Showing posts with label Louisville. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Louisville. Show all posts
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Kentucky Baptist Church Will Hold Its First Same-Sex Wedding
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Color me stunned, but out there in Kentucky, a Baptist church, the Highland Baptist Church of Louisville, Kentucky, in fact, has agreed to marry two of its gay members, making it the first same-sex wedding for the congregation.
In.Kentucky.
Those two members, David Bannister Jr. and Steven Carr II, have been together for six years and became engaged last summer in Washington DC weeks after the US Supreme Court struck down the Defense of Marriage Act. Then they returned home to Kentucky and took a deep breath and asked the pastor of their church, Joe Phelps, to marry them and he said he would.
"It takes courage to step out into the unknown. It's taking us courage to be one of the first churches to do this." — Pastor Phelps
Phelps says that when he first came to Highland Baptist in the late 1990s, there was a kind of ‘doesn’t ask, don’t tell’ policy regarding gay church members. But, that very next year, a gay couple's photograph appeared in the church directory and since then there has been a slow, but steady march to acknowledge and accept LGBT members, and their families, into the church. In fact, Highland Baptist ordained its first openly gay minister, Maurice Blanchard in 2012, and now Blanchard leads a gay ministry at the church.
"Inch by inch, it sort of begins to dawn on us. Over time, we've come to the realization that led us to today." — Pastor Phelps
In February 2013, a group of church deacons began to study the idea of allowing the pastor to perform same-sex ceremonies, but the group never came to any agreement. Then, in May 2014, a new group chosen to once again study the idea instantly, and unanimously, recommended the church begin offering same-sex weddings. Actually, you could only all it a unanimous decision because no one in the church every voted on the idea; Pastor Phelps said it wouldn’t be right to pass judgment that way.
"To vote on it is to basically ask the question, 'Are gay people fully human like the rest of us?' I think spiritually and morally, that's a step we cannot take." — Pastor Phelps
And so, when David and Steven asked Pastor Phelps to officiate at their wedding, he was able to say yes, making Highland one of the first Baptist churches in Kentucky to hold a same-sex wedding.
And again. Baptist Church. Kentucky. Let that sink in for a spell.
And so David and Steven have set a wedding date for next May, and though they don’t see themselves as activists, they have hope that their wedding will make a statement.
"If people don't get the shades pulled back on LGBT people's lives, they won't learn. They won't see. So the onus is on us and our friends to talk with those around us. It would be very sad to us if we weren't able to have our church involved." — David Bannister
And in light of the fact that this past week a judge struck down Kentucky’s ban on same-sex marriages — a stay has been granted — David and Steven hope that by the time they marry, same –sex weddings in Kentucky, even at Baptist churches, will just be weddings at Baptists churches.
Still, what a wonderful stop for the Baptist church, and Kentucky.
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Thursday, June 09, 2011
And Then There Were Two
Back in April, I posted about the Douglass Boulevard Christian Church, in Louisville, Kentucky, and how they were no longer sign marriage licenses for heterosexual couples when homosexuals couples are denied those same rights. See post HERE.
Well, it looks like another Louisville church is following suit.
The Reverend Dawn Cooley of First Unitarian Church in Old Louisville announced on her blog that, while she would continue to perform religious marriage ceremonies for both straight and gay couples, she would no longer perform the civil function of signing marriage licenses on behalf of the state, until same-sex marriages are legal in Kentucky.
And her congregation stood right by her side, asking her to refrain from signing marriage licenses "until such time as Kentucky ceases to discriminate against same sex couples with respect to civil marriage.”
Cooley says that heterosexual couples can choose to have their marriage license signed by a justice of the peace, or they could "choose not to have their licenses signed, and stand with gay & lesbian couples and not participate in civil marriage until it is a civil right."
You know, just when I grow tired of all those religious institutions, and I'm talking to you, Catholics, and Baptists, that would deny services to everyone rather than offer services to gay men and women, someone like the Reverend Dawn Cooley comes along and makes me see that not all religions spout their love rhetoric while practicing, tolerating, and endorsing hate.
Hats off to the Reverend Cooley, the First Unitarian Church in Old Louisville, the Douglass Boulevard Christian Church and its ministers, and the city of Louisville, for proving that god is love.
First Unitarian Church in Old Louisville Won't Sign Marriage Licenses
Well, it looks like another Louisville church is following suit.
