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Friday, November 06, 2026

I Didn't Say It ...

Patrick Stewart, actor, LGBTQ+ icon, hero who passed away last week, on his support for our community:

“There was never a moment when I made an intellectual choice that I would be a supporter of gay civil rights. It was always a natural and uncomplicated choice. Then later in life, as I got to know well-known [LGBTQ+] activists like Ian McKellen, I was only too happy to join campaigns, march and support in whatever way I could because it always seemed to me to be something that much too much fuss was being made about.”

Marching for, speaking out for, standing up for, equality should never be a choice.

It should just be, so thank you Sir Patrick for all that you’ve done for our community.

RIP

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Ian McKellen, actor, paying tribute to his friend, actor Patrick Stewart, who passed away last week at age 86:

“Before everything else, Patrick was defined by being born and bred in Yorkshire, the proud county in the north of England which he loved to the end. You could hear it in his accented voice and in the stern honesty with which he told you what he thought and felt. Yorkshiremen have no truck with half-truths or avoidance of big issues. He wore his heart on his sleeve, which made him a man to rely on, to admire and in my case, love. My first strong memory was … meeting him in the street in central London when he told me about an offer to take over a leading part in ‘Star Trek.' He took the risk and thank goodness for us all that he did for not just his devoted Trekkies but film and theatre audiences, who marveled at his using international celebrity to star in a string of cinema successes (‘X-Men’ of course) and in great classical plays by Shakespeare, Ibsen, Arthur Miller, Peter Shaffer, Pinter and Beckett at Stratford-upon-Avon, in London’s West End and on Broadway. America was his adopted home, where he met his adored [wife] Sunny who has cared for him through sickness and health, through thick and thin."

Stewart lived a full life of good loves, good friends, good roles, good stories.

McKellen and Stewart made the best of friends.

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Abdul El-Sayed, Democrat Senator-elect from Michigan, billionaires and tax breaks:

“I remember an interaction with Jesse Watters about billionaires [and] he’s like, ‘Well, they work hard for the money.’ I’m like, ‘Do they?’ Once you have a billion dollars, you’re not working hard for anything. You billions make more billions. That’s the problem with the system. I would rather a system where we’re not helping a billionaire make a second billion, but instead [we are] helping a kid get a good education at a good school so maybe they can make their first million some day.”

Why not just have people pay their fair share of taxes; the billionaires won’t suddenly become poor, they’ll just have a fewer billion dollars until their money makes more money.

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Robert Reich, lawyer, and political commentator, on Leon Skum’s big Texas smack down:

“The richest man in the world spent more money that most people will see in a lifetime, only to lose a Senate race and a Governor’s race in Texas by double digits. This is a reminder that we must overturn Citizen’s United. But it’s also a reminder that organized people can still defeat organized money.”

It also shows how many people despise Leon Skum and his ilk and do whatever it takes to shut them down.

It also shows that We The People have the power.

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Danny Pintauro, out actor and film producer, on his decision to come out rather than be outed:

“For the last six months, I’ve been searching through storage for the original 1997 National Enquirer article about me coming out. And today, there it was. I was 21 years old, and the Enquirer had made it clear they were going to run a story about my sexuality whether I participated or not. So I made the decision to speak for myself. Seeing the actual article again almost 30 years later is surreal. And here’s something I had forgotten: all things considered, it’s actually pretty heartfelt. Yes, the headline is enormous and very 1997. But the story talks about the support I received from my family, Tony Danza and Judith Light, and even includes a message about courage and coming out from Chaz Bono. It’s wild to think how short the list of openly gay public figures still was in 1997, and how many people would come out publicly in the years that followed. That doesn’t change how complicated it was to have something so personal become national news before I was ready for it to happen on my own terms. But reading it now, I can also see a 21-year-old me trying to take control of a situation I hadn’t chosen and say, “If this story is going to be told, I want my voice in it.” And I’m kind of proud of him for that. And a little thank you to [Chaz Bono] too. Seeing those words of support sitting beside my story nearly 30 years later means more to me now than I probably understood at the time. Almost 30 years later, I finally have the actual piece of history back in my hands. Still gay. Still here. And very grateful that today, I get to decide how my story is told.”

