Friday, November 21, 2025

I Didn't Say It ...

Gilles Rocca, Italian actor and reality show star, on developing his feminine side based on the strong women that reared him:

“The alpha male? I almost feel more like a woman than a man. I have a predominantly feminine side. Yes, my aesthetic is very masculine, but inside it’s different. Perhaps having had a very strong upbringing from my mother, I learned a lot. My mother’s upbringing made me understand how important it is to bring out my feminine side. I was very male up to a certain point in my life, where I didn’t show my weaknesses, where I wanted to show that I was the muscular one, the strong one, but in reality I was hiding so many weaknesses that over the years I’ve managed to bring out, not fight them, but embrace them. If I were to be attracted to a man, there wouldn’t be any problems,” Rocca shared. “Would I give myself to a man? Well, if I liked a man, yes, absolutely, I’d accept his advances; I wouldn’t have any problems. I like women. But I’m absolutely open; in fact, I don’t even think it’s a question of openness, but rather that it’s a natural thing; that is, respecting your instincts, what you like, what you feel. I saw even more closely a world of passion, talent, suffering, and love … In such a horrible world we live in, we still need to assert our rights, and if we take these rights away from someone else, we don’t complain when they take them away from us. Love has no gender or race… love is just love.”

Those last four words just say it all: love is just love.

And wherever you find it, in whomever you find it, it’s not wrong.

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Tim Walz, former candidate for Vice President, responding to KKKarolying Leavitt saying Democrats are “Hamas terrorists, illegal aliens and violent criminals”:

“Most Republicans are good people. Most Democrats are good people. The White House says outrageous things to make you hate your neighbor. Your neighbor isn’t the problem. The White house is.”

Cankles, Pee Wee German, KKKarolying Leavitt, Pammy Jo Bondi and Kristi the Dog Killer, and all the other sycophants and enablers, liars and cheats,  are the problem.

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Jack Schlossberg, Democrat candidate for New York's 12th congressional district in the 2026, on Cankles fixation with the Kennedy name:

“{He] is so  obsessed with the Kennedys and the Kennedy name that he caged one and put it in his cabinet—a rabid dog in his cabinet. Put a collar on my cousin RFK Jr. and has him there barking, spreading lies and misinformation.”

Rabid dog is right, frothing at the mouth as he spews his ignorance but Cankles looks the other way because he hears Kennedy.

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Tom Nichols, professor emeritus of national security affairs at the US Naval War College, speaking truth about Cankles:

“One of the things that genuinely mystifies me: [He] is one of the least masculine, least adult people in public life. Needy, whiny, defensive, pleading, scared of women, terrified of more powerful men. I am at a loss as to why his bases sees him as manly or strong.”

And yet he’s really just a Piggy.

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Beto O’Rourke, outspoken Democrat who may be running for Senate in Texas, on the idea of being ‘nice’:

“While you’re twiddling your thumbs and playing nice and trying to be bipartisan they are killing your fucking country and taking away our Democracy. We are either going to fight or we are going to surrender, and I plan on fighting.”

Fight, Beto, but do it. Stand up and speak up and fight, rather than just talking. Don’t plan on fighting, start fighting.

Walk the walk. Resist!

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Josh Stein, North Carolina Democrat Attorney General, on the ICEstapo arresting immigrants in Charlotte:

“We’ve seen masked, heavily armed agents in paramilitary garb driving unmarked cars, targeting American citizens based on their skin color, racially profiling, and picking up random people in parking lots and off of our sidewalks. This is not making us safer. It’s stoking fear and dividing our community.”

The Department of Homeland Security has said it’s focusing on North Carolina because of so-called sanctuary policies to protect immigrants from the terrorists in the ICEstapo.

One of the first things we need to do when the regime is gone, is put Kristi Noem on trial for the atrocities she let happen, she encouraged, she condoned..

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Laura Dern, actor, on being a gay icon:

"There's nothing more incredible! I am honored to have incredible support. My origin story of really knowing the connection I was privileged to be a part of was Ellen's 'Puppy Episode.' It's so crazy that it wasn't that long ago and far more open of a time to explore story in so many ways. My connection came through letters! What that episode meant to so many people. In fact, a letter from a grandmother who was thanking Ellen and I for helping her get closer to and understand her grandson was one of my favorite letters that I ever received. We can work together to open up a sense of compassion and empathy that sadly is not there from those who live in fear. To be welcomed into community, for me, has been the greatest gift ever! That means the world."