The Reverend Dawn Cooley of First Unitarian Church in Old Louisville announced on her blog that, while she would continue to perform religious marriage ceremonies for both straight and gay couples, she would no longer perform the civil function of signing marriage licenses on behalf of the state, until same-sex marriages are legal in Kentucky.
And her congregation stood right by her side, asking her to refrain from signing marriage licenses "until such time as Kentucky ceases to discriminate against same sex couples with respect to civil marriage.”
Cooley says that heterosexual couples can choose to have their marriage license signed by a justice of the peace, or they could "choose not to have their licenses signed, and stand with gay & lesbian couples and not participate in civil marriage until it is a civil right."
You know, just when I grow tired of all those religious institutions, and I'm talking to you, Catholics, and Baptists, that would deny services to everyone rather than offer services to gay men and women, someone like the Reverend Dawn Cooley comes along and makes me see that not all religions spout their love rhetoric while practicing, tolerating, and endorsing hate.
Hats off to the Reverend Cooley, the First Unitarian Church in Old Louisville, the Douglass Boulevard Christian Church and its ministers, and the city of Louisville, for proving that god is love.
First Unitarian Church in Old Louisville Won't Sign Marriage Licenses
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
God Is Love: Douglass Boulevard Christian Church
Last week, in Louisville, Kentucky, the congregation of Douglass Boulevard Christian Church unanimously--you read that right, unanimously--voted to end the practice of signing marriage licenses because they give legal benefits to heterosexual couples that are not available to homosexual couples.
And until marriage equality is the law of the land, Douglass Boulevard Christian Church ministers will only perform religious wedding ceremonies, which we all know are not legal without a signed marriage certificate.
Associate Minister Ryan Kamp-Pappan: "As an Open and Affirming Community of Faith, our membership is committed to treating homosexuals and heterosexuals equally. Our congregation believes it is unfair to provide different services and benefits to heterosexual couples than we can provide to gay and lesbian couples."
Senior minister, the Reverend Derek Penwell added, "Heterosexual couples enjoy a number of benefits that result from having state-sanctioned union. They may inherit property, adopt children together, visit one another in the hospital, and save thousands each year in taxes by filing as a couple. Ministers, as agents of the state, have the power to confer these benefits-and the imprimatur of normalcy-on heterosexual couples, but we do not have the honor to bestow these benefits on gay and lesbian couples."
The Reverend Chuck Lewis, Chair of Elders with the church, said, "In our attempt to live out God's call to pursue justice for all, the Elders of the congregation joined the Pastors in witnessing to the right for gay and lesbian persons to God's blessing on their union and witnessing to the Commonwealth toward ending the refusal to recognize these unions."
Douglass Boulevard Christian Church has been committed to seeking justice for all people since it was founded in 1846. In 2008, Douglass Boulevard Christian Church voted to become an Open and Affirming Community of Faith.
In 2011, God--if you believe in that sort of thing--was doing cartwheels and heaping praise ion the ministers and congregation at Douglas Boulevard Christian Church.
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And until marriage equality is the law of the land, Douglass Boulevard Christian Church ministers will only perform religious wedding ceremonies, which we all know are not legal without a signed marriage certificate.
Associate Minister Ryan Kamp-Pappan: "As an Open and Affirming Community of Faith, our membership is committed to treating homosexuals and heterosexuals equally. Our congregation believes it is unfair to provide different services and benefits to heterosexual couples than we can provide to gay and lesbian couples."
Senior minister, the Reverend Derek Penwell added, "Heterosexual couples enjoy a number of benefits that result from having state-sanctioned union. They may inherit property, adopt children together, visit one another in the hospital, and save thousands each year in taxes by filing as a couple. Ministers, as agents of the state, have the power to confer these benefits-and the imprimatur of normalcy-on heterosexual couples, but we do not have the honor to bestow these benefits on gay and lesbian couples."
The Reverend Chuck Lewis, Chair of Elders with the church, said, "In our attempt to live out God's call to pursue justice for all, the Elders of the congregation joined the Pastors in witnessing to the right for gay and lesbian persons to God's blessing on their union and witnessing to the Commonwealth toward ending the refusal to recognize these unions."
Douglass Boulevard Christian Church has been committed to seeking justice for all people since it was founded in 1846. In 2008, Douglass Boulevard Christian Church voted to become an Open and Affirming Community of Faith.
In 2011, God--if you believe in that sort of thing--was doing cartwheels and heaping praise ion the ministers and congregation at Douglas Boulevard Christian Church.
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