Thursday, October 31, 2013
Repost: LGBT History Month: This Is Us*
Finding A Way Into Acceptance
Lynn Koval and her sister, Lysa Broussard, wanted to open a
business in South Mississippi. It sounded like a good idea, except they wanted
to open a gay bar in South Mississippi where, Lynn Koval says she’s seen five
gay bars fail in the past decade.
Not good business, maybe, but the sisters went ahead with
their plan and opened Just Us Lounge on Division Street in Biloxi — which is
where yours truly was born, by the way … not in the bar, I mean, but in Biloxi. But one thing they did a little differently than other gay
bars in town, was that they decided to give back to the community in any and every
way they could.
In fact, for the past 13 Christmases, Just Us Lounge has
adopted every South Mississippi Angel Tree child with HIV or AIDS and the bar
buys those kids every single thing on their “wish list.” Just Us Lounge has also donated turkeys to the Back Bay
Mission in Biloxi and often host all kinds of benefits in their bar. Last
month, Just Us hosted a benefit night for Walk for Down Syndrome and all the money
from the cover charge was donated to the organization. Lysa Broussard hopes the
benefit becomes an annual fundraiser.
"We are a viable resource, not just for the LGBT community but the entire community – period. As long as we can meet overhead, our goal is to give back to our community."—Lynn Koval
And for the record, Just Us has been in business since 1998
in Biloxi, and in 1999 the sisters merged Just Us with another bar Sanctuary.
They wanted Just Us to provide a safe social gathering place for the LBT
community in South Mississippi, but when the bar opened the sign out front
welcomed all people, gay and straight.
Now, it wasn’t always nice and sweet. When Just Us first
opened fifteen years ago, Lynn Koval was greeted at the front door by three
hanging nooses; the bar has also been protested by white supremacists, but Lynn
and Lysa weren’t giving up.
"I told my staff that if a Molotov cocktail didn't come through our doors the first year, we would be open for 20 years-plus."—Lynn Koval
And they’re closing in on that mark, making the club open to
the entire community, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days per year. And
they’ve hosted all kinds of people over the years, including Biloxi Mayor A.J.
Holloway and LGBT servicemen and women who are stationed at nearby Keesler Air
Force Base — where, yes, I was born.
Lysa Broussard says that the key to the success of Just Us,
when many other gay bars have failed, is because of the unique Coast community,
which she calls a more accepting melting pot community than is found in other
parts of the state.
I don’t remember much about my time in Mississippi, not
because I blocked it out, but because my family moved to California when I was
six months old, but I’ve always been annoyed by the ignorance of some folks in
the state, the bigotry, racism and homophobia of some people in the state.
Still it’s a pleasant surprise to hear of such an accepting
place down in the southernmost part of a southernmost state where being gay isn’t
any different, where the gays bars are community supporters, where people help
one another out no matter your race or gender or orientation.
I might wanna go check out my birthplace, and a bar or two, as an adult one
day.
Labels:
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Wednesday, October 30, 2013
Architecture Wednesday: The Carriage House
Don't get your hopes up.
This 1870s Italianate Victorian in the Pacific Heights neighborhood of San Francisco is not the house we'll be seeing today. But this house, built on one of the largest city lots in Pacific heights is home to the home we'll be seeing: the addition of a carriage house--that's it, back there, through the openig on the right--built in 1920, that sat dilapidated and unused until the current owners purchased the home.
The entire carriage house was completely gutted and reinvented with a sleek, modern interior, while making much needed improvements to the historic exterior. It was repurposed as an extension of the family’s living room with a new high-end Bulthaup kitchen, the garden was renovated to be more welcoming and useful to the family.
A gracious deck and staircase befitting of the historic nature of the house was built off of the main drawing room providing a much need link between house and garden. Rows of trees and strategic planting separate the parking area from the garden, which also serves as a sport court. Subtle score lines in the concrete and blue stone patterns define a basketball “key”, while also blending in with the overall diagonal concrete score pattern. An outdoor shower and hot tub complete the concept of garden oasis within the busy city.
Oasis, indeed.
As always, click to emBIGGERate
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This 1870s Italianate Victorian in the Pacific Heights neighborhood of San Francisco is not the house we'll be seeing today. But this house, built on one of the largest city lots in Pacific heights is home to the home we'll be seeing: the addition of a carriage house--that's it, back there, through the openig on the right--built in 1920, that sat dilapidated and unused until the current owners purchased the home.
The entire carriage house was completely gutted and reinvented with a sleek, modern interior, while making much needed improvements to the historic exterior. It was repurposed as an extension of the family’s living room with a new high-end Bulthaup kitchen, the garden was renovated to be more welcoming and useful to the family.
A gracious deck and staircase befitting of the historic nature of the house was built off of the main drawing room providing a much need link between house and garden. Rows of trees and strategic planting separate the parking area from the garden, which also serves as a sport court. Subtle score lines in the concrete and blue stone patterns define a basketball “key”, while also blending in with the overall diagonal concrete score pattern. An outdoor shower and hot tub complete the concept of garden oasis within the busy city.