Even in 1997, which wasn’t all that long ago, it was quite daring, quite a stance, for Laura Dern to play a lesbian on television in one of the biggest TV episodes ever. And she did it, and her career didn’t tank. In fact, she gained an entirely new fan base who welcome her and accepted her.

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Blogiversary!?!??!! Who Knew!

So, on Friday, November 21, 2008, this appeared on the interwebz:

Newbie

I'm new to this blog thing, but I do love to talk and I do have an opinion—hell I have thousands of opinions—so I guess that's as good a place to start. Let's talk about.........Me!

I am a happily-partnered gay male, and I have been with the love of my life for the last eight years. We met online in an AOL chatroom—no, not THAT kind of chatroom—and became Instant Messenger friends, and then email friends, and then phone friends and then friends across the country and then I went from California to Miami to meet him, and that was that.

A few months later I'd left California and settled in Miami—talk about culture shock! We stayed in Miami for about six years until Carlos—the aforementioned partner—accepted a job in Smallville, South Carolina, and we loaded up the truck and moved to....well, not Beverly Hills, but Smallville. A small town. A cute town.

A town full of nice people who didn't seem at all peeved that the newest arrivals were a couple of mo's from Miami.

That's a start, I think. More to come.....I hope.

And that’s how it all started and here we are today some eighteen years and 11,600 posts and 96,000 comments later.

Who knew? But enough about me … thanks to everyone who follows and comments and blogs ... let’s keep going …

Thursday, November 20, 2025

Bobservations

Last week at the Food Lion I was doing the grocery shopping while Carlos was at the deli counter and there was a Hot Man Alert … the alarms go off inside my head … dressed as men in the South do: boots, a baseball cap, a camo jacket and blue jeans. But this guy’s jeans were worn through all the right spots and were loose but hugging all the right places. And, while I was not stalking him, he did seem to be everywhere I went in the store, so as Carlos and I were driving home I relayed the story to him and added that:

“I wanted feel his basket.”

And Carlos said:

“You mean you wanted to fill his basket [cart].”

“I said what I said.”

Sometimes you just gotta …

This Tuxedo Says is from June 2021 …

Tuxedo never went to school, and so he doesn’t know from mathematics, but even he can see how this seems all kinds of wrong!

Tuxedo had zero fucks or McConnell, just like his Daddy!

Keep in mind that Pammy Jo Bondi’s politicized DOJ is fighting against the California redistricting effort which the people of California approved but is doing nothing about the Texas redistricting that occurred without voter input.

The corruption is real folks.

Speaking of Hot Men … cuz I was just doing that back up there a second ago … if this is the dress code for baseball games I need to get my ass to the ballpark for more games.

Does anyone else find it weird how Marjorie Taylor Greene has been despised for years by Democrats, and yours truly, but she never needed private security until yesterday, when her own party turned on her because MAGAts are violent and they follow their Dear leader.

PS I don’t trust Marge and think her sudden anti-Cankles switch is just a ploy to get her reelected next year.

Since Thanksgiving is next Thursday that episode of Bobservations will not air that day so I thought I’d share an actual text conversation between Carlos and myself where he slayed me.

It starts like this … still slightly kitchen-less we’ve been eating and ordering take-out a few nights every week and one night Carlos suggested take-out from Masa Street Food for dinner. I told him I wanted something different than my usual and asked about tamales and it went like this, starting with Carlos to me:

“Hi sweetheart. I checked with Masa and they have three kinds of tanales. They have chicken tamales with salsa verde, chicken tamales with mole, or poblano and cheese tammales. Those are the three kinds of tamales that they have. Let me know what you would like me to order. Love you.”

“I’ll look at their menu now. I’ll have one of each tamale and call you when I’m done so you can order for me top pick up. Love you.”

“In other words, just to be clear, do you want three tamales?”

“Yes, please. One of each.”

“Ok, that is, one chicken with salsa verde, one chicken with mole, and one poblano and cheese, for a total of three tamales. Just want to be sure.”

