in the group and
started getting visibly agitated. Brown stood up, and looked like he was about
to start a fight when club security stopped him.”
Now,
Brown’s representative said this isn’t true, like he said that whole beat
Rihanna thing wasn't true either, but the source goes on: “He got in the guy’s
face and was cursing at him, and saying, ‘Are these girls with you or with me?’
The guy was stunned by it. Things were close to getting extremely ugly. Then
Chris’ security and club security escorted him out.”
And
even a Haze representative said there was an "incident" involving
Brown but declined to give details, saying only that “Haze has a zero tolerance
policy for violence.”
This
guy needs serious help.
And
maybe a singing lesson; or at least a singing live lesson.
I like Sharon Stone. years ago she said, on
a red carpet, about gossip sites, "If you haven't got anything nice to say
about someone, come sit by me."
I
like that.
But
now, she might be rethinking. See, the Los Angeles Times is reporting
that Sharon Stone is being sued by Erlinda T. Elemen, a former
nanny.
The
nanny, a Filipino woman, claims that she was fired by Sharon Stone
for “accepting overtime pay and repeatedly subjected to derogatory
comments about her Filipino heritage and religious beliefs.”
I'm
gonna let the racism allegation slide for a moment: Elemen says she was fired
because she "accepted" overtime pay? Um, if you're Workin'
Overtime--not to be confused with an 80s Diana Ross record--you accept the pay,
right?
Still,
Elemen also says Stone told her not to speak in front the children because
Sharon didn’t want them to “talk like you.” And Elemen ALLEGES that
Stone used to tell her that Filipino people were “stupid”, and ALLEGEDLY mocked
and criticized Elemen’s religious beliefs, church attendance and Bible-reading.
In
fact, Elemen actually says Stone forbid her from even reading the Bible.
I'm
not sure I'm buying this at all, because even Elemen says that, after she was
fired, Stone invited her “to come back in the future to say goodbye to the
children she once cared for.”
And,
Stone said Elemen was terminated without cause and even signed an email
"Best Regards, Sharon Stone — See me for a letter of reference. SS.”
Stone
paid Elemen about $1000 a week, but since being fired, Elemen says she cannot
find full-time work and......
Oh,
she can't find work, so let's file a suit.
Plus,
Elemen was fired 18 months ago, and is just now filing suit and saying she was
racially attacked and belittled. And in that 18 months she filed claims for
disability and worker's compensation, both of which were denied, so the next
obvious step is a wrongful termination suit.
Friday, May 25, 2012
Good News Friday: Faith Over Fear
Dominic Sheahan-Stahl is a former student at Sacred Heart
Academy, and this year his younger brother was graduating. Dominic was thrilled
to have been asked to be the keynote speaker for the graduation, until....
He was un-invited when school officials learned he was
gay.
And the SHA 2012 graduating class wasn't at all
happy about the decision either, and made sure the community knew what was
happening by voicing their anger over the school’s decision to cancel
Sheahan-Stahl’s speech.
But Sheahan-Stahl wasn’t so angry, and he wasn't about to
be stopped.
He still gave his keynote speech, but in a different
place, where bigotry doesn't set the rules.
He spoke to some 700 people packed into Warriner Hall on
Central Michigan University’s campus Sunday afternoon and the graduating class
from the Sacred Heart Academy were the first ones to enter.
Sheahan-Stahl explained what it felt like to be
asked to be the Sacred Heart Academy graduation speaker: “You know those
moments in your life that don’t happen often. But the moment when something
happens it starts in the pit of your stomach and creeps into your heart and it
fills your whole body? I felt that feeling when I got my first professional job
and I felt that feeling the moment I was asked to be the commencement speaker
of the 2012 graduation class of SHA....I want you to know that feeling has
never ever left me.”
Sheahan-Stahl mentioned how proud he was to be speaking
at his younger brother’s graduation: “It’s amazing that’s it’s the end of
three generations of Sheahan’s at SHA and I think that it is a wonderful
tradition.”
During his speech, Sheahan-Stahl made sure his message
got across. “I choose faith over fear always,” he said with conviction.
