Showing posts with label Marines. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marines. Show all posts
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Monday, May 28, 2012
A Memorable Memorial Day: After DADT
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| from left: gay midshipmen Caitlin Bryant, Kay Moore, Nick Bonsall, and Andrew Atwill |
Last year, Andrew Atwil's roommate at the Naval
Academy joked that Atwill was gay, and Atwill told him to cut it out; because
he is gay. And because, last year, Atwill could have jeopardized his military
career if anyone know.
This year, though, it's a
different story at Annapolis. Now, with DADT repealed Atwill says the
academy has changed, and that now, talking about his sexual orientation is no
longer a reason to be drummed out of the military. In fact, most in the academy
now come to the defense of its gay and lesbian cadets.
Andrew Atwill:
"Pretty much everybody in my company knows now, [and] they actually
stand up for me."
As it should be.
Eight months after the repeal,
midshipmen both gay and straight describe a quiet but significant
transformation at the Naval Academy. Gay midshipmen are seeking recognition for
a student club, and, just last month, for the first time, faculty members and
staff openly attended an off-campus dinner that had been organized secretly
every year by and for gay midshipmen.
And this year, Andrew Atwill
and his boyfriend, classmate Nick Bonsall, are going to Saturday’s Ring Dance,
a formal ball held each spring for third-year midshipmen.
"It's been really great, actually," says Nick
Bonsall. "Everyone
has been really accepting of us."
As it should be.
The experience at Annapolis this year mirrors
those across the country at the other service academies, but some future
officers worry about what might happen upon graduation. While their generation
might be accepting, the majority of military personnel is still made up of
people of all ages and backgrounds, and some senior officers say privately that
they won't come out for fear of jeopardizing their careers.
Even Andrew Atwill, while aware of this new level of
understanding and tolerance, wonders what life will be like after leaving Annapolis
and joining the fleet: "For me, personally, it's still a concern. When I become an officer, I'm kind of worried about whether
or not my sailors will take it the wrong way if I give them a pat on the back
or, you know, happen to be in the bathroom at the same time as them. I'm
afraid that if they know that I'm gay, that if I was even to look at them
wrong, they may end up somehow turning that against me."
But not everyone sees any problems arising. Caitlyn
Bryant, a second-year midshipman, says, "In the fleet, it will be
good, you don't have to worry about what they might think your orientation is.
You can just focus on being a leader….People have accepted it."
As it should be.
And Defense Secretary Leon Panetta, however, doesn’t
foresee a problem. He says the repeal of DADT is going very well: "It's
not impacting on morale. It's not impacting on unit cohesion. It's not
impacting on readiness."
As it should be.
And change is coming to all branches. Gay cadets at
the U.S. Military Academy and the Coast Guard Academy are forming
clubs, while gay alumni at the Air Force Academy hosted their first football
tailgate last fall, and Air Force Academy and West Point gay alumni held
their annual dinners on campus for the first time.
Kara Yingling, a fourth-year midshipman , who is not gay,
says the majority of the student body "didn't make a big deal" of the
policy change: "We have seen more openly gay people, and I think that's
good for them, because they no longer have to live their lives in fear that
something's going to happen just because of their sexuality."
This Memorial Day will be, if possible, more
memorable, because of this new openness and honesty and acceptance.
As it should be.
Labels:
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Friday, May 04, 2012
Good News Friday: Gay Marine Says "I do" On Base
I can remember being a young kid and going out to
McClellan Air Force Base when my Dad returned from TDY in South East Asia, or
elsewhere. It was always a big to-do, with all the families and kids and people
waiting for their husbands, fathers, or sons to come home.
Still, I never thought I'd see this.
At Camp Pendleton last week, Cory Huston, a Navy veteran,
waited for his partner Marine Avarice Guerrero on the tarmac. But instead of
balloons or a Welcome Home signs, Huston dropped to one knee and proposed to
his partner, in what is believed to be the first proposal of marriage and engagement between two gay men--not to mention two war vets--on a US military base. Ever.
Huston, who was discharged under Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, paced nervously,
and practiced his simple proposal, as he waited for Guerrero. He knew
that, by proposing marriage, and assuming Guerrero would say yes, he would
not only be changing their lives forever, but also the landscape of marriage among lesbian and gay servicemembers.
Finally, Guerrero emerged, beaming as he saw Huston waiting
for him. He dropped his bags and hugged and kissed his partner. Less than a
year ago, you wouldn't have seen this kind of embrace on the tarmac, and you
certainly wouldn't have witnessed what happened next.
After a few minutes of emotional holding and kissing, Huston
went anxiously down on one knee; looked up at Guerrero, who was dressed from
head to toe in military fatigues; and
produced an engagement ring and
asked, “Will you marry me?”
Avarice Guerrero answered, “Yes.”
A simple question and a one word answer, and yet it
has taken us, as a community, and as a country, so long to get here.
And it's about time.
Best wishes, Cory and Avarice.
via LGBTweekly
Tuesday, May 01, 2012
Tea Party Activist Gary Stein Gets The Boot
I
love this story.
Gary Stein was a Sergeant in the Marine Corps. He's
also an avid supporter of the Tea Party and, as they are apt to be, quite the
anti-Obama Tea Partying Marine.
In fact, he is so anti-Obama that
he is vocal in his opposition to the Commander-In-Chief, and, on his Facebook
page has taken to calling the president, "The real enemy."
