Friday, July 18, 2025

I Didn't Say It ...

Rosie O'Donnell, firing back at The Felon who tried to deflect from the Epstein mess—PS he’s on the list—by saying he would revoke Rosie’s citizenship:

“hey donald – you’re rattled again? 18 years later and I still live rent-free in that collapsing brain of yours. you call me a threat to humanity –but I’m everything you fear: a loud woman a queer woman a mother who tells the truth an american who got out of the country b4 u set it ablaze you build walls –I build a life for my autistic kid in a country where decency still exists you crave loyalty –I teach my children to question power you sell fear on golf courses – I make art about surviving trauma you lie, you steal, you degrade – I nurture, I create, I persist you are everything that is wrong with america –and I’m everything you hate about what’s still right with it you want to revoke my citizenship? go ahead and try, king joffrey with a tangerine spray tan i’m not yours to silence i never was”

Spot on takedown of a bigoted criminal narcissist BUT … and it’s a Felon-sized butt:

F**k you Rosie. F**k you for running away and leaving the rest of us to fight for America and clean up this mess because we don’t have the money to up and move when it gets tough. We speak out about our neighbors being rounded up and taken away by ICE; about our trans brothers and sisters being erased; about erasing the history of Black Americans as if they don't matter; about stripping away healthcare for Americans, food for children, and the rights of women to make choices about their own bodies.

This whole thing smacks of protests against the Vietnam war in the 1960s and how protesters were told to love America or leave it. Their protests were love and leaving solves nothing; nothing changes.

You have the money, the influence, the social media presence, the voice to do good for America, but you ran. The rest of us stayed; we fight, we march, we speak up, we resist, while you live a cozy life in decent Ireland and "hope" America gets better. So, save your moral high ground and maybe teach your kids not to run from a fight, but to stay and help and work together and fix it.

Oh, and I see Ellen DeGeneres has come out and says she has your back; tell her to F**k Off, too.

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Cheyenne Jackson, out actor, turns 50 and reflects on his life:

“Today I’m 50. I’ve been waiting a long time to do the Molly Shannon ‘I’m 50!’-high kick, and now I can for real. 50. A number that once felt impossibly far away… now feels somehow right on time. This past year has been a reckoning. My dog died. My best friend [Broadway performer Gavin Creel]died.
Hollywood halted. Los Angeles burned. Grief has been my steady companion. ‘Hey girl, I see you’re back,’ I say to her. She lingers for a while, we dance a bit … it’s slow and flirty at first, then it morphs quickly into a WWF match. I finally push her off, then she floats along like a burnt-sugar-scented cloud. What once was sweet is now scorched. My beloved children are almost nine … How? They are growing into their own bold, beautiful selves, and they remind me every day that joy is loud, messy, and everywhere … if I stay present enough to notice. This year I stepped fully into my writing, not as a side passion,
but as another extension of my art. My tough new lit agent was worried I would suck. Turns out I don’t. He was surprised. I wasn’t—but pretended to be. It’s a little thing I like to do. Pretending, you see … it’s been a theme in my life. The fear of not being good enough always nearby, waiting in the woods like a wet creature ready to pounce and flog me before I can do it all by myself. I ache to connect. I’m working on it. My friends push through my isolation. I refocused on my sobriety. I took it for granted. Treated it like gravity. So constant, you forget it’s holding you up. Trying to let myself feel more, hide less. And yes, like so many immediate families, due to this impossible political hellscape, we’ve navigated differences. Tensions. Unsaid things. But beneath it all, I’m still holding on to hope. For healing. Or maybe some ‘Love Can Build a Bridge’-style-JUDDS sh*t to happen and make it all better. And yet, through every tear, every missed soccer goal, every broken toe (mine), every broken foot (Willow’s), is [my husband] Jason. My love. My north star. He sees me clearly, loves me ANYWAY, and reminds me (daily) that I’m not alone in any of this. So here’s to 50. Not a finish line. Not a starting line. Not a reinvention. Less performing. More being. And definitely more high kicks.”

