Friday, April 04, 2025

I Didn't Say It ...

David Archuleta, former American Idol contestant and out Mormon singer, on how trans people helped him come out:

“When I was still a shy 16 yr-old teenager living in Utah, entering the public view on American idol it was daunting because I didn’t know if people were going to see parts of me I was working so hard to bury deep down. I was just a scared queer kid that didn’t understand himself but still trying to do my best in a singing competition viewed by millions, to make my family, home state, faith community, and the idol audience proud. There were a lot of reasons I was nervous but one of the biggest was feeling so exposed when I still didn’t understand myself and feared being outed for something I didn’t know whether I was or not as gay or queer … Adore Delano [RuPaul’s Drag Race contestant] was on my same season of idol and just a year older than me. Even though I wasn’t out yet I felt safe with her. Whatever in me that I so despised and was ashamed [of] went away for a bit when I [was] hanging and laughing with her or having talks. She was the first person from the LGBTQIA+ community I ever had an open conversation with about someone in their queer experience and coming out. I was surprised to see someone openly figuring themselves out and not feeling ashamed or embarrassed or a need to hide. Even though I didn’t realize where I was on my journey, by knowing her and befriending her I became a little less afraid of myself. I’m so proud of her to see her continuing to blossom and continue in her journey being more fully herself in her transition … inspiring others the way she did with me and so many countless others … Happy International Transgender Day of Visibility] to you … and to all the rest of my Trans family who I love and am inspired by. The world is better with y’all in it.”

This just further proves how one of us coming out, as gay or bi or trans, paves the way for others to follow. Had Archuleta never met Adore, he may have just gone back to Utah and lived a closeted life, desperate to stay in the church as so many other gay Mormons have done.

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Mrs. Betty Bowers, AKA Deven Green, comedian and America’s Best Christian, on hypocrisy in the new regime:

“I learned this week that you can put your troops’ lives in danger, compromise our national security, and violate the Espionage Act, and the government will do nothing. But if you write an editorial for your school newspaper that [The Felon] doesn’t like, you we be abducted on the street and disappeared.”

Bowers is speaking of Tufts University student Rümeysa Öztürk who co-authored an op-ed about the university’s response to student demands for divestment from Israel. A week later, leaving her home, Öztürk was grabbed by a half-dozen masked agents of the Department of Homeland Security, cuffed, put in a car and driven away.

This is not America; this regime talks about how their side has all the rights to Free Speech, but attacks and disappears those who disagree with them.

Resist.

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Jasmine Crockett, Democrat Representative from Texas, Christian Nationalist Mike Johnson's hissy fit:

“So Speaker Johnson threw a tantrum today and cancelled votes for the rest of the week because he couldn’t wrangle enough support  to block new parents from voting [by proxy] in Congress. I guess when you don’t get your way, you just shut it down and go home? The American people didn’t elect us to pout.”

Nine of his own GOP members rebelled against Johnson’s Faux Christian move to tank a procedural vote on a measure that many considered anti-family … allowing new parents to vote by proxy rather than coming to Congress, which is something that was done during the pandemic.

The GOP is so out-of-touch with what people want.

Resist.

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Mark Carney, Canadian Prime Minister, on the lasting damage The Felon has inflicted on Canada:

"The old relationship we had with the United States based on deepening integration of our economies and tight security and military cooperation is over. What exactly the United States does next is unclear but what is clear—what is clear—is that we as Canadians have agency. We have power. We are masters in our own home. We can control our destiny. We can give ourselves much more than any foreign government including the United States can ever take away. We can deal with this crisis best by building our strength right here at home. It will take hard work. It will take steady and focused determination from governments, from businesses, from labor, from Canadians. We will need to dramatically reduce our reliance on the United States. We will need to pivot our trade relationships elsewhere and we will need to do things previously thought impossible at speeds we haven't seen in generations."

The bit about pivoting trade relationships "elsewhere" should concern every American. Thanks to The Felon’s idiotic tariffs, the US is no longer a stable partner to foreign nations and even countries like China and Russia are going to look like better options for many of our former allies.

The Felon promised his supporters a new "Golden Age" but he’s dragging us into an economic Dark Age.

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Ruben Gallego, Arizona Democrat Senator, announcing that he's putting a hold on [The Felon’s] nominees to run the Department of Veterans Affairs amidst cuts to that agency:

"Talking to veterans, people that I served with as well as seeing some of what’s happening in Arizona, I decided that whatever tool I have to fix the situation, I’m going to use it. And this is one of the few tools I have at this point."

The hold will complicate Richard Topping's nomination process and prevent the Senate from moving quickly to a vote, possibly tying up hours and even days of floor time. In the process, Gallego will be able to generate attention for the VA and highlight to the public exactly how terrible these nominees are.

Democrats need to fight and Ruben Gallego is showing us how you play hardball against MAGAts.

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Jonathan Groff, on how his late ex-BF Gavin Creel helped him come out:

“He changed my life. I had come out of the closet personally, but there had been no occasion for me to announce it publicly. We were dating and he was so out and doing ‘Hair‘ [on Broadway] at the time and he organized these buses [to the National Equality March]. I really remember the moment of looking over at him with literally a bullhorn and feeling like, ok am I going to like [come out]. It was such an essential moment because of who he was and how out and vocal and how brave and fearless and externalized he was and wanting to kind of try to be as brave as he was. But it was also the love that I was feeling for him. The need that I feel when I perform, the joy I feel when doing that. Feeling love like that for the first time mind-blowingly meant more to me [than performing]. Because at that time it was 2009, [and with] coming out of the closet it was sort of an unspoken thing that you were sacrificing something in your career if you were going to come out publicly. And I remember looking at him and feeling that I would rather feel this feeling than ever be on a TV show or do a movie. This is so much more meaningful to me. I owe him that and I am so grateful we got to talk about it many times even after we broke up. It’s such an unbelievable loss.”

