Linda Lavin, who passed away last week, recalling the second
episode of her TV series Alice and how it featured a gay character:
“There was a football player friend of Mel’s who came to
town. He was big, and tall, and handsome and blonde and he invited me out to dinner ... And then he
came back to the apartment, we’re sitting on the sofa, and Alice is very fond
of this guy and wondering why he is not more attentive or affectionate. So she
starts asking him little questions like ‘Are you married?’ ‘No,’ he says. ‘Are
you engaged?’ ‘No,’ he says, ‘I’m gay,’ and that’s the end of act one ... [When Alice tells Mel about his friend] he says ‘You’re crazy.
He’s a football player, and he’s all man and he’s not gay,’ and that’s Mel.
That’s his small-minded, bigoted … he had planned this
hunting trip with his friend and they were going to also take Tommy [Alice’s
son but] ... Alice didn’t want Tommy to go hunting with this guy [because of her] homophobia, her ignorance, her fear. [But] then she submits to the reality that they have made this plan and they’re
going to go, and she grows up. She grows up. She accepts the situation. In a
half hour, she grows up in what took us maybe as a generation, 100 years. [When
Tommy returns he’s upset at shooting a deer] so, it went
from the place of homophobia, of fear, of a strange invasion into her life of
something she didn’t know how to handle, to something even more serious, which
was a child’s loss of innocence. The more we come out of those closets, the
more we accept each other, and I think that’s what television can do.”
All that from a TV sitcom and a wonderfully evolved and
smart woman. Brilliant
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I told everybody that wasn't strictly Maga a trump was just a pawn of Putin and he would do everything in his power to destroy NATO. He isn't even in the office yet and showing signs of extreme fascism
ReplyDeleteHe's Putin's Puppet and Elon's Bitch.
DeleteLets spend the next couple of years channeling our inner Jimmy Carter.
ReplyDeleteThat'd be nice.
DeleteThis post gives me hope that there are people out there who are good and decent people. I agree with you about Joe Biden. I hope time will prove just how good a president he was.
ReplyDeleteI think so, I hope so.
Delete"I am who I am, not who you want." Right on, Karla!
ReplyDeleteAs we all should be allowed to be.
DeletePete is eloquent. Both Carter and Biden have been unfairly maligned. I really think the timing of Carter's funeral is poetic justice. Lots of comparisons were made - explicitly or implicitly. But all that never penetrated the empty shell that is DJT.
ReplyDeleteThe Felon won't get it; he fell asleep during the service.
DeleteThe felonious one wouldn’t even put his hand over his heart as everyone else did when Carter’s coffin passed by them at the funeral service. :( -Rj
DeleteHe's a pig.
DeleteWow, your positivity today is amazing! Adam and Pete rock, as usual. These are 2 very smart men. And Debbie's saying what most of us are saying among ourselves, not the cultists, of course, they no longer have brains.
ReplyDeleteNot my positivity; theirs.
DeleteInspiring, uplifting column today. When we're feeling down and mad (and there will be a LOT of that over the next term), we need to recall these words spoken by a group of compassionate, caring people.
ReplyDeleteI like focusing on the good news; the smart people; not the Cult of Maga.
DeleteDid you listen to the eulogies at Jimmy Carter's funeral? There was such a comparison between Jimmy's honesty, caring for our earth and all people, with Frump sitting in the pews the total opposite of a fine man.
ReplyDeleteI don't think any of what was said about Carter yesterday even made sense to The Felon. The two men are completely different people.
DeleteThere seem to be too many "Christians" in America who don't seem to know the teachings of Christ. They pick out the nasty bits in the Old Testament to justify their unpleasantness and ignore the New Testament.
ReplyDeleteThey are faux-Christians.
DeleteCarter was a one-of-a-kind president. History will be as kind to him as it is hard on The Felon.
ReplyDeleteTruth.
DeleteI had completely forgotten about that “Alice” episode! In those days, to make the point, the surprise gays were always ex-football players. But this still moved me, and I didn’t come out until 5 years later. The Orange Felon had no clue what they were talking about at the memorial.
ReplyDeleteI like how Lavin describes how her character "grew up" in that episode.
DeleteAdam is worth a follow, TBH.
ReplyDeleteThe man speaks the TRUTH with an insider's knowledge. I also like that he's handsome, but that's beside the point.
I think we are all going to miss Uncle Joe terribly once the Orange Idiot Felon steps in the White house. Ugh.
Also, Pete Buttigieg will be president one day.
XOXO
Is it beside the point that Adam is hot??? 😈😈😈
DeleteI need Pete to be President.
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I hope people will continue to remember Jimmy Carter and try to live by his principles. I was struck by what he said about gays and what Christ's attitude was/would have been - so much sense, so much compassion, so much understanding.
ReplyDeleteJimmy Carter was what many Christians pretend to be but they often fall far short.
DeleteGreat selection---A lot of good nuggets to uplift and encourage us---Have a great Friday and weekend---
ReplyDeleteI'm enjoying the more positive sane quotes of late!
DeleteWe're expecting snow so we are staying put for the next day or so.
🫶 Karla Sofía Gascón is a model for what all of us should aspire to. Her attackers are the deviants. Right now, hate is on the rise and the haters feel strong because they have hate-masters who have huge platforms and voices. But, they are not in the majority on this planet; that arc of history will balance again and the haters will crawl back into the darkness where nasty little bugs belong!! 🪳
ReplyDeleteThey can come for LGBTQ+ people but they will never get rid of us.
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ReplyDeleteGood collection!
xoxo :-)
Thanks.
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Off topic, but I heard "Vogue" on the radio as I turned into work this morning and I immediately thought of you teasing Carlos for not knowing the song! lol
ReplyDeleteOh Carlos and his spotty pop culture knowledge! 😁
DeleteI never could stand Debbie Wasserman-Schultz. And at the funeral proceedings yesterday, I'm not sure what it was about but I heard Joe Biden gave the snub to Kamala Harris several times. Not sure what that was about.
ReplyDeleteAnd I still adore Pete.
I didn't notice a snub ... I wonder what it might have been.
DeleteAnd Pete 💗💗💗
I saw that too Maddie. The chemistry was odd between all of them I thought except for Joe Biden. But just because they have political differences doesn't mean they cant get along. The press was really playing at the trump and Obama laughing moment.
DeleteI give props to Obama that he could sit next to that Birther and not smack that flab off his face.
DeleteI see some Jimmy Carter in Joe Biden, too, and it makes me proud of him and grateful for the four years of his presidency. Jimmy Carter is in Kamala, too, and in Pete. Karla Sofía Gascón is right about the people who find joy in destroying lives. trump is one of those people. He learned it from his father and from Roy Cohn. We have to do everything we can to fight and break the chain of abuse and misery.
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Janie
Definitely right about breaking the chain!
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A great installment this week of quotes. I adored Linda Lanvin. I still hold out hope Pete Buttigieg will be back again one day.
ReplyDeleteI am 100% with you on both people!
DeleteGiven half a chance the Panamanians should chuck Old Fat Donald in their canal and watch him splashing around, desperately crying out for help.
ReplyDeleteI'd fly down to help ...
DeleteVery nice Carter tributes from Pete Buttigieg and Joe Biden.
ReplyDeleteNice decent men talking about a nice decent man.
DeleteP.S. what's this news I hear about JD Vance quitting the Senate?
ReplyDeleteHe has to because he's the Vice President-elect.
DeleteI had forgotten about that Alice episode, but I remember it now! I bet my mom was watching it with us and wondering if she should turn off the TV. But she must not have because I've definitely seen it.
ReplyDeleteWay ahead of its time, that episode.
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