And or his outspokenness, and
threat to disobey any orders sent down via the president, Sgt. Gary Stein
has lost his bid to stay in the Marine Corps. Brig. Gen. Daniel Yoo ordered the
Stein, a veteran of nine years, be removed from the service with an
other-than-honorable discharge and reduction in rank to lance corporal.
A Marine can receive an
other-than-honorable discharge if the basis for his or her dismissal is a
serious offense representing a "significant departure from the conduct
expected." And, an other-than-honorable discharge means Stein loses
most of his veteran benefits.
Stein's attorney, Gary Kreep of
the United States Justice Foundation, says they will fight on,
pressing a federal court case and appealing through Marine Corps legal channels
for his reinstatement. His defenders are an unusual mix of attorneys with
ties to the Tea Party and other conservative causes, as well as the American
Civil Liberties Union.
In fact, ACLU attorney David
Loy said the legal team does not believe Stein's Facebook postings on his
Armed Forces Tea Party page and other sites are anything more than legitimate
and allowable expressions under the First Amendment.
Like when Stein said he would not
follow orders given by President Obama, the Commander-In-Chief, nor would he
ever salute the president.
When challenged, almost
instantly, by his fellow Marines about his comments, Stein backtracked,
withdrew them, apologized and later said what he meant was that he wouldn't
follow any "unlawful" orders issued by the commander in chief.
Which, of course, is not what he said.
And Marine prosecutors argue that
those statements, when combined with Stein's speeches at Tea Party gatherings,
and selling anti-Obama bumper stickers on his Armed Forces Tea
Party page, clearly broke the rules.
Here's my two cents: if you join
the military, your boss is the president of the United States. You don't like
that, then ask to be released. otherwise, do the job for which this country and
it's taxpayers ask of you.
I imagine there were quite a few
members of the military who weren't real keen on W's "War For Oil" or
"War For WMD" or "War For Saddam" but they followed orders
and did as they were told. Or, they asked to be released. Or, failing all that,
simply kept their mouths shut.
Gary Stein could take a lesson
from that last bit.
Although now, as a private
citizen, her can say and do whatever he wants, and become just another Tea
Party wingnut.
Labels:
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Wednesday, September 21, 2011
The Marines Are The First To Step Up
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| Master Sgt. Anthony Henry, center, and Staff Sgt. Chris Cano at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa |
He did joke that he left his Chevy where he could make a fast getaway: “I have an exit strategy. I know where my choke points are, I’ve strategically parked my car right on the curbside, I have an out.”
But there were no protests and no shouts. Instead, Sergeant Henry--who had been invited to set up his recruiting booth at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center--spent the day talking with several gay women who came in to ask about joining the Marines.
“It’s your business and you don’t have to share it,” Sergeant Henry told Ariel Pratt, who was still worried about a lesbian serving openly. “But you’re also free to be at the mall with your girlfriend.”
This is a huge step because the Marines were the service most opposed to ending DADT, and yet they were the only one of the five military invited branches of the military to turn up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with their recruiting table.
And, though the Marines pride themselves on being the most testosterone-fueled of the services, they also consider themselves the best, so it was important for them to be the first in line to recruit gay men and women, and to prove they are better than the Army, Navy, Air Force and Coast Guard.
Still, there wasn't a lot of traffic at Sergeant Henry's booth that day, but it's a first day of many more to come, when all Americans can serve proudly and openly if they choose.
full story at NY Times
Monday, June 14, 2010
Gay Bashing In Savannah


Down Savannah way, two Marines were jailed Saturday on misdemeanor battery charges after they beat up a gay man.
Misdemeanor? Seriously?
At about 4 AM, a metro police officer saw two men running on Congress Lane, and just minutes later he received a call about a man at Congress and Bull streets lying unconscious on the ground. The officer found 26-year-old Kieran Daly at that intersection.
The officer then caught up with the two men who were running away; both men, Keil Joseph Cronauer, 22, and Christopher Charles Stanzel, 23, are stationed at Marine Corps Air Station in Beaufort, South Carolina.
Ah yes, another South Carolina connection to hate and violence
Cronauer and Stanzel told police officers that they were being harassed by a gay man--he ALLEGEDLY winked at them--and simply wanted to get away, but witnesses offered a different story. They told police one of the men grew angry because he thought Daly was winking at him and so he naturally felt obligated to strike Kieran Daly in the back of the head with his fist, knocking him unconscious.
Kieran Daly says he never winked at the men, and, in fact, tired to explain what he was doing: "I told him, 'I was squinting, man. ... I'm tired.'" Daly also said one of the men told him he demanded respect because he served in Iraq, and then hurled slurs at him as he tried to walk away. "That's the last thing I remember is walking away."
Kieran Daly was taken to Memorial University Medical Center and diagnosed with bruises to his brain; he suffered two seizures immediately after the attack and was expected to remain hospitalized for several days.
For ALLEGEDLY winking.
When does a wink result in a blow to the head? And when do people wake up and realize that you can't beat someone, almost to death, because they looked at you, or because you think they looked at you, or because you're just a homophobic pig out looking for some gay as to beat down.
This nonsense must end. The perpetrators of these types of hate crimes, and since all parties agree that the Marine thought Daly was winking at him, it qualified as a hate crime, must be punished to the fullest extent of the law.
A wink shouldn't land you in the hospital. Or in jail.
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