Magic Johnson, on his son EJ coming out as gay:
“In the beginning, I was like any other dad. ‘Oh, I’m gonna
get him in sports,’ right? And so when we start, first soccer, and then
football, he like [disagrees with a shake of his the head]. ... I saw early on,
he’s playing with dolls, he likes to play dress-up, but then if I come in, he
would hide all that. But I saw it ... So I think he was [trying to] keep
it from me, and then finally, he felt strong enough that he could finally tell
me. And so, he made me change. It wasn’t he who had to adjust, I had to adjust.
And I finally told him. I said, ‘Let me tell you something, you’re my son. I
love you. I don’t care, if you want to be a gay man, I’m supporting that. I’m
supporting you.’ And when he finally announced it to the world, I saw all the
letters that came in around the world, that he affected all these other young
people who wanted to come out to their parents and gave them the strength to do
it ... And I tell him all the time, ‘I’m so
proud of you. Live your life just like I’m living my life. Love who you want to
love. Dad is going to support you all the way.’ So it was really beautiful and
he cried, he needed to hear that, because some of his friends didn’t get that
support. We all gotta love our children no matter what … and support them
because they need that. They need to know that you love them, that you support
whatever decision they make, or whoever they decide to love or like, you gotta
support that. And that’s what I’ve been able to do…”
Once again, this is how it’s done: it’s your child, love
them.
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So there is some Magic in good parenting. Shapiro beat Mastriano by 14%, that kind of upset hasn't happened since 1946. someone should tell Rick Scott that the only thing on Republican's bingo card was hammering Democrats, this happens when one of their main priorities is grandfathering Social Security. And Josh? Maybe he should focus on building his masculinity rather than attempt to rebuild the Republican party.
ReplyDeleteJosh is just trying to be the first out the gate to say the party screwed up but it's odd he made no mention of it before the election.
DeleteMagic Johnson shows parents the way.
ReplyDeleteI recently watched an episode of Finding Your Roots on PBS where Nathan Lane was the subject, and he told the story of telling his mother he was gay. She said:
Delete"You're a homosexual? I'd rather you were dead."
She eventually came around but imagine what hearing that can do to your child.
Good for Magic Johnson; all parents should support their children's life decisions. Not hiding who you are is a positive that parents should encourage.
ReplyDeleteAs for those broken light bulbs in the Repugnant party....I was flabbergast at Mo Brook's great revelation - who would have guessed he did not approve of der Trumpenfuhrer?
Mo Brooks just showed how utterly stupid he is if he thinks anyone forgot his support of the Traitor.
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Nice, right?
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Good for Magic. This is how it is done. It's not about the parents discomfort but supporting the child. Going through the acceptance process together as the parent and as the child will pay dividends. The acceptance of homosexuality in the US-morally acceptable-is 71% -https://www.statista.com/statistics/225968/americans-moral-stance-towards-gay-or-lesbian-relations/
ReplyDeleteWe have indeed come a long way. Not unicorns and rainbows but a long way.
Rick Scott. We know his history. Medicare fraud-$1.7 BILLION fraud when he ran Columbia/HCA and his $300 million golden parachute. There was a recent episode on The Resident-Season 6-Episode 7 (You can watch it on Fox) The Chimera-where Steven Culp plays Atlanta's Governor Mark Betz. The back story during a confratation was ripped from Rick's life. Rick and his elk are so hypocritical it pains me. They think we are like sheep going over a cliff in lock-step.
We should be holding a vigil and waiting for white smoke when the Big Fat Orange One is indicted. Well, maybe not. We will see if Merrick is asleep at the wheel.
On the heels of Magic it was nice to see the Senate pass Marriage Equality with some GOPers stepping up.
DeleteRick Scott is a fucking lying pig so it's no wonder Florida voted him into office.
I want to go after every Republican who comes out against Thing 45 after six years of kissing his orange anus.
I was so happy that Tom Shapiro won. I have long thought he was a swell man I had a hard worker for PA. And he has like my Dems and Republicans alike. So masteriano can go fuck off.
ReplyDeleteAnd Kudos the Magic Johnson, a role model yet again.
And to that one guy above, I still will never understand what is so confusing about mail-in voting? It's not any different than if you went and stood in a line and voted on a machine it's the same thing. And I know many people who processed mail in ballots. And if one thing is not up to snuffle on them they're removed.
Shapiro isn't playing, and I like that.
DeleteI agree about Magic; parents need to love their children unconditionally and listen to them.
The GOP is looking for excuses as to why they lost. It's not their fault, it's the process and women voting and young people coming out to vote.
Yes, Josh Shapiro snap. Magic Johnson has come a long way.
ReplyDeleteAll I want to hear from Mo-Hegseth-Scott-Hawley-Brooks is GOOD-BYE.
I like Schapiro's zero-fucks answer.
DeleteMagic has come a long way, good on him.
Run, Josh, run! I will NEVER forget the way he egged on the mob. I like what Magic said: He was the one who needed to change, not his son. Some of the Republicans will be all about dump trump now that they know it will be much harder for him to win.
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Janie
P.S. Rick Scott's name is actually Skeletor.
I agree the GOPers will start jumping ship and trying to spin their goose-stepping for four years.
DeleteI think of Rick Scott as Voldemort, when he was a snake.
Magic Johnson's wise and loving words brought tears to my eyes. Magic by name and Magic by nature. With the exception of Josh Shapiro, the other fellows in this blogpost are far, far less impressive.
ReplyDeleteI like that Magic said he had a hard time accepting his son's sexual orientation, but that he "learned" from his son.
DeleteThat's love.
I appreciate the "I have to change, not him" attitude. More people need to realize how important that concept is. I really liked your item placement today, sweetpea, a real "good news, WTF news" post! xoxo (I'm so glad you're back)
ReplyDeleteA nice mix of the good and the absurd!!!
DeleteI'm glad to be home.
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I've just seen thing45 on my TV screen right here is Australia, heard all the rubbish he's still spouting. His voice is so irritating!
ReplyDeleteMake election day a national holiday, allow everyone at least half a day off to vote (there are some services that really can't close.)
ReplyDeleteMagic Johnson is a sweet man, however... it's not a decision. Being gay is NOT a decision. Yes, we could decide to deny ourselves and be someone else, but we're still going to be gay. We were born this way. It is inherent. It is in our DNA. It is who we are. So... decision is not the word, my dear. We simply ARE.
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