Oasis, indeed.
As always, click to emBIGGERate
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Repost: LGBT History Month: "The Puppy Episode"*
ISBL Asshat of the Week: Jim Wheeler
I’ve often made fun of the Teabaggers on this here bloggy
thing, calling them everything from illiterate — seriously, have your scene
there sines ::sarcasm::: seen their signs— to stupid, moronic, asshatted, and
sometimes dangerous.
Jim Wheeler fits all of those categories and more which is
why he is a hands down winner of the coveted — coveted? — ISBL Asshat of the
Week Award™.
Wheeler, a Nevada assemblyman, has come under fire recently
for a YouTube video in which he is heard telling gathering of Republicans that
he would vote to allow slavery if that’s what his constituents wanted him to
do.
"If that's what they wanted, I'd have to hold my nose ... they'd probably have to hold a gun to my head, but yeah." — Assemblyman Jim Wheeler
Of course both sides, I mean the GOP and the Democrats, but
not the Teabaggers themselves who might see Wheeler as their ‘Golden Child’
have denounced Wheeler and his stupidity.
"Assemblyman Wheeler's comments are deeply offensive and have no place in our society. He should retract his remarks and apologize." — Nevada Governor, and Republican, Brian Sandoval
Nevada Senator, and a Republican, Dean Heller called the
Wheeler comments “insensitive and wrong," while Nevada’s Assembly
Democratic caucus said they were "reprehensible and disgusting." Senate
Minority Leader, Republican Michael Roberson took to Twitter to call Wheeler’s
comments "outrageous … embarrassing and … just plain sad" before
adding, "It's time for Jim Wheeler to find a new line of work."
I’m kinda thinking if his constituents would ask him to vote
for slavery and he would, maybe they should ask for him to vote himself off
Teabagistan Island and he would.
Now, though, he’s apologizing, sort of; Wheeler is playing that old
ditty, the ♫ ♪ My Remarks Were Taken Out Of Context ♪ ♫ jive!
He said he was just trying to make a point that he was elected to represent his
constituents and he’d do what they wanted.
Um, well, Jim, howsabout saying that instead of saying you’d
vote for slavery; see this … I represent
the people of my district and I will do whatever they ask … sounds a
helluva lot better than … I’d vote for
slavery if my constituents wanted me to.
Wheeler now says he’s being falsely being portrayed as a
bigot:
"Anyone who knows me knows that I could never vote for something like that. It's disgusting. It's beyond disgusting."
He might be right, but he’s being accurately portrayed as a
morn who doesn’t know when to shut his piehole.
And that deserves the title of Asshat Of The Week, which, I
like to think, Jim Wheeler’s constituents would vote for if they could.
Labels:
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Tuesday, October 29, 2013
Texas’ Ultra-Restrictive Abortion Law Partially Struck Down
Wendy Davis, winner |
Remember Wendy Davis’ epic filibuster in the Texas
legislature during the fight over abortion legislation? Remember that her filibuster forced Governor Miss Ricky
Perry to call a second special
session in order to allow the Taxes legislature to pass extremely restrictive
new abortion laws?
Well, part of that legislation was struck down this week, on
the heels of the news that those two special sessions of the Legislature cost
the taxpayers in Texas $1.6 million dollars.
Yup, after spending months and months trying to find ways to
save money, the Texas Legislature, and Governor Miss Ricky, spent a
million-and-a-half dollars to pass legislation that has since been partially
struck down.
Miss Ricky, loser |
In a state where Governor Miss Ricky — who is certain to try
and run at the White House in 2016 — calls himself a fiscal conservative. I guess
that means he’s fiscally conservative if he doesn’t care about the issue but
when he has a horse in the race — as in telling Texas women what they can and
cannot do with their bodies and their healthcare — no expense is too great.
And after spending all that money, US District
Judge Lee Yeakel blocked the provision in the law that required
doctors performing abortions to have an agreement with a local hospital to
admit patients, thereby foiling another attempt by the “pro-life” movement to
use TRAP [Targeted Regulation ofAbortion Providers] laws to
circumvent a woman’s constitutional right to choice.
The Court went on to point out that:
“By requiring abortion providers to have hospital admitting privileges, the evidence is that there will be abortion clinics that will close. The record reflects that 24 counties in the Rio Grande Valley would be left with no abortion provider because those providers do not have admitting privileges and are unlikely to get them.”
Of course, this was the legislature
and Governor Miss Ricky’s plan all along; to pass a law that did not technically ban abortions, which is a violation
of the Constitution, but to instead ban abortions by closing down providers.
Fortunately for Texas women
and the pro-choice movement, Judge Yeakel’s ruling was a victory, but it still cost the Texas taxpayers $1.6
million dollars because of their fiscally conservative GOP government is not so
fiscally conservative when it comes to certain issues.
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