At one time Sheahan-Stahl, who works as an actor in New
York City, compared himself to his friends who were getting jobs on Broadway,
and wondered if he was a failure, but he soon realized that, “To compare
is to despair. My life, like your life, is my own and it has its own direction,
time and pace.”
“Never ever, ever forget that because every single one of
you in this room and every person in this world was put on this earth for a
reason. You’re all wonderful, you’re all amazing and you all matter....“the
world needs what I have to give.”
He received a standing ovation.
And, interestingly enough, his being a gay man never once
came up because it was a graduation speech; it was about life, and growing up, and learning and becoming. All things the officials at Sacred Heart apparently didn't want their students to hear.
Faith over fear.
I Didn't Say It....
Beau Biden, Delaware Attorney General and, well, hottie, on his father, Joe Biden's, support of marriage equality:
"My dad spoke from the heart. I'm
incredibly proud of what he said. I'm even more proud of what the president
said as it relates to making sure that this is a fundamental civil rights
issue. It's a civil rights issue. It's something that people in my state, in
Delaware, and everywhere I go are incredibly proud of the stance that the
president has taken on a matter of equality. At a moment we're sending people
to defend our nation – whether they be gay or straight – to not allow them to
have the same rights that we all have on the home front just doesn't make sense."
Word.
Bill Donohue, Catholic League spokesdouche,
on the legal wedding between NYC mayoral Candidate, Christine Quinn, and her
partner, Tina Caputo:
"The people who go know they are not
witnessing a wedding. I will be at a bar [on Saturday] watching the Preakness.
The horses are a lot more fun - and it's real."
Um, Bill, you delusional
dumbfuck.
It is a real wedding.
Same-sex marriage is legal in New York. So, go, drown your sorrows in alcohol
you pitiful loser.
Matthew McConaughey, on what
he might do if one of his children was gay: "There’s
nothing in me that can understand disowning your child because they’re gay. You
deal with it, you support them, and you also help prepare them for how some
people in the world will treat and think of them."
I still get
an icky vibe from McConaughey, but, hey, he seems to be pretty cool if he had a
gay kid, so maybe….maybe…..I’ll remove a couple of Ick Points.
"I've been a real loud active voice in the
movement to get marriage equality. And I had gone up the month before to
Albany, when they were days away from that historic vote, to rally and to see
who I could talk to, and just be another face out there saying let's do the
right thing here....I had read a beautiful story in The New York Times about
the couple who were getting married, and that Mayor Bloomberg was going to
preside over their wedding at Gracie Mansion. And my friend called me and said,
'They'd love to have you come and sing.' And I was floored. I was so honored.
And I cried like a baby at that ceremony. And I brought my daughter. And it was
a very moving moment and a very teachable moment having my daughter there. And
as far as she was concerned, it was just another wedding. She doesn't really
see the issue, which is great. So that's how it came about. It was a beautiful
day."
That’s the deal about same-sex marriage.
The younger generation doesn’t see the problem.
Love is love. Two consenting adults want to make a
commitment.
What is the big deal?
Ken Bennett, Arizona Secretary of State, on keeping President Obama off his state's November
ballot:
"First of all, I’m not playing to the birthers, I’m
not a birther. I believe that the president was born in Hawaii, or at least I
hope he was. Hawaii has a special provision in their law that allows other
government officials from other states to request what’s called a verification
in lieu of a certified copy of a birth certificate. So I’m not asking for the
certified copy of the birth certificate at all. I was frankly expecting that
they would very quickly and very simply say ‘yes.’ Eight weeks later, they
haven’t. I can’t seem to get them to say yes."
Ken, you are a birther. This question has been asked and
answered almost non-stop since 2008 and yet you GOP douchebagging, wingnutting,
asshatting morons keep bringing it up.
Enough already. Arizona has tons more issues to deal with
than this nonsense.
Bill Owens, "Reverend", of the Coalition of
African-American Pastors, asking Obama to devolve on same-sex marriage:
"A 50-year-old can only read about the struggles and
protests of the civil rights era, but some of us who are older have the battle
scars to prove it. And the rights we fought so hard to acquire did not include
same-sex marriage. We ask President Obama to stand with the black church, on
the Word of God and evolve again back to the common sense biblical view that
marriage is the union of husband and wife."