Strong young man to take on that choice for himself at 21, and at a time when celebrities were not coming out.

And he’s still telling his story.

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29 comments:

  1. Danny Pintauro? Was he the little boy on Who's the Boss???? If so...he got HOT!!!!!

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  2. Anonymous9:08 AM

    the dog's mother
    xoxo :-)

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  3. I remember Danny Pintauro!
    I watch Who’s the Boss on Tubi?

    Patrick Stewart was a gem. And his friendship with Ian McKellen inspiring.
    Robert Reich is such a source of great political commentary, his social media is fire.
    I may be shallow, but Al-Sayed floods my basement.he’s intelligent AND looks like that?

    XOXO

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    1. I will go shallow, too, and say Abdul El-Sayed, when he smiles and his eyes twinkles, floods the whole lower level!
      xoxo

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  4. Activism is a choice. But it shouldn't have to be. There should be no need for it. But we thank whatever powers that be there are people with enough empathy and chutzpah to take part.
    El-Sayed is right about billionaires and millionaires. They work hard for the initial amount(s) (expect for nepos like Elon), but then the money just continues to make more money. At the billionaire level, they'd never run out.

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    1. Activism takes many forms; loud and in your face or quiet, yet still in your face.
      Billionaires need to be taxed fairly, plain and simple.

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  5. Patrick Stewart, as actor, was true 'class', one of the very few authentic best - much moreso, in my books, than McKellan who, in latter decades, too frequently resorted to lazy incoherent mumbling of his words. Great pity that I never saw the former live on stage - whereas I did see the latter TOO MANY times.

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    1. I have always been a fan of Stewart and always had a wee crush on him, too!

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    2. Yup, I can well understand that.

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  6. I'm all for the rich paying taxes commensurate to the amount of money they have. If Leon Skum had given the obscene amount of money he gave to the Repugnant Party to feed the starving around the world it would have been a far, far better thing than he has ever done before and likely ever will do.

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    1. But Leon only cares about Leon, not the hungry, the unhoused, the children. Hell, he fights to not pay child support for his own spawn.

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  7. Anonymous1:01 PM

    Back in the 1950’s the top tax rate was 91 percent, and the very wealthy lived very well. Also, the tax code encouraged investment in the USA which generated economic growth that benefitted everyone, not just the very few.
    So much for their argument on taxation.
    They’re the ones who want the free lunch at everyone else’s expense.
    -Rj

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    1. Notice MacKenzie Scott Bezos received $38 billion when she divorced Bezos and has given $27M to charities and is still one of the richest people in the world.
      The billionaires don't NEED all those coins, but their egos do.

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  8. I am so glad that Danny Pintauro is surviving! So many child stars don't.

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    1. I was impressed he came out before the story broke, especially given he was just 21.

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  9. Pintauro's recollections are interesting. It IS funny how coming out was such a scandal back then. Reich is right that "organized people can still defeat organized money."

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    1. 1997 was quite a different time; not a lot of celebrities were out.
      I think we, well, the people of Texas proved that when they handed Leon Skum his ass on Tuesday.

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  10. Anonymous1:29 PM

    So proud of El-Sayed, putting the sick bigots in their place with his historic win.
    Reich is so concise and spot on, I hope he is considered for a cabinet position in 2028.
    Rex in DC

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    1. El-Sayed took no prisoners, gave no fucks, but proved himself to be the best candidate.

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  11. I love Robert Reich’s statement about organized people defeating organized money. That has been an element of the mid-terms that has been so especially satisfying for me.

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    1. We The People need to always remember this election because we learned that we actually have the power when we vote.

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  12. Power to the people has never been more meaningful! xoxo

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    1. And we can't forget what we can do when we use that power. xoxo

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  13. I agree that Billionaires should pay taxes, to them it would be like removing five cornflakes from the bowl and still having enough left for breakfast.

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  14. If Patrick Stewart had put himself forward to be the first President of Yorkshire, I would have voted for him. There'd have been no grift, no cryptocurrency and no frigging golden ballrooms! Instead he would have ruled with intelligent magnanimity. Perhaps I could have been his Pudding House press secretary.

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    1. You'd have made a great team!

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  15. Great quotation from Abdul El-Sayed. He's absolutely correct!

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