The Funny Papers

Jack Ohman, Gary Huck, Mike Luckovich, Michael de Adder, RJMatson, David Horsey, Darrin Bell, JD Crowe, Marc Murphy, Tim Campbell, Pedro X.Molina, Nick Anderson, Rod Emmerson—New Zealand, Hajo de Reijger—The Netherlands, Vasco Gargalo—Portugal, Clay Bennett,

Tennessee Legislature: Homophobic And Stupid

Nashville State Representative, and Democrat, John Ray Clemmons has withdrawn a resolution that would have honored the Bingham Cup, an international gay rugby tournament planned for Nashville. It is a biennial event, taking place this year in May, and is expected to bring some 1500 players and guests into the city. 

The tournament is named after Mark Bingham, a college rugby player who was among the passengers on United Airlines Flight 93, the plane that crashed in a Pennsylvania field en route to Washington on 9/11.

So, why withdraw the resolution? Well, because of Republicans, who called the resolution political "shenanigans" and even suggested the resolution was designed to trick them into voting for an LGBT event … which they would never do because … gay. No matter that the event was created to honor a 9/11 hero who just happened to be a gay man.

Clemmons said he withdrew the legislation because he didn’t want to mar the event with a political fight:

"I didn't want this to be a political issue. It was well-intended. It was simply to honor an event taking place and adding to my local economy and putting my city on the international stage once again."

But, you know, the event is named for a gay man, and it honors a gay man, and Tennessee, and Nashville Republicans, don’t play that way, I guess.

Seriously.

Nashville Public Radio

Architecture Wednesday: Warrix

I tried to find some information on this house because I am in love with it.

I know it's in Nashville, and I know it was designed by Bonadies Architect and I know it's very cool and chic, with black and brown siding and stone work and gables, and it's kinda retro but kind modern  and I so love a black house.

And, for me, that's all I need to know, except ... is it for sale and to whom do i make out the check?

Oh, and click to emBIGGERate

HomeDSGN

Architecture Wednesday: Rayna's House

I’m a sucker for Nashville. Not the city—I have yet to visit there—but the television show. And I’m especially a sucker for Rayna Jaymes’—she’s a country music queen—‘Nashville' house. It’s a blend of French Country, Georgian architecture, rustic and contemporary outside, and fabulously amazing spaces on the inside and, up until recently, it was for sale for 20 million dollars.

The real house — located at 1358 Page Road  in Belle Meade, a hoity-toity Nashville, not ‘Nashville,’ suburb — sits on six acres, had six bedrooms, eight bathrooms, 24 rooms in all, in a spacious 20,500 square feet.

The house was built in 1999, yet has the charm on an old Southern estate, with a keeping room — some folks call it a den — off the kitchen, a cigar room, a billiards room, guest house and gardens and an outdoor pool off of one of the largest screened porches I have ever seen.  One of the most amazing features, though, and one I caught a glimpse of in last week’s ‘Nashville’ and caused me to Google search the home, is the front entry hall; it’s 45 feet long from front door to the grand staircase.

It’s a home fit for a country music queen … or just a regular queen.

via Hooked On Houses

A Year Of Make Believe Changes Minds

There are all kinds of closeted gay folks in the world today, but have you ever heard of a closeted straight man? Well, I have, and his name is Timothy Kurek.

Timothy grew up in the Deep South, with its rich traditions of church and family, and, well, hatred of anything gay. Timothy was taught from an early age, at church and at home, that being gay was an abomination before God. He called himself a "soldier for God" and even attended rabidly religious, and therefore rabidly homophobic, Liberty University.

But then Timothy met another Christian, a girl, who told him how her family had disowned her when she came out as gay, and he began questioning his church and their teachings. He decided the only way to find out about being gay, was to be gay, and stick his heterosexuality in the closet.

For an entire year Timothy Kurek was gay, and living in his hometown of Nashville. With the exception of two friends, and an aunt who was told the truth so she could keep an eye on how his mother handled the news, Timothy began coming out to everyone he knew. He told his family he was gay; he told all his friends the same thing, too.

One friend of his, Shawn, who happened to be gay, even pretended to be Timothy's boyfriend for his Year Of Living Dangerously. Timothy took a job in a gay cafe, hung out in a gay bar, and even joined a gay softball league.

And the result of his year "out' has been documented in a new book called The Cross in the Closet; the similarities to other works such as Black Like Me, by a white man in the 1960s deep south passing as a black American, and 2006's Self-Made Man, by Norah Vincent, who details her time spent in disguise living as a man, were the impetus for Kurek to travel this path.

To walk a mile in a gay man's shoes, as it were.

Kurek's account of his yearlong life as a gay man is an amazing ride, that took him from being a "strait-laced yet questioning conservative, and ends up with him reaffirming his faith" and becoming an advocate for equality.

It was also an incredibly hard year for a young man who, like many actual gay men and women, saw lifelong friends turn their backs on him because he was "gay". Many of his Liberty University classmates wrote him emails after he came out asking that he repent his sins and warning him of the damnation he faced for being "homosexual". But, Timothy Kurek, also like many gay men and women, does not regret the loss of those so-called "friends."

"I now have lots of new gay friends," he says.

Still, it was quite an adjustment, for this straight man. One of his first forays into the gay nightclub scene found him dragged onto the dance floor where a shirtless man pretended to ride him like a horse and called him a "bucking bronco".

"I want to vomit. I need a cigarette. I feel like beating the hell out of him," Kurek wrote of that night.

But things got better; in order to avoid unwanted sexual passes from men, Kurek asked his friend Shawn to act as his boyfriend and soon he was part of the Nashville gay scene. He immersed himself in the gay culture scene; he frequented gay bars, browsed gay bookstores, and he soon found these so-called “gay” places to be as diverse and interesting as any other part of American life. It was no different, except that it was gay.

He even found, :::gasp::::, a group of gay Christians, who met up weekly in a bar, discussing their belief in creationism. "I found gay Christians more devout than me!" He admits today. Kurek also took on a role in a gay rights group and found himself protesting outside the Vatican's embassy to the United Nations in New York.

But, again like all real gay men and women, Kurek was hit by the downside to coming out. He began reading entries in his mother’s journal—only those written after his coming out”—and was shocked to find that she had written things like, "I'd rather have found out from a doctor that I had terminal cancer than I have a gay son."

But he wasn't deterred; he knew this was part of being “gay’, and that all gay men and women—like his friend’s—had dealt with their own family’s reactions to their child being gay. He kept up his charade, and living life as an open and honest gay man and soon his mother came to understand him, to accept him. "My mom went from being a very conservative Christian to being an ally to the gay community. I am very proud of her."

Minds, and hearts, can change.

Sometimes; Kurek, while at Liberty, recalls the time he called a group of gay men protesting the university 'fags' and he soon found himself called that same name. During a softball practice session in Nashville, a man walking his dogs called Kurek and his team-mates "faggots".

"When I was first called that for real, I lost it. I saw red. I felt so violated by that word."

At the end of his year, Kurek came out again, this time as the straight men he'd always been, and discovered that his Year Of Living Gay had actually renewed his faith rather than undermine it. And he now preaches what he practiced, saying that his experience should  not only show conservative Christians that gay people need equal rights and can be devout too, but that it can also reveal another side of evangelicals to the gay community.

"The vast majority of conservative Christians are not hateful bigots at all. It is just a vocal minority that gets noticed and attracts all the attention."

Now, maybe they'll notice the LGBT community in a new light; a hopeful light. It takes the gay community and the straight community, the irreligious and the non-religious, to make change in this country, and Timothy Kurek is doing his part.

source