Jesse Thorn, content creator and father to a trans daughter,
posted a defense of trans kids during which he posed a question for
all the cisgender haters:
“I have this memory of my wife handing me a printout of the
book [she wrote, Feels Good to Be Yourself] and I read it, and I was
just pouring tears. You’d think that would be because, like, this is a
beautiful story of a trans kid, and it’s our kid. But actually, no. Actually,
it was because it was about all of us. I’m cisgender. Everybody always assumed
I was a man, and I actually am a man. And until my daughter came out, I never
really had to think about my gender identity or even about anyone else’s. It
was like transparent to me. I never consciously checked in with myself. People
just assumed something, and it happened that they were right, so it just sort
of ‘was'. And so when my kid came out, I had to really stretch my mind to
imagine her experience. It was so different from my experience. I never chose
my identity, and so my daughter must be choosing hers, and she must be
rejecting my way of being in the world, is how it felt. [Those who hate trans
people are] sort of caught on their back foot like, ‘Wait, I didn’t choose
anything. These trans people must be choosing. I’m neutral. They’re different.
They are rejecting me,’ and then people are taking that uncomfortable feeling
and getting really nasty. In my wife’s book, there is no, ‘This way is normal.
This way is different.’ There is the expectation that we each will engage with
our own identities, think about who we are, and we might come up with different
answers. Trans people had to look inward. Everybody was wrong about them. They
had to figure themselves out. For cis people, we just never even tried. [My
wife’s book] puts trans kids and cis kids on the same level. It’s because it
asks cis people to think about themselves. It’s scary. What if we ask ourselves
about ourselves, and we don’t like the answer?”
Thorn suggests that if you fear trans people “is it because
they’re weird, or because you are being forced to deal with you?”
And that’s the answer. Pretty simple, eh?
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Will this be the end of 60 Minutes? I hope not.
ReplyDeleteJesse Thorn's quotation explains the situation so clearly. It applies not only to trans people and cis people's reactions to them, but also to lesbigay people and straight people's reactions to us.
ReplyDeleteHave you read Snow Falling on Cedars by David Guterson. It's an excellent book that can give you an idea of what George Takei's family had to suffer in WW2. And more power to George that he continues to fight the haters.
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CBS will crash and burn. One thing that hasn't gotten a lot of press is that when Larry Ellison (Skydance) bought Paramount, he began raising franchise fees for shows that Paramount owns, like Star Trek. A surprising number of small businesses pay to use an image, or a phrase that has been copyrighted by Paramount. Some of these fees have gone up as much as 1000% and these small businesses are now hurting badly, not that Larry Ellison cares.
ReplyDeleteGood on George Takei for refusing to be silent. My next door neighbor was born in a concentration camp in Topaz, Utah; she refuses to be silenced. I stand with her sense of justice.
ReplyDeleteThoughts CBS:
ReplyDelete*I’ve heard a lot of takes on the so-called “spiking” of the CECOT story. One that sheds even more light on the underlying motives is Weiss stepping out of her ivory tower to do that interview/town hall with Kirk. The interview was a complete ratings flop. Media insiders have said this is simply not done—you don’t put the boss on air when you have plenty of capable people who could conduct the interview. On top of that, Weiss has no credible journalistic experience. Substack doesn’t count as bona fides.
*Then we have Tony Dokoupil moving from CBS Mornings to CBS Evening News. I don’t watch the morning shows—side note, it would be hell to be on air with Gayle King—but if Tony is the journalist he claims to be, why make the move to CBS Evening News? A career move? Maybe. But CBS News will almost certainly be under Weiss’s thumb. Or could it be that Tony’s political leanings mirror those of his wife, Kati Tur, who on MS Now occasionally lets her Republican side show?
Personally, I wouldn’t take a position where I couldn’t do my best work or felt my hands tied behind my back.
🤨 Some of the haters who tell actors like George Takei to "stick to" one part of their fame are also the ones who demand that same famous person use their platform to support the haters' favorite causes!!
ReplyDeleteWow! Narcissism much?! It's all about them...a bunch of mini-Trumps!! 🤬
And Takei is excellent at telling the haters when and where to step off! 🥰
George Takei, because of his life lived, has every reason to speak up.
DeleteBut then we ALL have the right to speak up, too, but Takei speaks from his own experiences.
CBS as Trumpenführer’s agitprop.
ReplyDeleteWhat a disgrace, and it’s all on oligarch Larry Ellison and Bari “Goebbels” Weiss !
Rex in DC
Sad that once was a reputable news source ahs now become a propaganda machine. I doubt it will ever recover.
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