What a great post to celebrate a milestone, with honesty, joy, and family and love and insight into where you were, where you are, and where you’re going.

Happy Birthday, sir.

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John Barrowman, out actor, on the scandal that derailed his career four years ago:

“May 3, 2021, my world shattered and everything changed for me. It makes me sad because a lot of people who have attacked me are the people that I fought for to allow them to have a voice. [People had been out to get me but] could not get me any other way but, ‘Oh, let’s get him because we’ve heard stories that he flashed and did certain stupid things on set. Now, the thing that upsets me the most is they tried to make it out that I was a sexual predator. I contemplated taking my own life a couple of times. I didn’t see a way out from it. Everything that I loved had been stripped away from me. I was badly advised in the very beginning. I should have fought. But I was told to not say anything because it was [during] the whole #MeToo thing. I’m most disappointed in the way my colleagues in the industry didn’t speak up, did not step forward and say ‘This is ridiculous. This is stupid.’ Listen, I’d never do it again. Ever. We learned from what’s happened. I was the beefcake for Dr. Who. I was not asked about doing nude scenes or taking my clothes off in original contracts. It was written. So, therefore, if you want to talk about a power dynamic, I thought if I didn’t do the stuff, I would lose my job. If you don’t do what’s written in the script. And, as an actor, that’s what I do. However I made myself feel comfortable, however wrong you think it was, at that time I was making myself feel comfortable in the situations that I was standing naked or doing whatever. It’s hard to talk about because it upsets me and I get upset and still a little bit depressed when I sit and think about and hear about all the stuff people say about certain things in our community and I’m like, ‘I could help, I could do stuff!’ But nobody wants to touch me. I’m not asking for sympathy from anybody. I don’t want anyone’s sympathy. I’m just telling you my side.”

Barrowman says he was banned from the entertainment industry in 2021 and his career is only just now coming back. Shortly after the accusations were made, Barrowman released a statement calling his past actions “high-spirited behavior” and “tomfoolery,” but insisting he never intended to make anyone feel uncomfortable but his remarks did little to quell the criticism. Almost overnight, his character Captain Jack Harkness was scrubbed from the Doctor Who and Torchwood cinematic universe and he could not get work.

Barrowman says the whole thing practically destroyed him.

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21 comments:

  1. Unfair to Rosie. She is doing what she can with words from a refuge. That's a blast from the past, Torchwood and the the gay Captain Jack Harkness. I can barely remember what it was but I saw it at the time.

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    1. I have no issue with her response to The Felon ... I called it a spot on take-down.
      My issue is that someone with privilege and wealth and social media presence leaving America, when America needs all of our voices, and moving to another country to feel "safe" while regular Americans march and protest and resist. If you love America you fight for her, you don't run.

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  2. Rosie ALWAYS gets under Cheeto’s skin. Always. It’s about power and he has no power over her.
    Cheyenne is fifty?? How??
    And I was wondering about Barrowman… I think I remember the scandal! He was following the script but people wanted to be outraged?
    Typical. I hope he makes a comeback.

    XOXO

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    1. I guess my annoyance with Rosie is her entitlement, running off when The Felon gets elected and not staying to fight and use her influence and power to resist.
      Ellen, too.
      xoxo

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  3. I can't make up my mind about folks like Rosie....they anger me for leaving rather than staying to fight, while, at the same time, I envy them **because** they're able to get the hell out.
    I don't recall Barrowman. But I do recall a lot of people were thrown under buses during the MeToo movement --- and some who had actually been assaulted were told to "STFU." A lot of screwed-up outcomes. I hope he makes it back. Some never will get back, despite having done nothing wrong and even proved it in court.

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    1. I think you should stay and fight, case closed. Just because you have the money means you get to run off? I am not here for that.