“Do you want me to draw you a fucking picture of three motherfucking tamales?”

“I don’t think they have that kind of tamale at the restaurant.”

Carlos slayed; and before anyone says a word about my language, Carlos knows me, knows my foul mouth and knows I was joking with him, which is why, yes, he slayed!

A federal judge ordered public schools in Texas to remove displays of the Ten Commandments in their classrooms.

This is Resistance! Keep it going!!

Anatol Modzelewski is a Polish fashion model who was discovered in a club and has since become one of the most sought after male models who would like to know … Would You Hit It?

Wednesday, November 19, 2025

Architecture Wednesday: Brooklyn Carriage House

This home, a one of a kind converted carriage house in Brooklyn, offers bright, loft like proportions with soaring ceilings, skylights and walls of glass that seamlessly integrate indoor/outdoor living. With three en-suite bedrooms—plus an extra half bath—a massive living area, huge eat in kitchen and the kicker, you’re own private parking garage it’s a winner with a rent of just $9,900 a month!

Now, I grant you that it’s not the most beautiful exterior, unless you’re a lover of graffiti but let’s step inside and see if your mind changes .. after parking and entering through the private garage you are greeted with an entire floor dedicated to living and dining with dramatic 12-foot ceilings, painted exposed brick, mosaic tiles, and a wall of southeast facing glass that offers incredible light throughout the day and there’s even an incredibly distinctive Red Spiral staircase.

The kitchen was designed as the centerpiece of the home for cooking and entertaining, and features over 30 feet of counter space, a 6-burner range with double ovens, four under-counter refrigerated drawers and two under-counter freezer drawers and, why not, two dishwashers.

At the back of the house is the living area with a wall of glass that lets in incredible light from the private courtyard with 12foot surrounding walls that mimic the walls of the living space and create a seamless visual connection between indoors and outdoors; and while it is currently bare in the winter, it transforms into a green oasis during the warmer spring and summer months.

If you head up the Red Spiral stairs you find three en-suite bedrooms as well as a plethora of skylights and windows for more incredible light. The primary suite is at the back of the house and features the same wall of glass as below. The bedroom is huge and fits a king-size bed and plenty of room to spare for the large soaking tub right in the bedroom! The en-suite bathroom is huge with a window and includes a walk-in shower with rain head, a double sink and a toilet and bidet.

The second bedroom suite is at the front of the house and is also a huge king-size room with a massive skylight overhead. This bedroom features a wall unit with built in desk and the en-suite bath has three large windows with a tub with shower, toilet and sink.

The third bedroom is a queen-size room with another massive skylight; the sink and vanity mirror are in the corner of bedroom and the en-suite bath has a large walk-in shower with rain head and a toilet.

Take the Red Spiral stairs down and you find a finished basement, perfect for an art or music studio, kids’ playroom or media-screening room. There is also a half bath and laundry with washer and dryer.

The distinctive mosaic tile throughout the house is radiant heated and feels incredibly warm under foot during the winter months and cool in the summer months thanks to the zoned AC throughout. The house is conveniently located in the heart of Bushwick and is surrounded by amazing bars, restaurants, coffee shops and incredibly close to transportation.

If you’re into lots of color in a very urban environment and have around 10K a month …

As always click to emBIGGERate …

Monday, November 17, 2025

Ain't That America XXIII

Here we are again, still reveling a bit in the wins by Democrats in the elections and the recent Supreme decision and the swearing-in of Adalita Grijalva who became the vote to release the Epstein files which caused a ketchup explosion at the White House by the man who says he is not in the files but doesn’t want you to read them, so let’s dish ….

On the downside, several Democrats voted with Republicans on ending the shutdown even though they got nothing for their vote and one such vote, John Fetterman, is the text book example of that brand of fuckery. See, Fetterman had a heart episode and fell at his Pennsylvania home and was rushed to the hospital where all his bills were taken care of by his Congressional medical insurance even after he voted along with Republicans to end healthcare for some Americans or see the costs of healthcare double and sometimes triple is costs.

