Chasten Buttigieg, on Michael Elizabeth Pence’s homophobic
and misogynistic “joke” about Pete Buttigieg taking “maternity” leave after the
birth of his children:
“The thing about what he said is, it flies in the face of
what he says he is. He says he’s a family values Republican, so I don’t think
he’s practicing what he preaches. But it’s part of a much bigger trend:
attacking families. And it wasn’t just about attacking the LGBTQ community,
because someone wrote this [joke] and he checked it and purposely said, ‘maternity
leave’ rather than ‘paternity leave,’ but also, it’s a bigger conversation
about the work that women do in families, right? … I think is a pretty misogynistic view,
especially from a man who just last year said that we should be supporting more
people who adopt. And you know, I spoke up for two reasons. One, I’m always
going to stick up for my family, especially my kid. I know we all struggle to
find a balance between work and family life and I’ve never seen someone work
harder than my husband to find that balance. But I think Republican or
Democrat, we can all agree that when your child, our prematurely born child,
barely five pounds, when your kid is connected to a ventilator, you don’t want
to be anywhere but at their bedside. So watching Gus in the hospital, for
anyone who has ever experienced having a child in the ICU, when their tiny
little hand is gripping around your finger. You know, I would watch Pete have
to peel Gus’ fingers back and duck into the little bathroom in his room so he
could do a Zoom with a virtual background so nobody would see that he’s in the
hospital. The other reason I spoke up is because, like I mentioned, we all have
an obligation to hold people accountable for when they say something wrong,
especially when it’s misogynistic, especially when it’s homophobic. And I just
don’t take that when it when it’s directed at my family.”
Let’s be clear, Michael Elizabeth Pence cares about children
of straight white people, and that’s all. And, as Pete said, when asked about
the “joke,” he was shocked because just the week before he’d met Pence and
Pence specifically asked how his children were doing.
So, clearly this “joke” was meant for his base of haters and
homophobes and misogynists, and Michael Elizabeth Pence won’t ever apologize
because he’s a spineless asshat.
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