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  4. Rosie rocks! Cheyenne is learning that life truly beings at 50. I always felt the Barrowman accusations were a bit vindictive similar to the outrage expressed at the Al Franken photograph. Certain people were looking for targets and he was a handsome, successful gay man.

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    1. Rosie doesn't rock; she left this country because she thinks it was going to get bad? Are her children going hungry? Is her healthcare at risk? Are her neighbors being rounded up? Nope, cuz she ran.

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  5. I don’t know because I’m not in Rosie’s position, but I think I too would leave to protect my child. I have no clue what would be the absolutely right thing to do. At minimum, I LOVE what she wrote to the orange menace. Cheyenne Jackson is dreamy. I always liked John Barrowman. His behavior was childish.

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    1. Rosie's children, as the children of a very rich mother, were never in danger; they weren't going to lose their school lunches or their health care. It's BS. I'm glad she takes on The Felon but I'd have more respect for her is she resisted while living here.

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  6. Cancel culture can be tyrannical, it's true.

    A little harsh on Rosie, though! She can still resist from Ireland and in fact is doing so. I don't think it's fair to expect her to stay put in the USA if she feels she can no longer live there.

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    1. How is she resisting? Living is decent Ireland and not facing any of the problems here in this country? She doesn't have to live here but her statement that she's protecting her family, while she let's other families suffer, pisses me off.
      Lotsa of very wealthy, very famous people, are staying here and fighting for America IN America. Not baiting a felon with a social media post.

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  7. Cleora Borealis10:07 AM

    🤔 I rarely disagree with you, Bob, except about architectural styles 😉, but I'm really torn on the Rosie O'Donnell issue. I really wish she hadn't publicly stated she'll return from Ireland after the rest of us clean up the country (paraphrase). But, I lean toward her side on two things. She has spent decades as a target of horrible hate and derision and took it all like a champ even when it was aimed at her children. If she can afford a break away, I won't begrudge her that even though it isn't working because Trump is still attacking!
    But, the second thing for which I'm on her side is more important. She is still raising a 12 y.o. child. Clay is nonbinary, on the autism spectrum, and has a very difficult eating disorder (AFRID). Clay is a possible target in many ways, including they/them pronouns, and deserves to grow up in a more accepting nation. That's a pretty good reason to tip the scale to the side of Rosie, the Mom. 😍

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    1. But, regarding her son, she has the wealth and power and privilege to see that her son gets the best care, but what about other children? Sorry, she ran; it got tough, and she ran. America, for the most part, is very accepting of LGBTQ+ people, and Rosie, again, has the wealth and power to make sure of that.

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  8. My marriage will be turning fifty in two weeks. I was babysitting infant grandbabies at fifty. They are now grown ass women! I've discovered that at thirty the milestones become rolling stones, and you wake up pushing seventy and wondering what happened. Sorry, Cheyenne Jackson kind of got to me, in a good way though.

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    1. Happy Early Big Deal Anniversary!!!! 🥂🍰🥂

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    2. Thank you, Bobulah. Going camping to celebrate. Getting away from it all at Big Trees.

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  9. I hear what you had to say about Rosie O'Donnell. It was a question of fight or flight and she chose the latter. Surrounded by MAGA culture, I guess that there are a lot of decent Americans who simply keep quiet, enjoying a low profile while the right wing madness rattles their windows.

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    1. Flight annoys me, especially given her wreath and privilege.
      Poor people fleeing their countries for a better life? All for it. A rich, entitled woman with the menas and cash to run and not stay and use her influence to fight gets under my skin.

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  10. Anonymous12:05 PM

    the dog's mother
    xoxo :-)

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  11. And I have just the birthday present for Cheyenne Jackson!

    And I loved that shot back that Rosie O'Donnell gave Donald Trump. But I was scared from 1 to 10 she has always graded my nerves. Her and the whole show of The View. All those women on there seem to be cut from the same cloth. Nothing against them but I've seen that show they all talk over each other and it drives me nuts.

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