Wednesday, December 11, 2019

Children Stand Up To Homophobia


There was a substitute teacher in the fifth-grade class at Deerfield Elementary School in Utah who asked the class to explain, one by one, what they were most thankful about this Thanksgiving. When it was Daniel’s turn, he stood up and said he was most thankful that he was “finally going to be adopted by my two dads.”

The teacher then launched into a ten-minute lecture about how “two men living together is a sin,” and then asked the boy:
“Why on earth would you be happy about that? That’s nothing to be thankful for.”
And while that teacher ranted, three girls in the class tried to intervene, tried to get the grown-up teacher to act like a grown-up teacher, and when their efforts failed, they left the room to get the principal, who came back with them and escorted the teacher out of the classroom.

And, as bigots and homophobes, as this substitute was being removed from the school, she continued to argue, continued to try and make her point, and told Daniel it was his fault that she went off on him.

You know, because he was thankful for having two dads. And the saddest thing—other than this homophobe being allowed to teach children—is that Daniel was afraid to speak because he thought it might hurt his chances at the adoption being finalized.

One of the his fathers, Louis van Amstel,  spoke to the mother of one of the girls, who told him:
“I am so glad that I raised my daughter in a way where she would stand up for what’s right.”
The good news is that a few days later, the family’s neighbors decorated their house with paper hearts that said “We love you” and “We support you.”

The better news is that children will be the ones to end this kind of bigotry and hate; the children will stand up for what is right.

The best news is that the substitute teacher at the center of this story has been fired from the staffing company that employed her.

And the bestest [not a word, I know] news is that Daniel will have two dads by Christmas.

9 comments:

whkattk said...

I'm very happy to hear the sub teacher was fired. She's more than a homophobe - she's a bully; what she did was bullying. She felt in a position of power to do and say whatever she pleased to a young man. To read of the neighbors in the aftermath renews my hope for humanity - particularly because this happened in Utah where, finally, finally, it is no longer legal to send an underage child to those horrible conversion camps.

Helen Lashbrook said...

Good for those girls for having the courage of their convictions and may Daniel live happy ever after with his two dads

the dogs' mother said...

Horrific start.
Happy ending. :-)
xoxoxoxoox

Debra She Who Seeks said...

That teacher deserved to be fired. What a horrible incident of, quite frankly, child emotional abuse.

Treaders said...

What a great stance those girls took. And lucky Daniel, having two dads who love him!

VRC-Do You! said...

Many kids don't see the divisions that adults do...It is my belief that kids are taught hate...Standing O to the girls who first tried to knock some sense into the teacher and then went to get help...That's embarrassing to the knuckleheaded teacher...A child had to set you straight-so to speak...

anne marie in philly said...

BITCH! hope she NEVER gets another job around children EVER!

Sixpence Notthewiser said...

Kids LEARN hate. It’s very simple.

XoXo

Sadie J said...

I'm just really glad that the principal pulled the teacher from the classroom and that the end result was more than just a light slap on the wrist. Yay for those girls, and yay for their parents who taught them to stand up and be heard. And yay for Daniel and his two dads--this is going to be a great Christmas for them.