Ain’t that a traitorous Democrat? He got his but screw you …

This week Cankles pardoned Dan Wilson—that’s him up there with the gas mask, proud to let everyone know he’s a traitor to America—a militia member who joined the Capitol riot on January 6, 2021, for the second time, this time after Wilson was convicted of illegally possessing firearms in his Kentucky home.

Cankles had already erased Wilson’s felony conviction for his role in the insurrection and now he has given Wilson a “full and unconditional” pardon, explicitly references Wilson’s firearms case.

This is the US president pardoning criminals again and again.

I loathe Megyn Kelly and now I loathe her even more in light of her recent statements about Jeffrey Epstein on her little podcast-y thing:

“[Epstein] was into the barely legal types. Like, he liked 15-yerar-old girls. He wasn’t into like 8-year-olds. But he liked the very young teen types that could pass for even younger than they were but would look legal to a passerby. We have yet to see anybody come forward and say I was under 10. I was under 14 when I first came into his purview. I think there’s a difference. There’s a difference between a 15-year-old and a 5-year-old you know?”

Um, Megyn, you blithering moron, a 15-year-old girl is legally a child and cannot consent to sex and the idea that you want to normalize Epstein, and Cankles, having sex with underage girls is sickening. You have a daughter, would you think nothing of Jeffrey Epstein having sex with your child at age 15?

It’s a crime and you’re a vile rightwing MAGAt pig.

White House Press Secretary KKKarolying Leavitt said the October jobs report and inflation data will likely not be released even after the government reopens because the numbers are so bad that they will make Cankles look even more like an unqualified demined buffoon than he already is.

That’s all.

Legislation moving through Congress after reopening the government would allow eight GOP senators to seek up to $500,000 in damages for alleged privacy violations stemming from the Biden administration’s investigation into January 6.

The legislation retroactively makes it illegal in most cases to obtain a senator’s phone data without disclosure and allows those whose records were obtained to sue the DOJ for $500,000 per violation, along with attorneys’ fees and costs.

Grifters and con artists from the top down.

PS The first GOPer said to want his free cash is former Miss South Carolina Lindsey Graham.

Cankles has a new friend in Syrian President Ahmed al-Sharaa whom he called "strong" and "tough," and excused his "rough past."
His past included killing US soldiers, civilians, women, and children when he was a member of Al-Qaeda.

We put a $10M bounty on his head and Cankles admires him.

Cankles’ efforts to force mid-decade redistricting suffered a major setback after Indiana’s GOP state Senate leader declared the chamber will not convene in December to redraw maps.

It’s a massive blow to Cankles’ efforts to steal another election and remain in power and out of jail.

The Supreme Court turned down a request that it consider overturning its landmark decision—Obergefell v Hodges—to legalize same-sex marriage a decade ago. The court, without comment, declined the petition filed by Kentucky Kounty Klerk Kim Davis.

Now go on home Kim, before someone drops a house on you.

Jack Schlossberg, the grandson of former President John F. Kennedy, is running for Congress in 2026 in New York state. He says he's running in response to Cankles so-called “Big Beautiful Bill,” which has led to a “cost of living crisis” with historic “cuts to social programs working families rely on. Health care, education, childcare”:

“We deserve better, and we can do better, and it starts with the Democratic Party winning back control of the House of Representatives.”

Let’s do this.

In last week’s  Seattle mayoral race Katie Wilson, a 43-year-old transportation advocate, first-time candidate and self-proclaimed socialist unseated incumbent Democrat Bruce Harrell with 50.2% of the vote compared to Harrell’s 49.5%.

Like Zohran Mamdani in New York, Wilson ran on a platform of affordability, with a particular focus on housing, food access and cost-of-living issues.

The march goes on …

A four-year-old social media post by Vice President JD CouchF*cker Vance has resurfaced after that bombshell email drop revealed that Cankles once spent “hours” with a Jeffrey Epstein victim at the notorious sex trafficker’s home, reads:

“Remember when we learned that our wealthiest and most powerful people were connected to a guy who ran a literal child sex trafficking ring? And then that guy died mysteriously in a jail? And now we just don’t talk about it.”

Huh, it looks like JD flip-flopped again just to advance his own political career. Now he turns a blind eye to child sexual predators.

Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem and her lover Corey Lewandowski ordered 10 Spirit Airlines jets before realizing the planes … wait for it, it’s epic, and so indicative of this corrupt unqualified regime … had no engines. Officials warned the lovers that buying the jets—which they said would be used to increase deportations and for their own travel—was impractical, and simply hiring additional flight contractors would be far less costly,.

But Noem and Lewandowski went ahead and blew through the funds allocated by Congress until officials looked deeper into the adulterer’s spending spree and realized that Spirit—which has filed for bankruptcy twice—didn’t own the planes and that the engines would have to be purchased separately.

Noem and her shopping partner then purchased two Gulfstream jets for $200 million.

Adulterers, criminals, thieves, grifters and dog killers.

In light of his illegals tariffs, Cankles wants to provide $2,000 tariff rebate checks to most Americans,. But the Wall Street Journal editorial board says Cankles is trying to dull the public’s tariff pain with direct payments that he can take credit for but it’s a superficial fix at best and just an attempt to shore up his approval ratings and … what else?

Oh, change the topic from the Epstein Scandal!

Cankles criticized the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program [SNAP] in an interview with Fox News’ Eva Brain, er, Laura Ingraham  saying:

“People keep talking about SNAP, but SNAP is supposed to be if you are down and out. That’s what the purpose of it [is]. People are getting it, they walk in and they get it automatically now. So the number is many times what it should be, it’s disgraceful. Snap has gone from like 7 billion to many times 7 billion.”

Facts—which are hard for Cankles to comprehend—prove that there are fairly strict requirements to get food benefits; SNAP is for people with very low incomes—at or below 30% of the poverty line [about $34,000 a year] —and almost no financial assets.

Again, an unqualified criminal buffoon.

In another display of his batshittery, Cankles wants to send the National Guard to Chicago’s Miracle Mile Shopping Center because, though it was “once considered our Nation’s BEST, now has a more than 28% vacancy factor, and is ready to call it quits unless something is done about the murder and crime, which is prevalent throughout the City. CALL IN THE TROOPS, FAST, BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE! ‘Just the News'”

Let people shop!!! Send the Guard to the mall!!!!

Cankles, sharing his illiteracy on Fox News:

“President Xi was willing to do the railroad things—that’s magnets. Now, nobody knows what a magnet is. If you don’t have a magnet, you don’t have a car. You don’t make a computer, you don’t make, er, televisions and radios and all the other things—you don’t make anything. It’s a 30-year effort to monopolize a very important thing. Now, in two years, we’ll have magnets, all the magnets we want. Because of tariffs, listen I called, I said you’re going to play the magnet, we’re going to play the tariff on you.”

Lordy, is Sarah Palin, the Queen of the Word Salad, writing for him now?

In another attempt to deflect people from the thousands of times his name has appeared in the recently released Epstein emails, Cankles has ordered Pammy Jo Bondi to investigate Bill Clinton for his connection with Epstein because … Cankles is a predatory child rapist and wants us all to “look over there”:

“Now that the Democrats are using the Epstein Hoax, involving Democrats, not Republicans, to try and deflect from their disastrous SHUTDOWN, and all of their other failures, I will be asking A.G. Pam Bondi, and the Department of Justice, together with our great patriots at the FBI, to investigate Jeffrey Epstein’s involvement and relationship with Bill Clinton, Larry Summers, Reid Hoffman, J.P. Morgan, Chase, and many other people and institutions, to determine what was going on with them, and him. This is another Russia, Russia, Russia Scam, with all arrows pointing to the Democrats. Records show that these men, and many others, spent large portions of their life with Epstein, and on his ‘Island.’ Stay tuned!!!”

Every Cankles accusation is an admission.

GodBlessTheUSABible.com, a website that pays licensing fees to Cankles selling merchandise bearing the official presidential seal—including a $150 record player and $20 beer pong set with “Presidential themed balls”—that could violate federal law restricting commercial use of the seal.

Federal law prohibits anyone—unless authorized under regulations prescribed by the president and published in the Federal Register—from manufacturing or selling likenesses of the presidential seal or “any substantial part thereof” in a way that could suggest a sponsorship, with violations punishable by fines and up to six months in prison.

Plus, “Presidential themed balls” from the president who has no balls?

But you know who does have balls? We The People because we proved that last week and we ill prove it again in 2026 …