Marriage rights are Civil Rights, “Reverend”, no matter
how many times you say they aren’t.
Civil Rights aren’t a black, brown, yellow, white, male,
female, gay, straight issue.
They are a human issue.
Alveda King, NOM ally and the niece of Martin
Luther King, Jr., on the NAACP's support for marriage equality:
“Neither my
great-grandfather, an NAACP founder, my grandfather Dr. Martin Luther King Sr.,
an NAACP leader, my father Rev. A. D. Williams King, nor my uncle Dr. Martin
Luther King Jr. embraced the homosexual agenda that the current NAACP is
attempting to label as a civil rights agenda. In the 21st century, the
anti-traditional marriage community is in league with the anti-life community,
and together with the NAACP and other sympathizers, they are seeking a world
where homosexual marriage and abortion will supposedly set the captives free.”
Honey. You need to sit down.
Your Uncle is ashamed of you.
Welton Gaddy, Reverend and President of Interfaith
Alliance, on "Pastor" Charles Worley's sermon which suggested gays
and lesbians be rounded up, put in electrified pens, and left to die:
"In one fell swoop
this angry minister managed to discredit from his pulpit both the Constitution
of the United States and the compassion that we find in the bible, and
additionally he did a very dangerous thing by planting seeds of hatred in sick
minds that in the right circumstances can act on them and do the kind of
violence that has no place in our world."
I think his sermon is Hate Speech, and I think if one of
his delusional flock acts on his “sermon” then he should be brought up on
charges of inciting Hate.
“I think everyone should be happy. I think a fool is
going to go against same sex marriage at this point.....Look how long it took [Obama]
to say he was for same sex marriages. You understand? I’m up for it. If
everyone else is for it, then hey, to each his own. I don’t have personal
feelings towards it because I’m not involved in that lifestyle. I want people
to be happy. It makes for everything to be better.... {but} we need
organisations for straight men. We do. We need organisations for straight men
in the case you’ve been on the elevator and somebody decides they want to grab
your little buns.”
Really,
Fiddy? We need an organization to protect straight men from having their asses
grabbed by gay men?
You started
off real good there, in your little speech, like it was all equality, and then
you turned it into a stereotyping asshatted moronic statement.
I wouldn’t
grab your ass if it was the last ass on Earth.
Douche.
Maggie
Gallagher, NOM's Hellhound, dismissing polls
showing no effect from Obama's marriage equality support...and, in that same article
she cites polls that feed her delusions:
"Polls are just
static snapshots....Obama, by endorsing gay marriage, has broken through the
media silence imposed on those who oppose gay marriage, generating new,
unexpected and highly visible expressions of opposition. All of a sudden,
pastors across America are preaching against gay marriage. Conservative talk
radio shows are addressing it. People are hearing that their friends and
neighbors disapprove. A new dynamic is in play, set in motion by Obama's
misjudgment: He believed the pundits and chose the money over the voters.
That's almost always a bad bet for a president. In November, unless he evolves
again, he will find out just how bad a bet that was."
Maggie. Maggie. Maggie.
You delusional hypocrite.
Your fat behind is on the
wrong side of history and I cannot wait until Marriage Equality is the law of
the land so I can watch your fat, cheese-filled head explode.
Colin Powell, General and former Secretary of State, on marriage equality:
"I have no problem with it...As I’ve thought about gay marriage, I know a lot of friends who are individually gay but are in partnerships with loved ones, and they are as stable a family as my family is, and they raise children. And so I don’t see any reason not to say that they should be able to get married."
It looks like everyone is evolving.
Evolution is good.
Colin Powell, General and former Secretary of State, on marriage equality:
"I have no problem with it...As I’ve thought about gay marriage, I know a lot of friends who are individually gay but are in partnerships with loved ones, and they are as stable a family as my family is, and they raise children. And so I don’t see any reason not to say that they should be able to get married."
It looks like everyone is evolving.
Evolution is good.
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