This is just proof, again, that everyone who comes out paves the way for someone to follow.

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32 comments:

  1. Be the sounding board someone needs to come out, give them the boost up to find their joy in life.

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    1. Exactly; we all pave the way for others to follow.

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  2. And that's why coming out and being open about our lives is the most powerful thing we can do.

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  3. Already labels are appearing in the shops "made/grown in Britain" and the same is happening elsewhere, started by our good friends the Canadians.

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    1. The Felon is too stupid to realize what he's done by following orders from Russia.

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    1. That's true, but sometimes the fear that your honesty can be used as a weapon against you, keeps you locked up. That's why we all need to come out, everywhere.

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  5. We need more Rubens, Jasmines, and Corys, that's for sure. Johnson should inherit the "Whiny Little Bitch" title, and just needs to be disappeared.

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    1. I'm hoping Johnson gets disappeared in 2026.

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  6. Anonymous9:49 AM

    Jasmine is such a powerful voice! Everybody should follow her and Gallego and the people making a difference in this hellish administration.
    I have warmed up to Archuleta over time. He represented the obviously closeted mormon for so long I refused to listen to anything he put out. Adore has always been unapologetically herself. So brave.
    Betty Bowers is a national treasure.

    XOXO

    Sixpence

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    1. It's nice that Archuleta was at least open enough to get to know Adore, and good on her for lighting the way for him.

      More Jasmines and Rubens and Bookers and less Schumers.
      xoxo

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  7. So much good today. Jasmine? Great! An extremely well educated woman who knows how to speak to the common man, and she's so good at it.

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    1. Jasmine speaks truth to power and the GOP can't handle it; a woman? a woman of color?
      Their racism and misogyny is showing.

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  8. Cleora Borealis10:11 AM

    🤨 Yup! As we were hearing about Mikey Johnson's little tantrum at the House because of his own weak leadership, I turned to Hubby and, in my best Cartman voice, I declared "Screw you guys! I'm goin' home!" What a bunch of cardboard cut-out cartoon 8 year-olds who are never going to grow up!! But, at least on South Park, we usually hear "I learned something today." With MAGA, never!! 💩🤬

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    1. Little Whiny Bitch Mikey needs a nap.

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  9. Anonymous11:03 AM

    the dog's mother
    good collection!
    xoxo :-)

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    1. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
      xoxo

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  10. All I have to say is how a appalling they act when they don't get their way. Preschool children don't even have hissy fits like this. And then when they do want their way on something, like for example Trump wanting a third term, they better know that when it comes to our turn we get the same privilege. Every time they want to do something it's all right but when Democrats want the same thing then they change their tune.

    And I can't get enough of Jasmine Crockett.

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    1. Ask those MAGAts about third terms for The Felon and then say, "That means Obama can run again, too."

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  11. I'm glad for those who are able to be who they truly are, though I fear for their safety more than ever.
    Mark Carney was the former head of the Bank of Canada and the Bank of England. He was instrumental in steering our country through the 2008 recession. Nothing has brought Canadians together more than the current US administration. We may be polite and say sorry a lot, but the majority will do what is best for our country. As Mike Meyers said, "Elbows up".

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    1. I think the more people that come out and stand up and speak up, the harder it will be to come for us.
      I like Carney; he seems to have that rare trait of common sense.

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  12. If the Orange Turd can get a third term, so can President Obama.

    Will Jay

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  13. Great testimonials from Archuleta and Groff. Bowers has it right -- if it lands in any kind of media, it has Trump's attention, for better or worse.

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  14. Anonymous5:00 PM

    Trump regrettera profondément d'avoir insulté le Canada et l'Europe.
    The Canadiens are tough, as we say in France : Trump s'est trompé d'arbre / Trump has barked up the wrong tree !
    Those grande Canadiens liberated my resistance fighting family from a prison run by the Nazis in Northern France.
    How dare any Américain disgrace and insult Canada whose brave men greatly helped the Américains liberate Europe, and even Nazi Germany from itself :(

    -Beau Mec à Deauville

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    1. Trump will deeply regret having insulted Canada and Europe.
      The Canadians are tough, as we say in France: Trump has barked up the wrong tree!
      Those great Canadians liberated my resistance fighting family from a prison run by the Nazis in Northern France.
      How dare any American disgrace and insult Canada whose brave men greatly helped the Americans liberate Europe, and even Nazi Germany from itself :(

      -Handsome guy in Deauville

      Malheureusement, le criminel n'a aucune idée de l'histoire ni du service militaire, car c'est un imbécile qui esquive le service militaire.
      Les Américains remercient le Canada et toute l'Europe qui ont travaillé avec nous au cours des 250 dernières années.

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  15. Coming out can have a tremendous impact on so many others. I admire Jasmine Crockett and all the inspirations here today.

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  16. I've started reading labels in the supermarket to be sure I don't buy anything made or grown in America.
    I like the idea of Obama running for a third term.

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    1. Except Obama, and The Felon cannot run for a third term ...

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